So instead of having a goal of a man's physiques, you'd rather a woman? Wow.
as someone who goes to the gym a lot, and is inspired by several bodybuilders, especially women, what is wrong with by being inspired by a womens physique?
I wouldnt be surprised if she is a grandmother by now. Maybe she felt she was too old to be doing this, maybe she didnt want her grandkids stumbling on her content, maybe she settled down with a man, who knows. All I do know is that women who do this kind of content, most quit early while a smaller percentage stick around. Steele still looks young and hot for her age. If she is moving on, I can only respect that.
She's either into you or she isn't. You're not going to come up with the perfect thing to say that charms her, especially when you're getting this nervous about it. Just be direct and ask her out.
Long term, regardless of what happens with her, you need to work on your confidence. Beating yourself up because you didn't say the perfect thing is a telltale sign that you lack confidence in yourself. Perfectionism and imposter syndrome often go hand in hand. All else being equal, confidence is the biggest force multiplier that a guy has.
Confidence only marginally raises a man’s odds of not being called a creep for glancing more than two seconds at a sexy, beautiful girl at the gym (or anywhere else for that matter).
Because in the end, a man either has that thing which drives the ladies wild.
fancy that. Some people are here for the male women, and some for the female men, but I too am here for the female women (pardon my anti-wokeness).
LOL where is this even coming from when I'm talking about posing suits?
Is it because I simply brought up the fact that male bodybuilders spend less money? Does even mentioning "male bodybuilder" mean that you guys have to assert your sexuality? I get it, you like girls. Congrats.
i think lost in all this is that many (most?) of the women ...well it helps them feel more feminine and gosh darn it no matter how much i see them say it i do not believe they feel feminine often with the muscle some of them area carrying. same with adding any jewelry, weaves, make up, nails. men do none fo this, but the act of bodybuilding to them is masculine, i think we'd agree for most.
I think you're entirely correct on that. But the question is: who's putting the pressure on them to be feminine? Is it them, or is it the bodybuilding establishment?
Going back to UFC: I'm not gonna say that those ladies are acting stereotypically feminine. They put their hair in cornrows and beat the absolute piss out of each other. I don't think this invalidates them as women, but it sure ain't Sex and The City.
Bodybuilders? I think you're correct that there's a sensitivy there. Large muscles are traditionally masculine. Testosterone levels over 1000 are also traditionally masculine. So a lot of ladies do have some discomfort with this and tend to overcompensate for it.
But I firmly believe that the over-the-top pageantry of huge makeup, sparkle suits, lucite heels, and prom hair is an (attempted) way for the NPC and IFBB to sell this look to (1) men and (2) other women - in that order.
Which is okay: the girls sign on for this and willfully participate. No one forces them. I just think that the management should be more conscious of the expenses borne by female competitors. They could easily knock out the suit cost.
This whole thread has devolved into a "kettle calling the pot black" scenario.
If any of you found your way onto this website in the first place (let alone make an account and like/download images), you don't really have the prerogative to deride anyone else for being a schmoe, pathetic, or self-depreciating here.
This whole thread has devolved into a "kettle calling the pot black" scenario.
If any of you found your way onto this website in the first place (let alone make an account and like/download images), you don't really have the prerogative to deride anyone else for being a schmoe, pathetic, or self-depreciating here.
More of a confession but I become extremely disappointed when I see a lady get a massive tattoo around her forearm that extends to her hand. She can obviously have whatever modification she wants done and i wouldn't want to deny anyone modifying their body in any way but man does it suck to see.
Amazonafit got a sleeve on her arm and I just had to unsubscribe be cause it just found it too distracting. She has what is probably the perfect combination of beauty, mass, strength and thickness not to mention I love her hairstyle but it was such a heartbreaker to see that hand tattoo. I've even come along to Kristina Mendoza and her forearm tats but a hand tat is far too much for me. More of a vent/confession but yeah I definitely hate seeing ladies get these massive tats.
I was always skinny growing up. Narrow frame as a man. I think my physique goals have become more to become like one of the muscular women on here. Not freakishly large, but with my narrow frame i am looking for goal physiques.
I have decent arms, shoulders are somewhat narrow for a guy. 5Ft 10 185.
One of my favorites has been alexis lunar body. I am taller than her of course, but i want her arms, shoulders and nice abs. I already have a decent butt but always keep working on that.
Who would be some of your goal physiques? I know its a little unusual as a man to go for a female physique but i think its way more attainable and probably healthy for me than the freakishly large male bodybuilder physiques.
So instead of having a goal of a man's physiques, you'd rather a woman? Wow.
I hate. I know it's live and let live but some of these guys here are pitiful and weirdos. No wonder why these females be playin' y'all on OF. I'd take you money and block you too if you spoke the way some of these guys speak on here.
