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Are there actually any female bodybuilders or gwm that respond on Instagram or anything. If anybody knows one then please feel free to say who
Honestly a lot do. I’d say I get replies from FBBs on Instagram 2/3 times. Probably helps if you aren’t using a burner and definitely depends on what you’re messaging them.
Cool, sounds good buddy. Can you give us a litte inside: Who are you Messaging (Fbb) and how do you phrase the message?
Honestly prefer to keep who I message on the DL, but I mean just any genuine compliments or questions. I don't really know why you would need examples. Just talk to them like a normal person and they'll reply lol. Again, it probably helps if your profile isn't private OR you have a photo of yourself in your profile pic. I have a personal and a burner, and I get way more and better responses using my personal.
I don't really know why you would need examples.
Sure, let me explain.
When ur making a compliment she's prolly just saying: "Thanks" and thats it. That's fine, u get a response. But theres no real conversation or anything else. So whats the point? When u ask questions ur basically asking stuff - let's be honest - ur not really interested in. If u just want a response, totally fine. If thats what u really want, fine. But whats the point? There's no conversation, no deep connection, no Friendship, no meeting, etc. I don't really see the benefit here.
Sure, let me explain.
When ur making a compliment she's prolly just saying: "Thanks" and thats it. That's fine, u get a response. But theres no real conversation or anything else. So whats the point? When u ask questions ur basically asking stuff - let's be honest - ur not really interested in. If u just want a response, totally fine. If thats what u really want, fine. But whats the point? There's no conversation, no deep connection, no Friendship, no meeting, etc. I don't really see the benefit here.
Ok dude I think you've lost the point. OP is literally just asking if any FBBs respond to DMs and how to get their attention... I told them yes, they do. I just personally don't want to disclose who I have private convos with...
To answer your concern, buddy, sometimes it's a full conversation, sometimes its a small thank you. 2 women I've been talking to for a couple years now. Whether you want a deep connection, friendship, or to eventually meet this person is entirely up to you dude and completely depends on your interactions. And whether you think it's worth it or not or don't see the point, I really don't give a shit lol.
Sure, let me explain.
When ur making a compliment she's prolly just saying: "Thanks" and thats it. That's fine, u get a response. But theres no real conversation or anything else. So whats the point? When u ask questions ur basically asking stuff - let's be honest - ur not really interested in. If u just want a response, totally fine. If thats what u really want, fine. But whats the point? There's no conversation, no deep connection, no Friendship, no meeting, etc. I don't really see the benefit here.
FFS they're human beings. Talk to them like any other person you'd want to have a conversation with.
Who said otherwise?
If you believe that, why do you need advice on how to talk to a muscular woman? You talk to them the same way you'd talk to a woman who isn't muscular. There's no code to crack.
If you believe that, why do you need advice on how to talk to a muscular woman?
I don't need any advice, I don't message female bodybuilders on Instagram.
You talk to them the same way you'd talk to a woman who isn't muscular. There's no code to crack.
Okay, I phrased that a bit awkwardly, I'm also not a native speaker. I’ve noticed something interesting about the forum. I saw some guys posting: "Oh, it’s easy to date muscular women" or "I talk to many Fbbs". But as I dig deeper and ask for details, you get no response.
For example: he claims that many female bodybuilders reply to messages: "a lot do" - but doesn't say which ones. He says, "definitely depends on what you’re messaging them" - sure, I agree 100% - but he doesn't say what he actually writes. And that’s where I have a problem: he says he gets a response in 2/3 of cases, but doesn't say how he phrases his messages. And that's....a bit suspicious.
And please: no hate. You’re all cool guys. I’m just describing what I notice. He sounds like an expert and what’s the problem by simply saying: "Hey, I sent message XY and got a nice reply"? The message isn't a typical "Schmoe" message and you’re highly likely to get a response.
Back to your question: Yes, talk to a female bodybuilder just as you would to any normal person. That’s absolutely right. However, female bodybuilders receive hundreds of messages a day, so a simple "Hi" won't work and the message needs to be Fitness-related, otherwise it doesn't make sense.
pretty vague question.
Michelle Fredua-Mensah (shelly fit) for example is quite responsive to comments below her pictures, she seems to be cool with it. She obviously knows about the importance of IG responsiveness, and has some sort of professionalism, that many other athletes lack on their pages.
But if you talk about private conversation, or dating, then probably nobody on here can give you a recommendation that suits you. Just try for yourself and see what happens.
I don't need any advice, I don't message female bodybuilders on Instagram.
Okay, I phrased that a bit awkwardly, I'm also not a native speaker. I’ve noticed something interesting about the forum. I saw some guys posting: "Oh, it’s easy to date muscular women" or "I talk to many Fbbs". But as I dig deeper and ask for details, you get no response.
