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Did you ever have a bad experience with a Fbb?

Feb 26, 2021 - permalink

Does this question include sessions or should that be a NSFW thread? (Although my negatives were G rated)

Feb 26, 2021 - permalink

Not to get too far off topic but I feel like a lot of these girls already suffer from body dysmorphia before getting full on into the FBB lifestyle so they might also be a little sensitive along with the haters (and sometimes fans) making comments that make them uncomfortable or irritated. I mean if I spent 6 days a week,hours and hours on end, along with a super restricted diet and lifestyle to create something beautiful only to have someone shit on it I would probably lose my damn mind too

Feb 26, 2021 - permalink

A woman misunderstood the "Wow" emoji. After I explained it, she was a little embarrassed.

Feb 26, 2021 - permalink

The only lesson I learned after that incident was to not comment at all.

Feb 26, 2021 - permalink
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M76
Feb 27, 2021 - permalink

On instagram, I have had my posts deleted or even been blocked for asking what turned out to be the wrong questions. I

As another example, this muscle gal with bible quotes said she was getting muscles for Jesus. I asked her why Jesus cared if she had muscles, because I don't remember anything about muscles in the New Testament. Well, I got banned for asking that question. But I thought it was a legitimate question.

LOL, never expect reasonable answer when questioning religion. I give a wide berth to anyone that has bible quotes.

My bad experiences include having a fight in private messages with a certain FBB about the price at she was selling her clips, I don't want to name names, but it was a very long time ago, before hbcam and others were a thing.

Another bad experience is from IRL I commented on a girl's arms and she almost bit my head off for it.

Feb 28, 2021 - permalink

Some of them are quite nasty.

Feb 28, 2021 - edited Feb 28, 2021 - permalink

"Hey bro you should train your back more, good job though." "Yeah thanks bro, you cool."

"Hey sis you should train your back more, good job though." *blocked, reported, called the FBI

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Mar 01, 2021 - permalink

And then you have the white knights who will ride in to try to curry favor with the woman.

The White Knights are arguably the worst. Even on sites like this, there are always a few lurking around, ready to pounce on any comment no matter how slight, in the desperate hope the girl will reward their Nice Guy act.

Mar 04, 2021 - permalink

I'm still not sure exactly who this is but I received a private message on here a few years ago from an account called "Smalls1975" saying this:

"Just realized last night I am on this site. No,clue how, however try calling my son a nerd again. You've been reported. No need for that. You don't me, I don't know you NOR do you know my son. Grow up...how old are you? Guarantee my son is way more mature than yourself. Keep your rude comments to yourself."

I can't remember what I might have said to make her react but I'm guessing someone posted a pic of a muscular woman next to a nerdy looking guy who happened to be her son and I pointed it out in a comment lol

Mar 04, 2021 - permalink

The White Knights are arguably the worst. Even on sites like this, there are always a few lurking around, ready to pounce on any comment no matter how slight, in the desperate hope the girl will reward their Nice Guy act.

Or just to kiss up in the most gooey, over-the-top way. They generally don't bother me, but sometimes they catch me in the wrong mood. I don't say anything, I just think it. But we all have our own quirks here.

Apr 08, 2021 - permalink

I just wrote in the comments that beastbuns is looking a lot better than you and that you need to workout more to reach her level. I thought that was a harmless comment, just to motivate her to be more like beastbuns

Next thing I know, beastbuns commented that it was not nice if me to say. Her boyfriend commented that I do not know how much effort she puts in the gym and then crossfit made a comment which I couldn't read because she blocked me

You've got some serious mental issues if you think that's a harmless comment. Are you a sociopath?

Chainer
Apr 08, 2021 - permalink

While I agree that comment comes across as clueless at best, it is bad practice to revive a thread that has been dead for a month with what is basically just an insult. Don't do that.

Apr 08, 2021 - edited Apr 08, 2021 - permalink

Many years ago there was a FBB who liked to advertise her c4s store on saradas. I commented on how much I appreciated her effort and hard work and also offered some tips on how I believed she could improve the quality of her clips. Well she immediately took offense to that for some reason and was out for my blood.