Group 1 Mohn, Kelly, Caceres
Group 2 Raducu, Ritter, Linhartova
Group 3 Leonova, Cicerelli, Fuchs
Group 4 Aycock, Hejna, Lopez
Group 5 Seindlis, Priami, Coelho
Group 6 Shaw, Blanchard, Brand
Group 7 Villegas, Barros, Cuartero
Group 8 Kovaleva, Chartrand, Soltero
Hey, fellas, please don't let this thread die. I know it's only been in play for a weekend, but it felt good to be "with my people" on this and it should continue.
P.S. anyone here every notice, no matter how womanly a female bodybuilder is, when they hit a strong back double biceps pose, the muscles look like a man's back? I've been noticing this a lot lately, especially in the contest footage from the 90's - thru -2000's and it's really impressive to me
Yes, that's what I love, when female bodybuilders start showing off their muscles, inevitably several men will be jealous and as well as envious of their muscularity
Amazing triceps
Yes u can see those in the abs tabs. U have to look at several b4 finding another one.
as someone who goes to the gym a lot, and is inspired by several bodybuilders, especially women, what is wrong with by being inspired by a womens physique?
I wouldnt be surprised if she is a grandmother by now. Maybe she felt she was too old to be doing this, maybe she didnt want her grandkids stumbling on her content, maybe she settled down with a man, who knows. All I do know is that women who do this kind of content, most quit early while a smaller percentage stick around. Steele still looks young and hot for her age. If she is moving on, I can only respect that.
Confidence only marginally raises a man’s odds of not being called a creep for glancing more than two seconds at a sexy, beautiful girl at the gym (or anywhere else for that matter).
Because in the end, a man either has that thing which drives the ladies wild.
Or he’s coping ^_^
I think he's just poking fun at the phrase.
Have you guys seen pictures like these? Curious to see if there are many more like this.
LOL where is this even coming from when I'm talking about posing suits?
Is it because I simply brought up the fact that male bodybuilders spend less money? Does even mentioning "male bodybuilder" mean that you guys have to assert your sexuality? I get it, you like girls. Congrats.
fancy that. Some people are here for the male women, and some for the female men, but I too am here for the female women (pardon my anti-wokeness).
I think you're entirely correct on that. But the question is: who's putting the pressure on them to be feminine? Is it them, or is it the bodybuilding establishment?
Going back to UFC: I'm not gonna say that those ladies are acting stereotypically feminine. They put their hair in cornrows and beat the absolute piss out of each other. I don't think this invalidates them as women, but it sure ain't Sex and The City.
Bodybuilders? I think you're correct that there's a sensitivy there. Large muscles are traditionally masculine. Testosterone levels over 1000 are also traditionally masculine. So a lot of ladies do have some discomfort with this and tend to overcompensate for it.
But I firmly believe that the over-the-top pageantry of huge makeup, sparkle suits, lucite heels, and prom hair is an (attempted) way for the NPC and IFBB to sell this look to (1) men and (2) other women - in that order.
Which is okay: the girls sign on for this and willfully participate. No one forces them. I just think that the management should be more conscious of the expenses borne by female competitors. They could easily knock out the suit cost.
Sh!ttin' me.
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This whole thread has devolved into a "kettle calling the pot black" scenario.
If any of you found your way onto this website in the first place (let alone make an account and like/download images), you don't really have the prerogative to deride anyone else for being a schmoe, pathetic, or self-depreciating here.
Danica D'Ambrosio (military_muscle_blonde)
More of a confession but I become extremely disappointed when I see a lady get a massive tattoo around her forearm that extends to her hand. She can obviously have whatever modification she wants done and i wouldn't want to deny anyone modifying their body in any way but man does it suck to see.
Amazonafit got a sleeve on her arm and I just had to unsubscribe be cause it just found it too distracting. She has what is probably the perfect combination of beauty, mass, strength and thickness not to mention I love her hairstyle but it was such a heartbreaker to see that hand tattoo. I've even come along to Kristina Mendoza and her forearm tats but a hand tat is far too much for me. More of a vent/confession but yeah I definitely hate seeing ladies get these massive tats.
Kang Chumni
As I've said before: the self-deprecation on the forum is too much for me.
You guys take yourselfs too seriously it's like. "I am not like the other schmoes please pick me"
So instead of having a goal of a man's physiques, you'd rather a woman? Wow.
I hate. I know it's live and let live but some of these guys here are pitiful and weirdos. No wonder why these females be playin' y'all on OF. I'd take you money and block you too if you spoke the way some of these guys speak on here.
Group 1 Mohn, Kelly, Caceres Group 2 Raducu, Ritter, Linhartova Group 3 Leonova, Cicerelli, Fuchs Group 4 Aycock, Hejna, Lopez Group 5 Seindlis, Priami, Coelho Group 6 Shaw, Blanchard, Brand Group 7 Villegas, Barros, Cuartero Group 8 Kovaleva, Chartrand, Soltero
Yes, that's what I love, when female bodybuilders start showing off their muscles, inevitably several men will be jealous and as well as envious of their muscularity