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Dating apps are a net negative on your life unless you're well over 6' tall and strikingly handsome.
Muscular women are most often at gyms during off hours, at shows, & at home. Gym approach is tough, home approach is tougher. Check the calendar for the nearest bodybuilding show or CrossFit event. There's a higher concentration there, but you'll still need to be attractive to them. If not physically attractive, you'll need some way to display tremendous financial wealth.
The alternative is to find a normal woman with potential and get her in the gym. I'm sure this happens a lot, but the only instance I'm aware of is with Hazel Piazza
I’ve met a few in Hinge but like the previous person said, you gotta visit the gyms if you’re looking to meet more FBBs. I was fortunate enough to stumble and match with a few when I was on Hinge but there weren’t that many. No matter what dating app you try to use to meet them, it’s better IRL, visiting gyms, going to shows, etc
Dating apps are a net negative on your life unless you're well over 6' tall and strikingly handsome.
Muscular women are most often at gyms during off hours, at shows, & at home. Gym approach is tough, home approach is tougher. Check the calendar for the nearest bodybuilding show or CrossFit event. There's a higher concentration there, but you'll still need to be attractive to them. If not physically attractive, you'll need some way to display tremendous financial wealth.
The alternative is to find a normal woman with potential and get her in the gym. I'm sure this happens a lot, but the only instance I'm aware of is with Hazel Piazza
Didn't heard about the story of Hazel can you tell more about her story please?
I’ve met a few in Hinge but like the previous person said, you gotta visit the gyms if you’re looking to meet more FBBs. I was fortunate enough to stumble and match with a few when I was on Hinge but there weren’t that many. No matter what dating app you try to use to meet them, it’s better IRL, visiting gyms, going to shows, etc
Only oppertunity is travel abroad which cost fortune
Hey i'd spent fortune on Tinder and OKcupid and both of them robbed me. Now Tinder showed me potential matches and 3 times i got matched with an FBB and 3 more with little muscular girls. Spend over a year and half of premium membership. Okcupid is worse. There is a plenty of female bodybuilder on dating sites the problem is they never amswer like all girls so if you have ideas or experience let me know
Every few months or so, like clockwork someone posts a thread about how to meet FBBs/muscular women. Few things:
OKCupid and Tinder didn't "rob" you. It sounds like it showed you what you paid for. It's not their fault if you don't get many, or any, matches. The other person saw your profile and wasn't interested, either because your profile is weak, your pics suck, or they just don't feel like you are a good match.
"There is plenty of female bodybuilder" is completely wrong. Dating apps match the demographics of your area. FBBs and muscular women are in the minority, and as such they are very rare on dating apps.
If you want to meet muscular women, the best thing to do is to get involved in your city's fitness community. Join a boutique community-oriented gym (not a big box franchise), actually train and get in shape, go to shows and expos as a spectator and competitor, NETWORK with both the men and women and be friendly with them (in other words, don't join, say, a CrossFit gym and immediately hit on the fit and muscular women there.) Treat it like a long process, and that will give you the best chance to meet a muscular woman.
You don't need to be exceptionally good looking, and you don't need to be rich. You just need to put yourself in the right environment, put some effort into your fitness and have decent social skills and you'll go a long way.
Fbbs are too rare it's pointless. you just need to get lucky and go to the gym and other places were they play sports. often but it's like winning the lottery. Tinder is shit because they only see how you look. but most women care about a lot of things that you can't show on your tinder profile. like your character and personality.
Fbbs are too rare it's pointless. you just need to get lucky and go to the gym and other places were they play sports. often but it's like winning the lottery. Tinder is shit because they only see how you look. but most women care about a lot of things that you can't show on your tinder profile. like your character and personality.
Yes you right people telling to go to an expo or try bodybuilding , i did tried this lifestyle , did went for local shows and involved at the local bodybuilding community and didn't met this type of woman yet
Hey i'd spent fortune on Tinder and OKcupid and both of them robbed me. Now Tinder showed me potential matches and 3 times i got matched with an FBB and 3 more with little muscular girls. Spend over a year and half of premium membership. Okcupid is worse. There is a plenty of female bodybuilder on dating sites the problem is they never amswer like all girls so if you have ideas or experience let me know
Taking you at your words, everything you're doing is wrong. And awful. Entering with a sense of entitlement, then leaving with a sense of victimhood is making you unattractive.
1) Drop the entitlement complex 2) Drop the victim mentality
For dating, you're probably not ready. You have a lot of work to do on yourself. Agreed with the above poster who said to get rid of the apps and start interacting with real people. Best wishes.
Yes you right people telling to go to an expo or try bodybuilding , i did tried this lifestyle , did went for local shows and involved at the local bodybuilding community and didn't met this type of woman yet
I went into your post history and I saw this on your history:
i'm a normal guy who have zero interest in a male bodybuilding
That was on a thread you made less than three months ago asking about attending the Olympia. You also wrote an earlier post asking if it's ok to "write a fan letter to a female bodybuilder."
