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Have you hooked up with a girl who could reasonably be featured on this site? (247 total votes)
I'm a fit and muscular guy (functional fitness, boxing and wrestling,) and back when I was single I had success with hooking up with other fit women. I never used steroids, though, and I am not a bodybuilder.
Honestly, I don't think you HAVE to be a roided bodybuilder, but you should be pretty fit and know your way around a weight room. Also, have good social skills, and for Zuul's sake, DON'T ACT LIKE A SCHMOE. I have seen a lot of guys claim that they don't act like a schmoe, but when I see their interactions with muscular women, they totally do.
Muscle girls are super easy to hook up with. Guys on here make it sound like scaling the Eiger.
If a girl is muscular then she is by definition extremely invested in her own appearance and feeling attractive, coursing with testosterone, and/or has shitloads of unresolved psychological issues. So GWM's are all pretty much straining at the leash to bang anything that moves so long as it makes them feel good about how they look.
They're basically dudes in terms of sex drive, but they need some ego massaging to get going. Crack that and you can basically hook up on demand.
All you have to do, and this gets you laid every time, is avoid doing it like a Schmoe.
So no 'hey baby can I feel your biceps and then you crush my head between your ass cheeks like a grape, goddess'. That gets you shitcanned.
But try "hey girl, let me help you with those red plates. Your lats are looking great but I can see you're still working on the triceps" - a nice compliment on their appearance (not their butt, please note) and then a subtle neg to make them crave further approval.
Spot them for a couple of sets after that, mainly to be polite, and then you can pretty much ask them when they want to come over and bone you. It's that easy.
What I'll warn you about though is that the PEDs and gym focused lifestyle means some of these chicks have incredible stamina and a near insatiable appetite. So don't come crying to me when you can't get the girl out of your apartment, she's telling you it's time for round seven, and you're beginning to worry about the structural integrity of your hip bone having had her spend the night pounding herself against it for hours at a time. Also, those muscles are heavy, it can feel like you're being piledriven through the mattress at times.
But look, it's what you wanted so don't be dismayed when you finally get it. Just use this knowledge wisely.
Trools' advice is solid, a little bit over simplified, but bears no value if you don't meet certain physical standards and you are a schmoe.
Women who compete are totally self absorbed, they are very similar to other women that their appearance is their whole life like models or influencers.
Unfortunately it gets very tiring very quickly but it is a vice that is hard to get rid off. After the hard abs, the huge butts, the freaky sex drive it is hard to go back to normal women.
Trools' advice is solid, a little bit over simplified, but bears no value if you don't meet certain physical standards and you are a schmoe.
Oh yeah, that's absolutely right, obviously this stuff only works if you aren't a greasy little dweeb.
If you're the kind of guy who can't hook up with any women then GWM's aren't going to be any different.
But your issue there isn't the methodology. It's the fact that you need a shower and a gym membership. And maybe some trousers that aren't sweatpants. Or to earn an enormous amount of money at which point this all becomes academic, at that point you can basically just thump your wallet down on the leg press machine and the rest of the process just runs itself.
Anyway, tldr, this stuff is really easy and anyone can do it. Have shower, go gym, use methodology, repeat.
Or buy Anthropic stocks and a few hundred condoms and just wait a couple of years before coming back to them.
I work out but don't look jacked at all (Edward Norton's physique in fight club - NOT Brad Pitt)
I've had hook ups with quite a few muscle girls who could be on this site - some of them are 🤣
While I'd say fit chicks definitely gravitate towards athletic dudes, they still go for average Joe's.
Problem is, most guys have NOTHING going on for them. No humor, no career, no money, no hobbies, no social life, etc. In that case yeah it will be pretty hard hooking up with a muscle chick (or any attractive woman in general)
Muscle girls are super easy to hook up with. Guys on here make it sound like scaling the Eiger.
If a girl is muscular then she is by definition extremely invested in her own appearance and feeling attractive, coursing with testosterone, and/or has shitloads of unresolved psychological issues. So GWM's are all pretty much straining at the leash to bang anything that moves so long as it makes them feel good about how they look.
They're basically dudes in terms of sex drive, but they need some ego massaging to get going. Crack that and you can basically hook up on demand.
All you have to do, and this gets you laid every time, is avoid doing it like a Schmoe.
So no 'hey baby can I feel your biceps and then you crush my head between your ass cheeks like a grape, goddess'. That gets you shitcanned.
But try "hey girl, let me help you with those red plates. Your lats are looking great but I can see you're still working on the triceps" - a nice compliment on their appearance (not their butt, please note) and then a subtle neg to make them crave further approval.
Spot them for a couple of sets after that, mainly to be polite, and then you can pretty much ask them when they want to come over and bone you. It's that easy.
What I'll warn you about though is that the PEDs and gym focused lifestyle means some of these chicks have incredible stamina and a near insatiable appetite. So don't come crying to me when you can't get the girl out of your apartment, she's telling you it's time for round seven, and you're beginning to worry about the structural integrity of your hip bone having had her spend the night pounding herself against it for hours at a time. Also, those muscles are heavy, it can feel like you're being piledriven through the mattress at times.
