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I really don’t understand why guys who are attracted to fit, buff women get into relationships with women who don’t work out at all and life sedentary lives. Yeah, if you limit yourself to JUST bodybuilders you’ll find it hard to date, but don’t go for women who are the opposite of what gets your engine running and then act all shocked if they’re not receptive to your female bodybuilder fetish
Even women who are into more mainstream sports like volley ball are rare. I often see women who are into jogging but they have no muscle at all but they seem to be slightly tougher than me or at least have more endurance. but regardless I am not very attractive and I am poor so I can't be picky. it's rare to find a woman who is attracted to me and is not insane or a crack head. if I reject her I won't find another potential girlfriend for years maybe even never.
> > LOL fbb or not if you take a pic with another woman all while drooling in front of her ofc she will be jealous/ pissed
yeah this was kinda obvious
and to share... Ive had 4 serious relationships over 20+ years and first two I told them after a while and those failed... they try to please you but it's not in them (they dont enjoy the gym or dont want to do it for themselves which is key) and other stuff like self esteem going down, etc etc
Next 2 relationships I decided not to tell them and they failed again.
Now close to a month ago, after going through a depression period I decided to change it up and do things I would never do before. Go completely out of my zone of comfort. Decided to also get back into the gym for real and eat healthy... close to a month in, I meet my now GF and it's basically because I was just outright searching for muscles first, personality later (before it was the other way around, they would kinda grow on me and of course, they wanted to go out with me so yeah there's that).
I decided to tell her from the get go as well.. .and I mean full on, like flexing and everything and guess what? It's been GREAT. She tell me stories about other people and their reactions to her body, she loves the fact that I admire her body and that it drives me crazy. She does everything to try and please me and learn from what I like.
So if you ask me? Just go for what you want, straight out. Being in shape help and I honestly hit the jackpot cause Im overweight (60lbs over) and she still went for me... I'm around 30lbs lighter now after 2 months getting my act together.
Gg bro. Glad to hear that. I m training as well but i m far from bb world. When i let my gf she wasnt training that much but now she got the motivation to train. She knows i like big asses in particular
My story is a mixed bag. I've told it here before.
My ex-wife had decent muscle and definition when we first met. She was and still is freakishly strong for a woman her height and weight. She started working out with weights on her upper body and got into her increased mass and definition. Got a lot of comments on her arms from friends and family which fed her ego. I told her it turned me on, so she would flex a lot and brought it into our sex life. I was living the dream!!! I never told her about my fetish. She became almost obsessed with becoming a contestant on "Survivor" and made demo tapes that involved a lot of bicep flexing. So there's a good deal of photographic evidence.
It went to hell when I accidentally left my laptop open on the Herbiceps page which she saw. She then knew that I wasn't just turned on by her; I was turned on by lots of women with good biceps. The bedroom action was cut significantly and my fetish become the topic of derision. Things were already on the skids for other reasons and we eventually divorced.
I've posted her pictures some time ago. Here's what I lost.
So I'm very single right now lol. But whenever anything physical starts (like second or third date), I let the girl know about my fetish. I've never had a terrible reaction, and sometimes I've had really good experiences. For example, I told a date that was pretty muscular a while back that I had a thing for strong women while we were making out. She then asked "so you like being handled?" Literally the second I said yes she put me in a headlock. It was super hot. It ultimately didn't work out because we weren't a good fit for other reasons. But yeah, my recommendation is always let your partner know early if your fetish is important to you and your sexuality.
So I'm very single right now lol. But whenever anything physical starts (like second or third date), I let the girl know about my fetish. I've never had a terrible reaction, and sometimes I've had really good experiences. For example, I told a date that was pretty muscular a while back that I had a thing for strong women while we were making out. She then asked "so you like being handled?" Literally the second I said yes she put me in a headlock. It was super hot. It ultimately didn't work out because we weren't a good fit for other reasons. But yeah, my recommendation is always let your partner know early if your fetish is important to you and your sexuality.
right on!
I told my girlfriend that I like GWM to a certain degree (bikini fitness to wellness), even showed her my "hidden" folder I used when I was single. She kind of finds some of these women hot and I should pick one of them for her to hang on the wall and motivate her to work out. (This picture of Allison Stokke is currently framed in our workout room)
I hit the muscle girl lottery, many years ago and actually married a strong, muscular woman. The marriage only lasted about 4 years but it became obvious after her, that in order to be happy, in a relationship, I needed the muscle element.
Consequently, I have been up front and honest with women, ever since. There have been massive dry spells of course. However, there were two women who actually started seriously lifting weights, since they knew I loved that look. They also began to love what muscles looked like on them.
One of them decided to go the lesbian route, cheating on me, since women were often hitting on her. She tried to coax me back after a few flings with women but cheating is cheating. The other one, who already had decent arms from loading freight, was looking very impressive, after lifting weights. Unfortunately, she moved away, closer to her family.
Just be honest and up front. It's possible to hide it and just seek your female muscle on the internet, I suppose. In reality though, you're cheating yourself and doing your wife or girlfriend a disservice. She might just surprise you and happily try to build some muscle. 🤪😜💪
She knows. And she does have strong legs, but it is far from what I would consider a ‘gwm’. But at this point of life after many years together, the flame that was burning between us, has now dwindled. At the same time, I have befriended someone that, not only would be considered a proper and rare gwm by folks on this site, and a pretty one at that, but also someone with an amazing and interesting personality. She’s competing and even won her last competition. She’s about my height, but she’s a much much bigger presence physically than I am, even out of competition. Might even look a little weird if we were a couple at the beach…
But we’re just friends. And it will stay that way. It’s called life, life. Eventhough, I know that if I wasn’t married (and the committed type of person whatever the state of the relationship), she would def be first in line, be it for her great personality and fun character. And she does not know about my fetish.
Without much love in my marriage, and with a friend like that, it’s tough lol.
I’ve been into gwm since I’m 15. About 35 years ago.
Yes. She works out herself and I don't hide my appreciation of her muscles. But I still haven't told her how much I'm into muscular woman, at least before I met her.
So I'm very single right now lol. But whenever anything physical starts (like second or third date), I let the girl know about my fetish. I've never had a terrible reaction, and sometimes I've had really good experiences. For example, I told a date that was pretty muscular a while back that I had a thing for strong women while we were making out. She then asked "so you like being handled?" Literally the second I said yes she put me in a headlock. It was super hot. It ultimately didn't work out because we weren't a good fit for other reasons. But yeah, my recommendation is always let your partner know early if your fetish is important to you and your sexuality.
^This. Right. Here. 🥳
Yes, I slowly told her and now she’s been bulking for a few months and is following ifbb pros
My wife is slowly enjoying my love for muscles more and more. She’s pretty muscular, not ridiculous, but very athletic, builds muscles easily, and way more muscular than the average woman. Anyway, we were having sex the other night and I had her lay on her stomach while I rubbed her back to start. She then put her arms up into a double bicep-type position while I massages her back and arms. Then she started doing small bicep pops and flexing really hard as I massaged her shoulders and biceps. She’s been taking her training pretty seriously lately and man, does it show. Her arms have really exploded lately. As she flexed her biceps she could feel me getting harder and harder. She’s definitely loving the attention I give her muscles and is starting to enjoy it more and more .
Life is not that simple. GWM are already very rare , although nowadays their numbers are increasing. 10/15 years ago when I was searching for a mate they were non existent. Especially in south Asia where I'm from. I saw my first real fit girl when I moved to Europe. By then I was already married.