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> just social media girls who are above average in strength and physique. but they're young--the older they get the more i see them mellow out and be more reasonable in what they're looking for. or they find late bloomers
Ah. Honestly, I unfollowed a lot of those influencer accounts because of how fake and contrived they all are. Social media is rarely indicative of real life, and should be taken with a grain of salt.
Actually, if there is any place a woman is more herself, it is on social media. As long as men are the recipients of her unholy wrath, a woman can be as vicious and petty and cruel and as vindictive as she desires and, she will still be hailed as a grrrrl power heroine by men and women alike. Women face NO consequences for being mean to men online. If a man wants to know how a lady is going to treat him, the best way to learn is to watch how she treats men online.
All the muscular and fit women that I know in real life.....
And where is the Internet taking place? In a dream?
All the muscular and fit women that I know in real life through my interactions as a CrossFitter has shown me the opposite. They don’t require a partner to be ridiculously (read, chemically enhanced) strong. They only want a partner who also lives a fit lifestyle.
I remember when I was a lot more in shape. I was no Arnold Schwarzeneggar but, I wasn't exactly the lanky little twig I am today. And yet, in spite of all my beautiful muscles, my gloriously athletic physique, most of the hottest, fittest women still treated me like I was invisible. Mostly because there were guys way more muscular than me to be attracted to. So, I'm not buying this one. Not entirely, at any rate.
No PED's for me since I really have no need for such and can easily rely on my great sense of humour and ability to spout poetry at any moment.
If you could just go down to the PED store and buy them there I absolutely would have succumbed to the temptation by now. Not for the women, but for me. I've been training for almost 15 years and have always wanted to try them. Unfortunately, I don't have the right connections.
Buy some SARMs my dude. Easy online purchase. You can find sources easily on Reddit.
If you could just go down to the PED store and buy them there I absolutely would have succumbed to the temptation by now. Not for the women, but for me. I've been training for almost 15 years and have always wanted to try them. Unfortunately, I don't have the right connections.
They’re honestly not hard to find. If you’re in your local strength sport community, or spend enough time on the right forums, you’ll be able to find sources pretty easily. I know because I found a couple and came close to buying from them.
I know I'm not a big roided girl, BUT I do not require that a guy is at the same level of fitness as me.
I do like guys who take care of themselves, but being actually muscular or ripped is not mandatory.
I've been single for a while lol but that's just because I'm very focused on my own projects right now (including fitness) - but I would not have a problem dating a guy who doesn't look muscular as long as he treats me well, has ambition and obviously not TOO ugly.. but to be honest if I like a guy's personality I tend to start seeing him as more attractive than he objectively is
Do it for you. Don't do it for others. You will lose some of the water weight and glycogen when you come off so that may psych you out offcycle. Be comfortable with yourself, but if you dare to push to see what's possible, then maybe do something like LGD. If you're not making progress and your nutrition, lifting/cardio, and sleep are 80% good, then maybe trying something will be an enjoyable experience.
There's something satisfying about feeling like you have a near permanent pump. For me I've always had somewhat of a muscle and giantess fetish since middle school. I also had a fetish towards growing, like gaining, but not about getting fat. The feeling of dominance of being much larger/stronger than a girlfriend is exhilirating for me. I'm not into hardcore BDSM stuff, but the feeling of being powerful is great. It also feels great needing new clothes and slacks getting so tight that they look like they're painted on your muscles.
I don't recommend hopping on gear for other people if they are unhappy. Your hormones will be affected which will increase your confidence, but coming off will make you feel slightly less confident. PEDs will make you more of what you are. If you are mostly happy then I give you the greenlight. I recommend to listening to motivational audiobooks or podcasts on self-discipline and other topics while working out. Just learn new things in general from YouTube or audiobooks while exercising if that doesn't interest you. Get new thoughts/ideas in your mind and you'll find greater happiness, confidence, and you'll be more interesting to talk to.
