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Bisexual guy here. These kind of statements come up a lot, and hopefully I can shed some light on it.
First off, I think it's important to separate actual sexuality (straight or gay) with carnal attraction (can be all over the map).
So let's address the latter. Stuff that turns us on. Since the dawn of time, guys have been attracted to all sorts of other humans. As much as we say that we're 100% straight or 100% gay... brain scans taken whilst watching pornography tell a different story. It's honestly quite normal to find certain aspects of the same gender attractive and sexually arousing.
That's just human. Certain aspects of society and religion have made it shameful for men (less so for women), but the feelings are there, irregardless of how much some may deny them.
Now sexuality, that's quite different. You say that you're straight, so I imagine that you're attracted to a lot of different women. You clearly like muscular girls. But you probably like classically beautiful girls (Dua Lipa, Kylie Jenner, Zendaya, etc), and you probably find fairly normal girls in your everyday life to be attractive. Maybe you're in a relationship with one. That's sexuality.
If you're also attracted to pretty masculine-ish muscle girls.. and maybe to very feminine-ish muscle guys.. that doesn't make you gay. It makes you someone who like humans with big muscles and certain strong features.
If you're gonna be gay, you're going to not only like Angie Yeo but also Tom Hardy and Ryan Gosling and normal good looking dudes in media, and also totally normal dudes on the street. And I imagine that's not the case.
My big point of all this: unless you're fretting over to ask out the cute guy at work with the buff forearms, don't worry about it and enjoy whatever fantasy p0rn gets you off.
If you're also attracted to pretty masculine-ish muscle girls.. and maybe to very feminine-ish muscle guys.. that doesn't make you gay. It makes you someone who like humans with big muscles and certain strong features.
Yeah, that’s why I like the term “androsexual”. A large, strong, masculine person just makes me melt, regardless of gender 🥰
Yeah, that’s why I like the term “androsexual”. A large, strong, masculine person just makes me melt, regardless of gender 🥰
LOL never heard that but I LOVE IT. I'm gonna use that too.. thank you!
Also if anyone out there wants their brain fried, check out the premier Men's Wellness competitor from Brazil...
https://www.instagram.com/ssan_moraes/
He's so attractive to me that I nearly can't take it. It's also hilarious to watch people lose their mind in the comments (WHY IS THIS MAN COMPETING AGAINST WOMEN!?!) without realizing that he's a man (albeit a seriously feminine and pretty man) who competes against other guys in a mens competition. Reading comprehension and critical thought isn't usually a big priority for bigots, I guess.
Bisexual guy here. These kind of statements come up a lot, and hopefully I can shed some light on it.
First off, I think it's important to separate actual sexuality (straight or gay) with carnal attraction (can be all over the map).
So let's address the latter. Stuff that turns us on. Since the dawn of time, guys have been attracted to all sorts of other humans. As much as we say that we're 100% straight or 100% gay... brain scans taken whilst watching pornography tell a different story. It's honestly quite normal to find certain aspects of the same gender attractive and sexually arousing.
That's just human. Certain aspects of society and religion have made it shameful for men (less so for women), but the feelings are there, irregardless of how much some may deny them.
Now sexuality, that's quite different. You say that you're straight, so I imagine that you're attracted to a lot of different women. You clearly like muscular girls. But you probably like classically beautiful girls (Dua Lipa, Kylie Jenner, Zendaya, etc), and you probably find fairly normal girls in your everyday life to be attractive. Maybe you're in a relationship with one. That's sexuality.
If you're also attracted to pretty masculine-ish muscle girls.. and maybe to very feminine-ish muscle guys.. that doesn't make you gay. It makes you someone who like humans with big muscles and certain strong features.
If you're gonna be gay, you're going to not only like Angie Yeo but also Tom Hardy and Ryan Gosling and normal good looking dudes in media, and also totally normal dudes on the street. And I imagine that's not the case.
My big point of all this: unless you're fretting over to ask out the cute guy at work with the buff forearms, don't worry about it and enjoy whatever fantasy p0rn gets you off.
I hear what you're saying and it's definitely valid but those feelings do creep in. This is a confessional thread so that's what I decided to divulge. We're talking about women that are borderline 200lbs even when in lean contest shape. Even when you look at Andrea Shaw's transition from physique to bodybuilding you can see a very noticeable change in her jawline and when those features become that prevalent on certain specific women, I do tend to question myself from time to time.
If liking this makes me “gay”, then I don’t care; it feels so good 🥰 https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4IxivCLLmo/?i...
I hear what you're saying and it's definitely valid but those feelings do creep in. This is a confessional thread so that's what I decided to divulge. We're talking about women that are borderline 200lbs even when in lean contest shape. Even when you look at Andrea Shaw's transition from physique to bodybuilding you can see a very noticeable change in her jawline and when those features become that prevalent on certain specific women, I do tend to question myself from time to time.
There’s an interesting distinction between muscular men and women. Even really virilized women.
A big part of the appeal is the counterculture, flipped expectations of the weaker sex being stronger.
Hello watching muscle worship, and domination videos with a female bodybuilder. I can’t stand it with a male bodybuilder. The male versions of these videos seem ridiculous.
it’s not due to a lack of attraction - I am seriously attracted to lots of male bodybuilders.
Anyway, I guess what I’m saying, is that even with large muscles and masculine secondary sex characteristics, a really muscular woman is still different from a man. The fact that you like it so much makes you definitely kinky and different, but I really disagree that it makes you gay.
I also don’t think that liking the Brazilian male wellness guy makes anyone gay. He’s beautiful and muscular and objectively really feminine.
Attractions and turn-on’s and fetishes can be strange and inexplicable and that’s totally okay.
As a man, it’s scary when we think become aroused by people outside of the accepted box, but believe me, the vast majority of us do. We just deny it. Even to ourselves.
If liking this makes me “gay”, then I don’t care; it feels so good 🥰 https://www.instagram.com/reel/C4IxivCLLmo/?i...
Lol same. She’s amazing and liking her doesn’t make you gay.
Being into a totally unremarkable guy makes you gay.
If that link went through to Paul Giamatti, I’d be like… you might be gay.
If that link went through to Paul Giamatti, I’d be like… you might be gay.
Lmao good point. Yeah, that old, frail prune does nothing for me. I’d rather have these chicks in my bed; I giggle just seeing them 🥰🥵
I mean, I don't find these girls to be super virilized. I like them too!
I thought you were more in the Amazonka / Rheta West world. I think you just like huge strong women. Many of us are right there with you.
This confession could potentially be something that others on this forum have felt but I haven't seen it explored much before. So every now and again I kinda sorta feel my sexuality coming into question when it comes to my attractiveness to the big gals (Think of those on the Ms. Olympia level) due to the virilization side effects they attain from PED use. I am hyper attracted to women who look like Tayione, Camille Gonzalez, or Harmony Doughty but at the same time there's something so appealing about seeing how massive and peeled women like Andrea Shaw, Angie Yeo, or Nukhet Karahan can get that it also gets me super turned on as well. Yet, I consider myself to be 100% straight. Sometimes it's so conflicting and makes me feel a bit sus at times but I still roll with it. I can be very picky and choosy about it too. For example, Paige Dumars and Monia Gioiosa do absolutely nothing for me, but it's a completely different story when it comes to women like Raquel Tofani. I'm also very turned off by Sheila Bleck's voice, but on the flipside I like how "heavy" Brittani Parrish and Angie Yeo's voices sound. I'll definitely take Valentina' Mishina's physique but you can leave her voice at the door. It's a very weird conundrum for me.