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> > Wait what? “If I ever had the chance”?? If this was real, I’d be making flight reservations.
It is real but not everybody has the opportunity or money to do whatever they want. What would be my reason to make it up? None of you know me.
I’m not questioning whether it’s real or not. Even if it doesn’t work out I’d at least give it a go. No money for a flight? Ok, can’t you drive there or if you don’t drive get your mom to take you to the bus station. Nothing gained if you just talk about it and not act.
> I actually have had contact with a former FBB, but just over phone calls and texts so far. She is a fairly well known woman in the FBB world but now just competes in powerlifting. She has told me if I want to, she would take me out on the town where she lives (New Orleans) and I’m sure it would be part of a session deal but she never brought up money. She sent me some pictures of her in recent competitions and man, is she strong as hell. I would love to take her up on that if I ever get a chance. She made me feel that she also could establish a friendship beyond just a monetary thing. By the way, she still had some huge biceps, which is really a thing for me and she has pictures on this site.
Wait what? “If I ever had the chance”?? If this was real, I’d be making flight reservations.
Okay, some of this scenario is realistic and some is fantasy.
If you go to sessiongirls, then many of the women who are doing hourly sessions would also go to dinner and have a night on the town with you. I've never personally done that, but I've heard of it happening.
It's expensive. If the girl is like $700 for an hour of muscle worship, then you might pay something like $2500 to take her to dinner and dancing. It's called a GFE (girlfriend experience) date. This is a super common offering for escorts.
So if it's your dream to have a night out on the town with an FBB - that's totally realistic. Just gonna cost you.
Establishing a friendship bond beyond a monetary thing? Maybe. Probably not. If you've ever been with an escort or you've ever been to a strip club, then you know: this is the pitch. The girls tease you and turn you on. You're supposed to believe that she's into you and that she's turned on by you. Doesn't mean that's the case. From their perspective, you're just another customer (one of many), and their job is to make you feel special. Nothing more than that.
And that's not a bad thing. I absolutely love being a customer of these women. Once you lose the self delusion that "she's really into me," and you just embrace paying for what you want, it's SOOOO good.
Okay, some of this scenario is realistic and some is fantasy.
If you go to sessiongirls, then many of the women who are doing hourly sessions would also go to dinner and have a night on the town with you. I've never personally done that, but I've heard of it happening.
It's expensive. If the girl is like $700 for an hour of muscle worship, then you might pay something like $2500 to take her to dinner and dancing. It's called a GFE (girlfriend experience) date. This is a super common offering for escorts.
So if it's your dream to have a night out on the town with an FBB - that's totally realistic. Just gonna cost you.
Establishing a friendship bond beyond a monetary thing? Maybe. Probably not. If you've ever been with an escort or you've ever been to a strip club, then you know: this is the pitch. The girls tease you and turn you on. You're supposed to believe that she's into you and that she's turned on by you. Doesn't mean that's the case. From their perspective, you're just another customer (one of many), and their job is to make you feel special. Nothing more than that.
And that's not a bad thing. I absolutely love being a customer of these women. Once you lose the self delusion that "she's really into me," and you just embrace paying for what you want, it's SOOOO good.
So what, you think I’m in the first grade. I know about all that stuff. If she wants to go out with me, I’m not paying extra for it. I’ll pay for the dinner and drinks. If she doesn’t want it like that then we’ll just do the session and calm it a night.
So what, you think I’m in the first grade. I know about all that stuff. If she wants to go out with me, I’m not paying extra for it. I’ll pay for the dinner and drinks. If she doesn’t want it like that then we’ll just do the session and calm it a night.
Well I was responding to the guy who responded to you... saying "If this was real, I’d be making flight reservations."
I'm a big customer of FBB's and I love doing sessions. I'm not ashamed to pay for their time. Just telling everyone that it's possible to book them for a GFE or a "date."
Maybe she will go out with you at no charge. Depends on how late she's booked I guess. Hope that it happens for you.