I'm good with or without gear. At one point in my life I wasn't and I took PEDs while depressed. Not a good combo. I don't want you to make the mistakes I did.
In summary, when you work on your physical fitness/physique also work on your knowledge and mindset. Getting a little better in more way than one can never hurt you. Do PEDs if you want to try them, but know the risks.
I know I'm not a big roided girl, BUT I do not require that a guy is at the same level of fitness as me.
I do like guys who take care of themselves, but being actually muscular or ripped is not mandatory.
I've been single for a while lol but that's just because I'm very focused on my own projects right now (including fitness) - but I would not have a problem dating a guy who doesn't look muscular as long as he treats me well, has ambition and obviously not TOO ugly.. but to be honest if I like a guy's personality I tend to start seeing him as more attractive than he objectively is
Everyone, listen to this. Great take.
You don’t need PEDs, but you have NO EXCUSE to not get in somewhat reasonable shape. Putting in consistent effort will do wonders for your health, your strength and your confidence. That in turn is all very attractive to women (and men!)
Thank you so much for your perspective, ScarletLight.
Putting in consistent effort will do wonders for your health, your strength and your confidence. That in turn is all very attractive to women (and men!)
It seems like a lot of people think that since they'll never be able to attain the level of physiques that are always being glorified on fitness social media, that it's not even worth trying. Kind of an "all or nothing" mentality.
Others seem to want that type of physique, but aren't willing to put in years of effort to get it. This would be a "now or never" mentality.
Getting in shape requires an understanding that you just take it one day at a time. Persistence pays off, much like with dating. And as Gatsby28 stated, you do not need PED's for it.
I remember when I was a lot more in shape. I was no Arnold Schwarzeneggar but, I wasn't exactly the lanky little twig I am today. And yet, in spite of all my beautiful muscles, my gloriously athletic physique, most of the hottest, fittest women still treated me like I was invisible. Mostly because there were guys way more muscular than me to be attracted to. So, I'm not buying this one. Not entirely, at any rate.
“In spite of my beautiful muscles, they chose guys way more muscular than me?”
Honestly I don’t know if you’re trolling or if you actually believe that women select men according to muscle size.
“In spite of my beautiful muscles, they chose guys way more muscular than me?”
Honestly I don’t know if you’re trolling or if you actually believe that women select men according to muscle size.
I’m pretty sure he is trolling based on all the things he says about women. Clearly he is someone who absolutely hates women.
And assuming he is being truthful in women not being attracted to him even when he was in shape, I’m pretty sure it had everything to do with his attitude towards them. Bitterness is never a good look, and women are very good at spotting it.
I went from a warehouse job lifting and carrying, to an office job where I sit on my ass and push buttons all day like George Jetson. And my physique has DEFINITELY taken a hit in just a few months. Not interested in a gym because no time, but recent loss of libido has me occasionally pondering testosterone. Definitely talking to a doctor about it before I take advice online though, I’m not that stupid.
I went from a warehouse job lifting and carrying, to an office job where I sit on my ass and push buttons all day like George Jetson. And my physique has DEFINITELY taken a hit in just a few months. Not interested in a gym because no time, but recent loss of libido has me occasionally pondering testosterone. Definitely talking to a doctor about it before I take advice online though, I’m not that stupid.
I’m willing to bet that loss of libido is coming from going from active (through your job) to sedentary (office gig and no exercise.) Talking to a doctor never hurts, but I would definitely look into getting physically active again. And even if you are pressed for time, you can do workouts that are short. Something is better than nothing
I’m willing to bet that loss of libido is coming from going from active (through your job) to sedentary (office gig and no exercise.) Talking to a doctor never hurts, but I would definitely look into getting physically active again. And even if you are pressed for time, you can do workouts that are short. Something is better than nothing
+1
Everyone has time for a gym. Some FBB’s are single moms with multiple kids. If it’s a priority, you make the time.
