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> We are living in a godless, evil age where a man can be publicly humiliated and disgraced just for glancing at a sexy pritty kitty at the gym. What makes you think there is a good time or place to find a muscular pritty kitty to call your own? There isn’t!
Uh, my man, that’s not a healthy outlook at all.
Sometimes the truth is like a diagnosis of cancer from the doctor; it does no good to anyone except the cancer to reject it or ignore it.
I'm not saying things cannot get better but, until such evil is repented of, until the tumor is treated or removed, the situation is not going to improve.
> We are living in a godless, evil age where a man can be publicly humiliated and disgraced just for glancing at a sexy pritty kitty at the gym. What makes you think there is a good time or place to find a muscular pritty kitty to call your own? There isn’t!
Legit lol.
Yeah, I'm sure it's just the godless evil age that's holding you back from bedding countless "pritty kitties."
Funny how normal, fairly fit guys who aren't crazy don't have a difficult time simply saying hello and giving a compliment or two, but that's clearly out of reach for some dudes. I guess it's easier to blame women or blame society in general though.
Na, man, you must have missed all the videos of women in the gym trying to get TikTok famous. A lot are taking videos of guys and they’ll just do stuff like be waiting for the squat rack on their phone while the girl squats. And those girls are yelling about harassment or feeling uncomfortable or whatever. It’s pretty much always a ploy to try to get TikTok/instagram famous. It’s a shame cuz then the times when someone actually is being really creepy, saying or doing horrible things, it doesn’t hold any weight to it. Classic boy (or in this case girl) who cried wolf. Luckily, everyone’s catching on so all of us that go to actually legit train aren’t having it and not giving those women the time of day or acknowledging it or whatever.
I’m in the UK and have just matched on Facebook Dating with a very, very big and muscular woman. I’m actually in a bit of awe. She is in my hometown and is so broad and yolked that I have to post here to share the news.
Can’t go in to too much detail as she has a very unique name and is easily googled. All I will say is that she competes in both the Olympics and the Commonwealth Games, she competes in the 87kg category, she’s medaled, and she can put well over 100kg over her head. She lives… within a mile and a bit of me. I’m going to say hi now.
So far it’s all one word answers. Oh well. Will try starting any form of conversation for another day or two, but if this keeps up, I’ll unmatch her
I don't know how Facebook Dating works. Did you share your picture? Do you lift?
Facebook Dating is really simple honestly. You just have your regular profile page, complete all the parts you want to about yourself personally, and then select a bit that says, are you looking to date? You then choose age, radius and gender, and that’s about it. It then goes a bit Tindery where you swipe yes or no, and if someone else swipes yes on you, then you match. You also get told if someone else swipes yes on you, but you may not have seen them yet. You then get asked if you want to match with them. It’s pretty good to be fair.
So to answer your questions, yes I do share a couple of pictures. I don’t lift, but I do cycle (as in, bike, not steroids!), and I used to do CrossFit until a couple years back. Not that you could tell by looking at me now. I’m a pretty big unit though. 6’3”, 200+ lbs, and not really fat, although there is a slight paunch.
This girl I matched with is 5’7”, over 87kg, (I think she’s over 90kg as the 87kg was taken in 2019), and she can C&J over 130kg, and can snatch jussst shy of 100kg.
Sadly though, as before, she’s all one word answers, and is kinda exhausting and maddening to interact with. I’m probably not her type 🙂
It's very hard to meet people that way, most people lie. I'd suggest going out and talking to people in real life. You may get shot down 9/10 times but maybe the 10th will work out. I also think that post may be BS.
Believe what you like, it’s not BS at all. I’m not giving out her name or posting any pics because, like I said, she has a very distinctive name, and is easily googleable, and Facebookable too. She is a UK based weightlifter, who has medaled. She’s not on this site but I have briefly had a nose through her friends list (because muscular women are friends with muscular women) and one of her friends is in this site, and she’s also a weightlifter with a distinctive name, although she’s not based in the UK.
I'm not sure if this is gonna help or not, but Imma FleetYeet it into the arena in case it does. I have had quite a few good, full relationships with muscular women. Some have been FBB's , but most have been what you'd call 'everyday women,' not in the sense that they were anything mundane, dull, or average, just that they were not big fitness stars or up and coming FBB's who live to compete. Several of these women were, believe it or not, completely outside the fitness industry entirely! The 2 most muscular ones did not belong to a gym and did not work out! They both got plenty of exercise; one by being into hobbies that required the lifting of heavy objects, the other by being into nonprofessional sports (in this case being on the rowing team funded by her work) that require a lot of strength.
Both of these women were exceptionally strong and muscular, and neither had ever been into the fitness/bodybuilding scene, so neither had ever taken PED's. They were both members of that rare offshoot species of muscular women which many to this day deny exists at all- Very strong, very muscular women who are 100% natty.
These women exist. There are more of them out there than people think, and they are in no way second best to pro FBB's. These women tend to not display their muscles to the degree that FBB's do, so you have to watch for them. NOT stalk them to hell and back, just watch. You'll learn to spot them.
I have also been able to gain the interest of 4 FBB's (at separate times lol not all at once, as in over roughly a 10 year period) who are quite well known. I did this by way of becoming their online friend, without ever actually hitting on them or using pickup lines or dating apps or any of that shit. Each time, we just..started talking and next thing I know there were relationships happening.
