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This might sound really corny but looks fade dude.
Like, if you really want a life partner, then you shouldn't be so hung up on her appearance. Even if you got with the muscular woman of your dreams, whose to say that she'll remain that way forever? What if she gets severely sick/injured and can't maintain that ideal physique? What then?
Even those guys who do have muscular wives, you think it's purely about the appearance in their case? The strength of her character should ultimately trump the strength of her body, and it's sad that you're this old and seemingly incapable of recognizing that. Seek therapy, maybe unplug from the internet as a whole for a while and just take the time to exist in the real world with everyday people. I'm not the biggest fan of people myself but it's the most consistent way I've found to prevent this "fetishistic brain rot".
> Just STFU and go lift some weights, what possible reason could you have for not doing that?
Ok semi-unrelated but is there any sort of psychological connection between me liking muscular women and also trying to lift weights or does it just boil down to “oh they motivate you to get fit”.
I'm a bodybuilder who's planning to (hopefully) get a pro card in the Fall, so I'm always thinking about lifting weights. LOL, I actually can't imagine living without it.
Muscles are beautiful and awesome and empowering. Why wouldn't you want them? And what's hotter than being a strong, muscular couple?
The guys on here who are dead set against any kind of lifting seem to be either (1) into the kink of being smaller and dominated or (2) unbelievably, truly shockingly lazy and entitled.
Neither of those two things are attractive to women, whether they have muscles or not.
If you want to be a tiny man or a big fat slob and get with muscle girls, then work hard and pay for their time. With a 90 minute session you can get all of your rocks off with a willing provider.
I'm a bodybuilder who's planning to (hopefully) get a pro card in the Fall, so I'm always thinking about lifting weights. LOL, I actually can't imagine living without it.
Muscles are beautiful and awesome and empowering. Why wouldn't you want them? And what's hotter than being a strong, muscular couple?
The guys on here who are dead set against any kind of lifting seem to be either (1) into the kink of being smaller and dominated or (2) unbelievably, truly shockingly lazy and entitled.
Neither of those two things are attractive to women, whether they have muscles or not.
If you want to be a tiny man or a big fat slob and get with muscle girls, then work hard and pay for their time. With a 90 minute session you can get all of your rocks off with a willing provider.
I also want to add: you can absolutely still be submissive and be able to be dominated if that is your kink even if you are built and strong. I am a muscular and pretty damn fit man, and I can still play the submissive/bottom role even if the other person is also built but not as muscular as me. Though it probably helps that I am a switch and can take a dominant role as needed.
I'm a bodybuilder who's planning to (hopefully) get a pro card in the Fall, so I'm always thinking about lifting weights. LOL, I actually can't imagine living without it.
Muscles are beautiful and awesome and empowering. Why wouldn't you want them? And what's hotter than being a strong, muscular couple?
The guys on here who are dead set against any kind of lifting seem to be either (1) into the kink of being smaller and dominated or (2) unbelievably, truly shockingly lazy and entitled.
Neither of those two things are attractive to women, whether they have muscles or not.
If you want to be a tiny man or a big fat slob and get with muscle girls, then work hard and pay for their time. With a 90 minute session you can get all of your rocks off with a willing provider.
Fuck off, I would never pay a woman for things like that. If I wanted that and not a relationship why would I not have done that already?
And lifting is monotonous and boring boring, and I think roided dudes look ridiculous as well as its just a pain in the arse to maintain. If you dont want that look why would I ever want to not only get their but have to maintain that constantly? Maybe some of us just dont think thats worth it for ourselves.
Your hostile and combative attitude is what's far less appealing than any physical look you might embody.
I think it's telling that the vast majority of posters here are coming from a place of kindness and compassion that quite frankly based on your reactions you do not deserve. Do you think it's pretty telling that the only person reacting with this much toxicity is...you?
Fuck off, I would never pay a woman for things like that. If I wanted that and not a relationship why would I not have done that already?
And lifting is monotonous and boring boring, and I think roided dudes look ridiculous as well as its just a pain in the arse to maintain. If you dont want that look why would I ever want to not only get their but have to maintain that constantly? Maybe some of us just dont think thats worth it for ourselves.
Huh. You know I didn't consider it from you perspective.
So, if I understand correctly: weightlifting is boring, very muscular guys look ridiculous, and it's not worth all the maintenance.
But since you have a kink for muscular women, you'd like one to be in a relationship with you - despite the fact that you think her single biggest activity in life is boring and stupid.
And you're frustrated that no muscular woman has decided to date an angry, judgmental man with an average physique at best?
Totally makes sense. Yeah, you're the real victim here bro.