That's probably why you see so many of them flocking to Dubai. They go where the money is.
Not just women, believe me. Dubai is a huge spot for male bodybuilders to go and charge beaucoup bucks for muscle worship.
> Houston has had a ton of FBBs over the past 20 years or so. I have personally seen Melissa Dettwiller, Gina Davis, Nat Rochner, and Macey Toney around town in that time, so they are around. Now, meeting them and trying to date them is a different matter. Most want someone who is as into the physique industry as they are. I've lifted since I started playing jr high football, so I'm immersed in training and truly love it, but I have never been in physique sports and never have used a bit of gear. That excludes me pretty much from that world. The one of them I met was Gina Davis, though, and she was very nice and seemed very nice and open to meeting men in general. > > Other than that, just hit hardcore gyms in larger towns and fitness expos. Or become a photog. They meet and befriend more muscular women than anyone. Show promoters do very well, too. JM Manion had bikini and figure girls all around him, even though he was never to be mistaken for Brad Pitt.
I’m in the Houston area also and have been going to a big national chain gym here. I’ve seen some pretty buff women but so far, none that I would call FBB level
If you go to a bodybuilding gym or an influencer gym in Houston like Alphaland, you'll find plenty.
So what, you think I’m in the first grade. I know about all that stuff. If she wants to go out with me, I’m not paying extra for it. I’ll pay for the dinner and drinks. If she doesn’t want it like that then we’ll just do the session and calm it a night.
I've never had to pay extra fees for a dinner date when I did sessions -- I just paid for dinner. I've done dinner with several women, even big names in the session world. If you are clean, respectful, and interesting enough, a relaxing dinner with you is a welcome respite from catering to schmoes all day. Don't expect more than a fun evening, just relax and vibe with her.
You realize you’re a schmoe, right?
This is still an interesting word. The standard definition that most commonly applies is "a non-bodybuilder". Then sometimes it is used to connote a creepy, socially awkward person with a muscle interest.
I think in this case he's thinking of something in between. He is not a schmoe in the sense he means it because he had the confidence and the social skills to ask her out and she agreed. Assuming that no other customer of that day could have done the same. He's halfway in, halfway out.
About talking to and meeting women at the gym. In my gym, it seems women and men don’t meet or talk unless they already know each other.
I think this is a generational thing. IMO the 35 and younger crowd have different social skills and preferences compared to the older gym crowd. This based on observation and personal experience.
Before Covid, my wife and I belonged to a big box gym in an affluent part of Brooklyn. We are both middle aged but we stay in shape and look and act much younger. At the time we would often go to the gym at different times but occasionally we overlapped. I noticed guys constantly talking to my wife. And she’s polite and not dismissive. If the conversation evolved, these guys would strategically mention jobs, wealth etc. Now, the average gym members were financial or healthcare professionals, lawyers; some had families or were divorced. The point is they were secure and confident and had no trouble approaching women.
Confident and secure dudes, who also are in shape (they’re not bbs) and 35 or 40+ years old have fewer issues with approaching women. I think younger people prefer social media and apps instead.
This being the Internet, whether it's truly real or not does not matter in the end. The only thing you can offer is the plausibility or implausibility of the story itself. What people will feel about it will not change regardless of the actual facts or later assurances. It's not possible but luckily not even necessary to prove it either way. That nobody knows you actually cuts both ways. To me your story is plausible, but to answer your question I'd say people tend to make stuff up to get attention.
Also, the phrase "if this was real" can be ignored. Or taken simply as a rhetorical device, an expression of amazement, instead of actually challenging the veracity of your story.
Another thing is that not many would buy plane tickets even if they had the money. People who do usually have already done something like it before. That is, met new people in similar circumstances. Also think Charlie Brown and the little red-haired girl. The mystique could well evaporate if you took her up on her offer. For some people this might cause part of the reluctance too. You going there could potentially ruin it for you but not for those who aren't actually doing it.