But look, it's what you wanted so don't be dismayed when you finally get it. Just use this knowledge wisely.
The only thing I'd add to this: don't be a fat slob or a creepy porn addict
Muscle girls are super easy to hook up with. Guys on here make it sound like scaling the Eiger.
Sounds good buddy. How many dates you had last month?
But try "hey girl, let me help you with those red plates. Your lats are looking great but I can see you're still working on the triceps" - a nice compliment on their appearance (not their butt, please note) and then a subtle neg to make them crave further approval.
Spot them for a couple of sets after that, mainly to be polite, and then you can pretty much ask them when they want to come over and bone you. It's that easy.
Tell us more about it. I think a lot of guys need advice. You should put out a dating guide on how to date muscular girls :).
I agree with most of shreds and Trools advice except approaching at the gym intending to “help out”. Many intelligent and independent women are working out to be buff and dudes asking to help them makes them cringe. Gym related topics that are ok may be asking how many sets they still have left at a machine or joking about how crowded the gym is. Humor works best, especially in the morning.
Wrong mindset, young grasshopper.
First of all, I'm german, so excuse my bad english. I have certain problems with ur post: I've been in the dating game for 12 years now and it's not easy to date women, unless you achieved a certain skill set, like humor, how to approach women, flirting, self-confidence, etc. It also depends if ur in the top 20% of guys (success, money). If ur in the top 20% it's easy, if not, it can be hard. Having all these skills like how to approach a woman, success, self-confidence, etc. -> took me years to achieve it. However, I agree on the mindset: be open-minded and don't care about the outcome. I give a shit if it works with a woman or not.
So, my point is: It can be easy, if you have a skill set and that takes years to develop. I was able to date girls on a regular basis -> with that being said, back to my question: How many dates you had last month?
Would you rather have ten dates with ones, or one date with a ten?
Answer: One date with a ten ofc, young grasshopper. However, in order to achieve that, you need to develop further as a man.
I've been in the dating game for 12 years now and it's not easy to date women, unless you achieved a certain skill set
You have not truly absorbed the lessons being passed down to you. The skillset is simplicity itself if you only know the secrets to it.
Achievement is merely a case of accepting the fundamental truths about the nature of GWM's. For those who wish to enter, they need only open the door.
I am not sure if you are telling me that it took you twelve years to learn. Or twelve years to stop being a greasy little dweeb. But I am happy for you either way.
But with your enlightenment should come happiness, not bitterness and rage.
Anyone have any tips to optimize your dating profile to attract fit women? I never include gym pics or show off my physique much
Anyone have any tips to optimize your dating profile to attract fit women? I never include gym pics or show off my physique much
You must all be very young. Destroyed by social media and dating apps. It seems like simply talking to a woman is as foreign or difficult as brain surgery. Before Covid, my wife and I were in our 40s and she is buff and beautiful. At the gym, she was constantly approached by dudes also in our age range. These dudes were in good shape themselves and had lucrative careers as well as interesting personalities. If she were single, some of them would have scored. Point is that you need to work on yourself to be attractive to women. Sad that this concept is lost on the younger generations. AI won’t improve you. AI will only make you dumber but give you an artificial beautiful girlfriend. Is that appealing?
You must all be very young. Destroyed by social media and dating apps. It seems like simply talking to a woman is as foreign or difficult as brain surgery. Before Covid, my wife and I were in our 40s and she is buff and beautiful. At the gym, she was constantly approached by dudes also in our age range. These dudes were in good shape themselves and had lucrative careers as well as interesting personalities. If she were single, some of them would have scored. Point is that you need to work on yourself to be attractive to women. Sad that this concept is lost on the younger generations. AI won’t improve you. AI will only make you dumber but give you an artificial beautiful girlfriend. Is that appealing?
most of that has nothing to do with what i said
Almost every muscular woman I've pursued I've had success with from College athletes to bikini competitors to full on not natty bodybuilders. I bodybuild in that I lift for hypertrophy but I'm not on PEDs nor do I compete. But I've been lifting consistently for years and you can tell.
The main things that have contributed to my success have been relating to their interests being able to talk about sports, lifting, or bodybuilding as a sport which they obvious devote much of their life to. I truly love athletic activity and the sport of bodybuilding past just my attraction Just being normal about it (have to be more subtle about my raging attraction initially) and being complimentary while confident. Not just complimentary of the physique but other things. That wrapped up has gotten me success in cold approaches, dating apps etc.
No option for being short. I’m in shape but very short and have struck out.
Unfortunately, in my experience, being short is way worse than being overweight when it comes to women.
Yup. Same here. You are correct.
I think we're seeing something of a renaissance in terms of girls with muscle these days, defined arms and visible muscle could almost be called fashionable - in busy public places it's not uncommon now to see at least something noteworthy every day.
It's got me wondering, for those of you who pursue casual hookups with fit girls, how successful have you been depending on your own physical appearance?
I guess what I'm really asking is do muscular girls ever go for average guys? I'm keen to hear your stories in the comments!
For the purpose of the poll I'll keep it to whether you've had success or not, regardless of how many times you've tried, but feel free to tell us about it in the comments.
I'll allow multiple answers so if you had success when you looked one way and not another you can account for that.