> I realise no one here will probably care but I need to vent and I guess Idk this community, some might understand. Maybe not but either way i need > To say it. > > Im 42, m, uk, and loving muscular women is the bane of my life. Ive never had a relationship because i just am not attracted to non muscular women. When ive tried, to force myself to try and date non muscular, i always felt bitter and resentful. I dont understand how guys can be with normal women while liking muscular women knowing their partner could never excite them as much. I felt like I was using them as a placeholder and i didnt want to use someone just not to be lonely. What makes it worse is i also have a lot of other issues .I have depression since I was 14, and I have a learning disability similar to autism so i tend to not read people well and come off as somewhat weird . I try to be honest and open but well people dont tend to respond well. > > And its so hard to find or meet a muscular woman. So hard. Even now when it seems more women are lifting than ever. It feels impossible. None exist in person for me so i try to find people online. They all only care if a man is muscular or rich. I understand that but it sucks. I dont want to be muscular myself especially. I struggle enough with life so i couldnt maintain it even if i did want to be. And everyone today cares about money except me i think. All i ever wanted in life was a woman who loved me and who i loved. But i couldnt be with someone normal, it made me resentful when i tried. I couldnt accept second best. I just couldnt. It made me so so miserable compromising. > > I got so desperate i even tried to know people on paysites which i hate. I disliked myself for being so desperate. It wasnt fun or cute i felt like i was doing what i never wanted to do and paying for something not real so i cut that out fast. > > Im dying to meet a muscular woman but it seems as time goes on its not going to happen and i feel more depressed, lonely and miserable.. > > I know you can say get hobbies, self improve, etc. i have hobbies i love but thats not enough. ive done EVERYTHING within reason. Ive been in and out of therapy my whole life. Im on meds after trying many of those available. I even tried gym to get muscular but i just couldnt, my heart wasnt in it. I dont know what to do. If im being honest i consider suicide a lot because i feel so lonely and theres no cure for that . I come close more every day. People say get help but how can you do that! When you tried everything. No therapist or doctor can force muscular women to date you (nor would i want that even if it was possible, it has to be real or its meaningless). The only ones that can help me dont even talk to me or respond. So i dont know what to do. > > I dont know if ill post long or even again. Im struggling with life so badly. But i needed to tell people who might kind of understand, or maybe you wont. Most of you probably wont give a shit. Ive tried so hard. I feel like my life is coming to an end . I dont know. I keep trying to hope that things will change but they dont. Mental illness is such a bitch. > > Thanks for reading at least.
Get of the internet and porn sites bro. Your dopamine levels are fucked because of your porn addiction.
I dont watch any porn you genius. I never liked it.
Huh. You know I didn't consider it from you perspective.
So, if I understand correctly: weightlifting is boring, very muscular guys look ridiculous, and it's not worth all the maintenance.
But since you have a kink for muscular women, you'd like one to be in a relationship with you - despite the fact that you think her single biggest activity in life is boring and stupid.
And you're frustrated that no muscular woman has decided to date an angry, judgmental man with an average physique at best?
Totally makes sense. Yeah, you're the real victim here bro.
I meant for me y. Im not saying for anyone else . I dont like golf either but does that mean I wouldnt date someone who likes it or bash it to them constantly? No. You asked , or rather made a statement that was incorrect, so I corrected you. You wanted to know, or assumed, so I set you straight. Did i ever say that men shouldnt be into bodybuilding or that because I didnt like it it didnt have merit? No, No I did not. So I was not being judgemental, I was not going to comment on it at all until you decided you had the answers to what someone else was thinking or feeling. Hope thats cleared things up for you
The only thing cleared up is that you're absolutely ridiculous.
For real, why are you here? Is it just to goon over images of buff girls and then complain and bitch about "woe is me?"
Who starts two threads complaining about the same crap? Not to mention your general crimes against spelling and grammar.
I dont watch any porn you genius. I never liked it.
I meant for me y. Im not saying for anyone else . I dont like golf either but does that mean I wouldnt date someone who likes it or bash it to them constantly? No. You asked , or rather made a statement that was incorrect, so I corrected you. You wanted to know, or assumed, so I set you straight. Did i ever say that men shouldnt be into bodybuilding or that because I didnt like it it didnt have merit? No, No I did not. So I was not being judgemental, I was not going to comment on it at all until you decided you had the answers to what someone else was thinking or feeling. Hope thats cleared things up for you
You're problem is that you're a presumptuous jerk. Personalities can make someone ugly or attractive. Yours is very ugly. Work on it. Maybe you'll get what you want if you become a better human being.
You're problem is that you're a presumptuous jerk. Personalities can make someone ugly or attractive. Yours is very ugly. Work on it. Maybe you'll get what you want if you become a better human being.