It honestly sounds like you are flat out lying about getting into the lifestyle. But. if we were to assume you are telling the truth, you have been doing this for less than three months. That is barely dipping your toes into the water. And further playing the benefit of the doubt that you actually joined a boutique gym, actually started training and have gone to competitions, I wonder how you have been interacting with the men and women that you encounter. If you go into it socially awkward or acting like a total schmoe, it's a fast ticket to getting ostracized by the community (they know when someone is there who only wants to creep on the ladies.)
I went into your post history and I saw this on your history:
That was on a thread you made less than three months ago asking about attending the Olympia. You also wrote an earlier post asking if it's ok to "write a fan letter to a female bodybuilder."
It honestly sounds like you are flat out lying about getting into the lifestyle. But. if we were to assume you are telling the truth, you have been doing this for less than three months. That is barely dipping your toes into the water. And further playing the benefit of the doubt that you actually joined a boutique gym, actually started training and have gone to competitions, I wonder how you have been interacting with the men and women that you encounter. If you go into it socially awkward or acting like a total schmoe, it's a fast ticket to getting ostracized by the community (they know when someone is there who only wants to creep on the ladies.)
Damn. I'm a huge fan of authenticity. But sometimes....
I went into your post history and I saw this on your history:
That was on a thread you made less than three months ago asking about attending the Olympia. You also wrote an earlier post asking if it's ok to "write a fan letter to a female bodybuilder."
It honestly sounds like you are flat out lying about getting into the lifestyle. But. if we were to assume you are telling the truth, you have been doing this for less than three months. That is barely dipping your toes into the water. And further playing the benefit of the doubt that you actually joined a boutique gym, actually started training and have gone to competitions, I wonder how you have been interacting with the men and women that you encounter. If you go into it socially awkward or acting like a total schmoe, it's a fast ticket to getting ostracized by the community (they know when someone is there who only wants to creep on the ladies.)
Hahah i read your assumption about me end can't stop laughing about lol You don't know me what make set up facts that i trained at a boutique gym? All your assumption are completley false. Nothing was wrong with things i state and i stand behind every words iv'e been told . I did bodybuilding for couple of years - not for getting a woman but only for the sport and the self growth journey neto! Iv'e been trained at tow gyms at that time - one was with most equiped gym at my country guys from whole country travelled to train there. The second gym was those old school bodybuilding gym with heavy metal. Yes it was over a decade and half plus been through since last time i touch dumbells , i left this realm since ive met the most nasty and narsicitic people on the planet. Today im a normal guy i cant stand bodybuilding and i really can not stand to discuss about how big is biceps or how impressive look some guy's chest. Don't know what make you investigate deep every single word i mentioned
Really tough to meet FBB unless one goes to the trade shows. Another way is to hire a FBB as a personal trainer, if she offers it.
Really tough to meet FBB unless one goes to the trade shows. Another way is to hire a FBB as a personal trainer, if she offers it.
Unless you actually want to get trained and want her for her credentials and successful past clients, don't do this.
Trainers, especially women, know when guys sign up as clients just to hit on them, and they REALLY don't like that. I know a couple who have stopped offering coaching and training to men because of it. Keep it strictly professional.
hoestnly the gym is a crapshoot too
they are there to work out, just like you. unless you are legitimately attractive to them they may not want to give you a minute of their time. this has happened to me a half dozen times over the last year and a half. im moderately good looking but odds were not in my favor.
best to go find a hobby where people are there to meet and work your way from there. maybe you get lucky and someone also wants to work out
hoestnly the gym is a crapshoot too
they are there to work out, just like you. unless you are legitimately attractive to them they may not want to give you a minute of their time. this has happened to me a half dozen times over the last year and a half. im moderately good looking but odds were not in my favor.
best to go find a hobby where people are there to meet and work your way from there. maybe you get lucky and someone also wants to work out
Especially the crossfit events.
hoestnly the gym is a crapshoot too
they are there to work out, just like you. unless you are legitimately attractive to them they may not want to give you a minute of their time. this has happened to me a half dozen times over the last year and a half. im moderately good looking but odds were not in my favor.
best to go find a hobby where people are there to meet and work your way from there. maybe you get lucky and someone also wants to work out
There is a big misconception that gym is a place to pick up girl (wheather fbb or not) that so much mythe
Hey i'd spent fortune on Tinder and OKcupid and both of them robbed me. Now Tinder showed me potential matches and 3 times i got matched with an FBB and 3 more with little muscular girls. Spend over a year and half of premium membership. Okcupid is worse. There is a plenty of female bodybuilder on dating sites the problem is they never amswer like all girls so if you have ideas or experience let me know