Real hypogonadism is actually super rare but lots of doctors will give you HRT if you’re over 35 and could use it. If that kickstarts a more active and healthy lifestyle, could be worth it. Not cheap though and not without its side effects.
I’d agree with Gatsby and work to get more active first. Test is something that you do to further improve things, not to start from baseline.
Only take enhancements if that’s what you want. I used to consider them to help my chances with muscular women, but as I got older, I realized I was limiting myself. Don’t get me wrong because PEDs would help my gains. I wouldn’t be using with the right mindset and that would be a bad outcome. I lift recreationally and that won’t change so using wouldn’t really be necessary for me. The women on this site are usually bodybuilders and they do prefer a certain lifestyle because bodybuilding is tough. I’ve met muscular soccer players, gymnast, volleyball players, track athletes and they varied in muscle, but, personally, I found their amount of muscle enough for me. They didn’t require a bodybuilder physique and preferred a muscular but attainable body naturally. Use if you want, but not because you think you need for a relationship. Best of luck
Do it for you. Don't do it for others.
I used to bulk up to impress the ladies. Then, I realized most women aren't anywhere near as wild about male muscle as you may think. If anything, the more you bulk up, the more you will attract gay men instead of women. In fact, it is quite common (and considered praiseworthy) for women to scornfully deride muscular men as "ewww!", "gross!", "ugly!", and "gaaaay XD"
Even other muscle women engage in this abominable practice from time-to-time, even those who have male muscle boos of their own.
It’s very disheartening, let me tell you. Even if you are willing to hit the juice for a relationship.
+1
Everyone has time for a gym. Some FBB’s are single moms with multiple kids. If it’s a priority, you make the time.
Real hypogonadism is actually super rare but lots of doctors will give you HRT if you’re over 35 and could use it. If that kickstarts a more active and healthy lifestyle, could be worth it. Not cheap though and not without its side effects.
I’d agree with Gatsby and work to get more active first. Test is something that you do to further improve things, not to start from baseline.
As an example of a short but effective workout, Miranda Alcaraz (Oldroyd) posted this workout on her Instagram:
14 minute AMRAP (as many rounds and reps as possible) Every two minutes: 200 meter run Max effort burpee pull-ups.
Your score is your total burpee pull-ups.
So if you warm up for 15 minutes then do this, that’s only 30 minutes that it took you to do a workout that WILL kick your ass.
This is gonna sound judgmental, but I think a lot of guys here make excuses for why they don’t want to work out and get in shape. It’s your choice, but again, it’s going to help you be more attractive towards fit women.
This is gonna sound judgmental, but I think a lot of guys here make excuses for why they don’t want to work out and get in shape. It’s your choice, but again, it’s going to help you be more attractive towards fit women.
If you don’t surpass her in height, muscle mass, power, and strength then, your workouts ain’t gonna do jackshit. As far as attracting muscular women is concerned, at least.
I gotta say, however. I really like the routine you provided. So, thanks.
If you don’t surpass her in height, muscle mass, power, and strength then, your workouts ain’t gonna do jackshit. As far as attracting muscular women is concerned, at least.
I gotta say, however. I really like the routine you provided. So, thanks.
I disagree. While I’m sure there are bodybuilders who only date men bigger than them, most fit and buff women only want a partner who at least shares a similar lifestyle with them. In other words, don’t be a fat and lazy couch potato.
They have female fans, yes most women aren't subscribed to onlyfans in general but the ones that are really do tend to lean towards male bodybuilders. I actually used to believe that the average women wasn't into fit men at all too when I was young but this is because they're just really good at hiding their sexual interests, they feel the need to do so due to the the public stigma that comes with being with a box car of a human being.
By the way last part of your comment reminds me of a video I once saw of kai greene on youtube a older black female TSA agent started hitting on him while on his way out the airport, apparently she was a long time fan and "needed" to take a photo with him BADLY haha! female schmoes do exists they're out there just hiding.