Bro needs some charisma (rizz as the kids say) and some muscle definition before sliding into FBB DMs
OP states in his opening rant that he is 42 and suffers from depression and autism. Most likely he is socially awkward which heightens his depression and anger. He has unreasonable feelings of entitlement. Even if he were totally physically handsome, women (and men) shun people with social awkwardness especially if they show any of the shrill anger like in all his responses. We can only imagine the crazy statements he makes to women in IG when he DMs them. Even if OP started lifting and taking roids to accelerate his gains, his personality would never win over any women. I bet he doesn’t have any male friends and he may be estranged from family. Any therapists that have worked with him over the years should lose their licenses because they have failed. But, it’s very likely OP has had minimal to no therapy over the years.
@Needtovent "And lifting is monotonous and boring boring ... pain in the arse to maintain"
I understand that. Lifting alone gets you nowhere unless it's within competition. For myself training is for having some kind of movement control (self defense, safe recovery from falling/sliding (using bicycles, inline/ice skates, maybe climbing, but that's always quite harsh and quickly exhausting to the shoulders and to the skin covering the metacarpophalangeal joints). The current self defense training for me aims for some muscle cushion buildup, just in case there is some unexpected blow (had too many of those in the past, coming from aesthetic martial arts i recently changed the type of budo to tackle things in a different, more effective yet simpler way).
EDIT: @Scythian you would be astonished HOW MANY men and women there are with similar mental states (many/most younger than me), 1 year ago i would have been still ignorant about this, but now my most beloved evening/night "pub" sport contains and collects so many of them, it's almost a miracle.
OP states in his opening rant that he is 42 and suffers from depression and autism. Most likely he is socially awkward which heightens his depression and anger. He has unreasonable feelings of entitlement. Even if he were totally physically handsome, women (and men) shun people with social awkwardness especially if they show any of the shrill anger like in all his responses. We can only imagine the crazy statements he makes to women in IG when he DMs them. Even if OP started lifting and taking roids to accelerate his gains, his personality would never win over any women. I bet he doesn’t have any male friends and he may be estranged from family. Any therapists that have worked with him over the years should lose their licenses because they have failed. But, it’s very likely OP has had minimal to no therapy over the years.
Yeah that’s why I don’t understand people saying he’s a troll because he’s clearly not trying to get a reaction out of anybody he just seems like a sexually frustrated deviant. If anything, I think it would be more likely WE would be trolls lol.
He's not a troll, he's a lonely attention seeker.
You see this same character over and over on forums of all kinds. Has a problem, is sad, absorbs all your helpful suggestions, declares that none of them would work for their specific situation because it's a special kind of sad, absorbs further help, engages in petty bickering with anyone who calls them out to keep the attention flowing in.
The most important part of the act is to reject all possible help so that they can keep wallowing in the sadness and telling you how miserable their life is.
Tldr: dude is a little bitch who, ironically, would benefit immensely from getting laid.
Faod: dude's chances of getting laid are roughly zero. For obvious reasons.
@Chainer is there any way of adding some kind of GoFundMe functionality to this forum so that we can all chip in to pay for NeedToWank to spend 90 minutes getting his shit pushed in by some Onlyfans muscle-thot wielding a foot-long strapon to help him (a) get laid, and (b) come to terms with his innate inner bitch?
damn op you are so very insufferable, im sorry for you to be this way. you dont accept any help or advice, despite asking for it. we can not help you any further like this. and to be saying lifting weights is "boring boring" like a child, repeating the word boring twice, is such a disgrace and just disrespectful to any muscular woman you find so attractive. life doesn't owe you anything brah.
I genuinely mean it when I say we have a noteworthy group of posters who are simulataneously wise, articulate, and patient. Compliments to all.
Ugh none of you listened at all. I would resent them, like really resent. Ive tried it. I would know its second best and so would they. Not even that, third best.
What if the women had very muscular calves? That is hella good. Date them since they are muscular, esp women who do tae kwon do. I had a chance at one but I blew it. Maybe I was too selective or just clueless. There have been others and nice calves wow that does it. Some are muscular but fat but what an arm a leg or so. try for them.
Something is brewing politically, some kind of fight of the feminists against the incels. There is some kind of political gender fluid fight against only-two-gender-opinions in the web, resulting in illegal/punished comments about gender related contents (and more political influence regarding "hate speech" in the web) according to statements by the eu commission.
In short: There might be even more males being incels soon, because of weird political/feminist activities/ punishment strategies. Healthy long term relationships centered around a caring and functional family seem to be dwindling, as the feminists seek independent often short termed relationships.
I don't think, that this kind of frustration that started this thread will keep being seldom/singular/individual cases. The whole relationship between male and female partners might have already changed. Some leftists/feminists see males as "useless" and feminization seems to have grown larger than supposed.
Please debate and hopefully counter my thesis.
I Don't think you should be stronger than your wife all the time that is just lame and a primitive mindset. but you should try being as fit as you can. but i personally noticed when i try too hard it has the opposite effect. so my only fitness goal is to not become fat.