There is no trick to this. It isn't something I can do at will. I truly believe it only happened because I WAS NOT TRYING TO HOOK UP. I was crazy attracted to these women, and had been way before I ever got into conversations with them. If there is any secret, it was the fact that I never gave off that sort of INCEL needy vibe. This is because I went inside my own head and predatorially HUNTED those urges down and straight murdered them because that is the number 1 fail that I see men doing constantly. Appearing needy. Thirsty. Clingy. Women immediately feel that vibe and in their minds it becomes Creepazoid Cringe.
So what I'm saying is, keep your eyes & ears open, but avoid saying stuff like OH MY GOD I MUST HAVE A MUSCULAR WOMAN OR MY LIFE WILL SUCK FOREVER! Just quietly steer your boat in the general direction you want, be cool, and just let...it...GO. Sounds almost naive, but when that attitude becomes your own attitude for real, then you might see the women you seek fluttering into your orbit.
I met a female bodybuilder in Germany on a dating app. At the beginning everything went well, we started talking and even met a few times. Unfortunately nothing has happened, not even kissing... nevermind. At some point she must have lost interest. At that time she was in the competition phase between several competitions and was fully focused. She even won two classes in her first competition. Unfortunately, that was the only topic we could talk about. She hardly had any other hobbies or interests to talk about. Sure, bodybuilding was her life. She then gave shorter and shorter answers or took longer and longer to answer me... until at some point she completely ghosted me. Maybe she just was not into me... That's really a shame. She has such a nice and ripped body. I don't think I'll ever get another chance with a female bodybuilder again... but who knows.
I met a female bodybuilder in Germany on a dating app. At the beginning everything went well, we started talking and even met a few times. Unfortunately nothing has happened, not even kissing... nevermind. At some point she must have lost interest. At that time she was in the competition phase between several competitions and was fully focused. She even won two classes in her first competition. Unfortunately, that was the only topic we could talk about. She hardly had any other hobbies or interests to talk about. Sure, bodybuilding was her life. She then gave shorter and shorter answers or took longer and longer to answer me... until at some point she completely ghosted me. Maybe she just was not into me... That's really a shame. She has such a nice and ripped body. I don't think I'll ever get another chance with a female bodybuilder again... but who knows.
Did you ever tell her how you felt?
Nope, never. But I guess she knew, that I liked her. I didn't need to tell her. I was never needy, thirsty or clingy, ask her for some pictures etc. or commented how stunning she was. I never did that, but I tried to ask her for a fourth date two times, but she said she has no time.
End of the story: a few months later she has a bf... which is, like me, not a bodybuilder. So I guess she was not into me. That's life :/
But I got a gf again. Unfortunately she is not into fitness, but she has a slim and petite body. She loves me and I love her :)
Nope, never. But I guess she knew, that I liked her. I didn't need to tell her. I tried to ask her for a fourth date two times, but she said she has no time. End of the story: a few months later she has a bf... which is, like me, not a bodybuilder. So I guess she was not into me. That's life :/
That's the thing man you shouldn't expect everybody to know how you feel without you being open about it and the fact that she actually went on a date with you 3 times meant she found you interesting anyways better luck next time and please be explicit about your feelings you can start with a little compliment here and there but don't stop till you let her know how really feel about her because the chances of getting a female bodybuilder is very very slim
Thanks for your advice, I will consider it next time^^ But if I ask you out for another date several times, it should be clear that I am into you :D and I was giving her compliments on her IG or WhatsApp status here and then, but not overwhelming often to look like a schmoe. The way she talked/wrote to me, answered in two/three words messages or like 20 hours later, showed me I can be nice, patient and supportive as I wanted... she would not reply my feelings.
I actually have had contact with a former FBB, but just over phone calls and texts so far. She is a fairly well known woman in the FBB world but now just competes in powerlifting. She has told me if I want to, she would take me out on the town where she lives (New Orleans) and I’m sure it would be part of a session deal but she never brought up money. She sent me some pictures of her in recent competitions and man, is she strong as hell. I would love to take her up on that if I ever get a chance. She made me feel that she also could establish a friendship beyond just a monetary thing. By the way, she still had some huge biceps, which is really a thing for me and she has pictures on this site.
Houston has had a ton of FBBs over the past 20 years or so. I have personally seen Melissa Dettwiller, Gina Davis, Nat Rochner, and Macey Toney around town in that time, so they are around. Now, meeting them and trying to date them is a different matter. Most want someone who is as into the physique industry as they are. I've lifted since I started playing jr high football, so I'm immersed in training and truly love it, but I have never been in physique sports and never have used a bit of gear. That excludes me pretty much from that world. The one of them I met was Gina Davis, though, and she was very nice and seemed very nice and open to meeting men in general.
Other than that, just hit hardcore gyms in larger towns and fitness expos. Or become a photog. They meet and befriend more muscular women than anyone. Show promoters do very well, too. JM Manion had bikini and figure girls all around him, even though he was never to be mistaken for Brad Pitt.
I’m in the Houston area also and have been going to a big national chain gym here. I’ve seen some pretty buff women but so far, none that I would call FBB level
I actually have had contact with a former FBB, but just over phone calls and texts so far. She is a fairly well known woman in the FBB world but now just competes in powerlifting. She has told me if I want to, she would take me out on the town where she lives (New Orleans) and I’m sure it would be part of a session deal but she never brought up money. She sent me some pictures of her in recent competitions and man, is she strong as hell. I would love to take her up on that if I ever get a chance. She made me feel that she also could establish a friendship beyond just a monetary thing. By the way, she still had some huge biceps, which is really a thing for me and she has pictures on this site.
Wait what? “If I ever had the chance”?? If this was real, I’d be making flight reservations.
Then again we also live in a society where people like Joey swoll criticize those who do that exact kind of thing so for now I think we’re far from “evil” and “godless”