For example: he claims that many female bodybuilders reply to messages: "a lot do" - but doesn't say which ones. He says, "definitely depends on what you’re messaging them" - sure, I agree 100% - but he doesn't say what he actually writes. And that’s where I have a problem: he says he gets a response in 2/3 of cases, but doesn't say how he phrases his messages. And that's....a bit suspicious.
And please: no hate. You’re all cool guys. I’m just describing what I notice. He sounds like an expert and what’s the problem by simply saying: "Hey, I sent message XY and got a nice reply"? The message isn't a typical "Schmoe" message and you’re highly likely to get a response.
Back to your question: Yes, talk to a female bodybuilder just as you would to any normal person. That’s absolutely right. However, female bodybuilders receive hundreds of messages a day, so a simple "Hi" won't work and the message needs to be Fitness-related, otherwise it doesn't make sense.
Buddy, just because you have your own insecurities and ineptitude when it comes to talking to women doesn’t mean everyone else on here does.
The reality is as long as you aren’t ugly or weird, most women will respond to you. Carrying a conversation is a separate ordeal and that’s totally up to you if you can carry a conversation with someone.
Based on how you respond in forum, I take it you struggle holding conversations with women, particularly upon meeting them for the first time.
And again, I’m not telling you who I talk to or how I do so you can run to Instagram and immediately start messaging these people 😂
I don't need any advice, I don't message female bodybuilders on Instagram.
Okay, I phrased that a bit awkwardly, I'm also not a native speaker. I’ve noticed something interesting about the forum. I saw some guys posting: "Oh, it’s easy to date muscular women" or "I talk to many Fbbs". But as I dig deeper and ask for details, you get no response.
For example: he claims that many female bodybuilders reply to messages: "a lot do" - but doesn't say which ones. He says, "definitely depends on what you’re messaging them" - sure, I agree 100% - but he doesn't say what he actually writes. And that’s where I have a problem: he says he gets a response in 2/3 of cases, but doesn't say how he phrases his messages. And that's....a bit suspicious.
And please: no hate. You’re all cool guys. I’m just describing what I notice. He sounds like an expert and what’s the problem by simply saying: "Hey, I sent message XY and got a nice reply"? The message isn't a typical "Schmoe" message and you’re highly likely to get a response.
Back to your question: Yes, talk to a female bodybuilder just as you would to any normal person. That’s absolutely right. However, female bodybuilders receive hundreds of messages a day, so a simple "Hi" won't work and the message needs to be Fitness-related, otherwise it doesn't make sense.
The thing is, you're not entitled to "details" on a free forum where posters are relaying their experiences. Also, people aren't going to tell you which muscular women have been responsive because that's going to prompt every socially inept schmoe to flood her DMs, which is the last thing said woman wants.
And they don't say what they actually write word for word because conversation is supposed to be free flowing and not scripted. There isn't a rubric of "say this to get reply" back there because that would be unauthentic and robotic. And two people can say something similar and have completely different responses. Even if you copied word-for-word what someone said to a bodybuilder that got them a response, you might not get the same for whatever reason.
But, getting as specific as I can, I have made a friendship with a bodybuilder in my city simply by talking about training. I lift and train in Crossfit, grappling and boxing, so I messaged her about training and complimenting her front rack mobility (if you know what that is, that's a pretty big compliment and shows you know a thing or two about lifting,) and she responded about her routine and goals. And I have done that to make new friends with other people as well, within strength sports and outside (like in gaming and the local music scene,) and with both men and women.
You also have to go into it with no expectations at all. Reading your comments, it seems like you want something out of these conversations, but women can sense a mile away if you want something more when you reach out to them. Just...chat with them like a regular person. How many times have you said "hi" to someone or had a brief conversation where you never saw them again? Not every conversation needs to lead to a friendship or other kind of relationship.
Finally, I think a good amount of dudes here thing that muscular women and bodybuilders represent a completely different type of woman as compared to those who are not. The reality is that there is really very little difference. You chat with them just like you would with a non-muscular woman. Show interest in what they are into, be friendly, and in the case of muscular women, don't ask schmoe questions that they hear dozens and dozens of times. I have seen quite a few instances of dudes saying things like "I wasn't acting like a schmoe!" but when they posted their message or relayed what they asked, yeah, they totally acted like one lol.
Like the poster above me said, I hate to say it but based on how you respond here, I think you also struggle with how to socialize with women. I would practice your banter and social skills in your day-to-day life.
Are there actually any female bodybuilders or gwm that respond on Instagram or anything. If anybody knows one then please feel free to say who
Respond to what? It is impossible to answer unless you specify what you want.... training advice? Gym recommendations? Friendship? A pen pal? Their OnlyFans link? Custom pics/vids? Content Collaboration? A session? A F@ckbuddy? Marriage?
Tell us what you want to achieve and we can tailor the advice 👍
Are there actually any female bodybuilders or gwm that respond on Instagram or anything. If anybody knows one then please feel free to say who