Sounds like a homophobe and someone who has sexuality issues of his own. I wouldn't put much stock into what he thinks, because he sounds like the average run of the mill guy who hates on any woman with any level of muscularity. He'll never understand it, and that's fine because he's allowed to have his opinion, but no it doesn't mean if you like muscular women that you're gay. Frankly it's the kind of logic you'd hear from a 12 year old.
He probably has insecurities about his own masculinity and feels threatened by women who are stronger and more muscular than him. He projects that onto you by saying that you're gay. Don't take his opinions to heart, because they come from a place of intolerance. These beautiful muscular women we love are women at their core, they just have trained their bodies intensely.
But he’s said before that my fetish isn’t a big deal, and there’s nothing wrong with liking this stuff. Now he’s insisting I’m gay I'm bye sexual. I don’t and have never felt any attraction to men.
That's a big leap, what happened?
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My friend has some awkward transparency issues, and tends to flip flop his opinions. Now he’s insisting I’m gay I'm bye sexual. I don’t and have never felt any attraction to men. Muscular men do a opposite, they actually me feel very inadequate. I think my attraction stems from this inadequate problem, but that’s another topic. I mean I showed him pictures of figure women, he even thinks those are gross. How do you guys deal with such allegations, and what do you say.
Tell him that all boys start out as an XX fetus in the womb, and that by the standards of his "logic", his attraction to girls means he's actually a lesbian transgender person.
Then walk away before his brain explodes
It's 2021... if someone's gay, I think they can come out and be gay by this point. They would never hide it by liking muscular-man-looking women.
If you like musclegirls—go for it, because sex with a musclegirl is fucking amazing for people like us. Dump this "friend", polish your credit card, and session your heart out.
I say expand your "fetish" into your everyday life. Phase 1: date and have sex with athletic, muscular women. Phase 2: You might find one to marry, if that is what you want in life. I am willing to wager that either Phase 1 or Phase 2 will cause you to not care what your friend thinks.
if you look at bodybuilding i think it's kind of funny how back in day bodybuilders were seen as gay/lesbian for even participating, but if you like it you are too.
if he has issues to work through he needs to work through them. But is EVERY man married to a muscular woman gay? the logic doesn't make sense.
Dude, that is the biggest red flag ever. Unfriend that guy, you don't deserve him
I say expand your "fetish" into your everyday life. Phase 1: date and have sex with athletic, muscular women. Phase 2: You might find one to marry, if that is what you want in life. I am willing to wager that either Phase 1 or Phase 2 will cause you to not care what your friend thinks.
I actually I’m married, not to a muscle women. I have been trying to convince her to get muscular for sometime.
Like Norm Macdonald you could be a deeply closeted gay man. So gay that you don't even think you're gay.
I actually I’m married, not to a muscle women. I have been trying to convince her to get muscular for sometime.
This absolutely does not help prove that you are gay. Your friend is not being very supportive.
I really hate to say this but that’s textbook fragile masculinity. You can’t be attracted to muscular women because their presence is too domineering for HIM. If your “friend” took a chance to pull his head from his ass, he’d see muscular woman are much more mainstream then ever before. He’s just uncomfortable about it, so you might want to ask him why. Looking at a woman and thinking of a guy sounds pretty gay to me...
I agree with all of the supportive comments, above. Older guys like myself hid our secret passion for athletic, muscular females for most of our lives. On the few times I was lucky enough to be with a buffed girl, in my younger years, any attention I paid to their muscles embarrassed them. They too were indoctrinated into thinking, muscles on females was wrong. They were so hot to me but they deemed themselves...ugly!!! Those days are long gone! Your friend is living in the past. I'm not saying it's common place to see highly muscular girls or women but they are so much more accepted and common now. From my own experience, now muscular women feel very sexy, because of the way they can drive a man or woman crazy... BECAUSE of their physical development. Not in spite of it. They hold a tremendous advantage over an average, even beautiful, untrained female. I've lived it, seen it. They feel empowered. Nothing gay about it. A muscular woman is smouldering hot in a womanly, confident, sexy, way. To sum it up...your archaic friend is a misguided, idiot!!!!
I really hate to say this but that’s textbook fragile masculinity. You can’t be attracted to muscular women because their presence is too domineering for HIM. If your “friend” took a chance to pull his head from his ass, he’d see muscular woman are much more mainstream then ever before. He’s just uncomfortable about it, so you might want to ask him why. Looking at a woman and thinking of a guy sounds pretty gay to me...
This.
Not every chick with muscles is universally hot,even to our eyes, if you showed him a pic of Renee toney or Paige dumars come on now, I yank 2 em don't get me wrong, but 2 the average person would be sus, just saying
Not every chick with muscles is universally hot,even to our eyes, if you showed him a pic of Renee toney or Paige dumars come on now, I yank 2 em don't get me wrong, but 2 the average person would be sus, just saying
Definitions of “hot” and attractive are not universal. No person is “universally hot.”
My friend has some awkward transparency issues, and tends to flip flop his opinions. He’s married to a skinny Minnie, (not that I have against that) ,and girls like him through out his teens, and didn’t have a problem finding GFs before he was married. So what I’m trying to say is his taste his average. But he’s said before that my fetish isn’t a big deal, and there’s nothing wrong with liking this stuff. Now he’s insisting I’m gay I'm bye sexual. I don’t and have never felt any attraction to men. Muscular men do a opposite, they actually me feel very inadequate. I think my attraction stems from this inadequate problem, but that’s another topic. I mean I showed him pictures of figure women, he even thinks those are gross. How do you guys deal with such allegations, and what do you say.