After a short but heated discussion I told her as someone who has purchased many of her clips in the past I don't see how making some simple suggestions is such an insult. Well she immediately profusely apologizes for overreacting. I guess she understood that she was cussing out someone who had been a loyal customer. Damage was done though. Never gave her another dime again after that.

After that, along with hearing many other stories, I was just never interested in interacting with any FBBs over social media. Not through instagram, facebook, chatrooms, or anything. It really started to build up a negative stereotype in my head.

Apr 08, 2021 - permalink

You're not missing anything.

Jun 30, 2021 - edited Jun 30, 2021 - permalink

2020 did a number on a lot of my favorite FFBs. I used to meet regularly with one FBB for lunch and sessions, but because of the heated election and pandemic, our fun relaxing lunches turned into me being sat down and being forced to listen to absurd conspiracy theories for an hour. Had to break it off after enough of that. I wish I could go back to before everything changed for the worse.

Jul 01, 2021 - permalink

Gotta admit…an FBB conspiracy theorist sounds intriguing. Probably a wild ride ;)

Jul 02, 2021 - edited Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

I’ve had three bad experiences with Tarna. She’s really not that nice, and doesn’t like FBB fans or muscles fans She was fine with taking pics of her when we first met I even sat next to her boyfriend, and said it was ok for me to take them The first time I met Amber Jacobs was weird. I asked if I could take a pic of her flexing, and she felt a little hesitant. I then posted the pic on her FB wall and blocked me. I’m also blocked on Instagram by Ashley Housely just because I tagged her in photos of muscles beach I took. I just thought she’d like them. I had three other bad encounters, but they are local bodybuilders so you won’t know they’re names. Oh and at LA Comic Con, and two bad encounters with a pro wrestler called The Beast. She’s loved to mess with people, if you ever see at a Con approach with caution.

Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

Even educated FBBs are not known their kindness. To see her attitude, meet her at the gym or session.

fp909
Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

I’ve had three bad experiences with Tarna. She’s really not that nice, and doesn’t like FBB fans or muscles fans She was fine with taking pics of her when we first met I even sat next to her boyfriend, and said it was ok for me to take them The first time I met Amber Jacobs was weird. I asked if I could take a pic of her flexing, and she felt a little hesitant. I then posted the pic on her FB wall and blocked me. I’m also blocked on Instagram by Ashley Housely just because I tagged her in photos of muscles beach I took. I just thought she’d like them. I had three other bad encounters, but they are local bodybuilders so you won’t know they’re names. Oh and at LA Comic Con, and two bad encounters with a pro wrestler called The Beast. She’s loved to mess with people, if you ever see at a Con approach with caution.

This sounds like it’s on you. Personally, I find it weird and/or annoying if I am tagged in things I’m not actually in, especially if she knew who you were and you already had that private experience. IME they don’t like to stop what they’re doing to flex for a fan; especially in a public place. You’re more likely to have success if you ask for a picture with them instead. If she’s aware of schmoes she knows what the photo is for.

I’ve been blocked plenty but I tend to keep that stuff online. In person I stick with small compliments and zero mention of online activity

The exception is Tarna who I have heard multiple bad experiences with even if it’s small interactions. Almost all of them will be nice to you if you treat them as if they were regular people. Definitely don’t be asking for solo flex photos.

Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

A couple of years back Nadia Amy made a post kinda body shaming a girl then made another super angry post about how she doesn't get what she did wrong. I simply commented "Well, I think you were a bit condescending." - That was my only comment ever made on her profile, got banned. Don't regret it, her posts got really annoying anyway.

Another time Kristina Nicole made a post about nuts and eating nuts and I made a deez nuts joke. I totally deserved the ban, I knew I shouldn't have made it but I couldn't resist. No regrets though.

Other than that, I don't comment on stuff and never DM these girls. From afar many of them seem egocentric and simply not fun / interesting people to talk to (though I guess social media obsessed people have a predisposition to be that way anyway).

fp909
Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

I think bodybuilders in general have obsessive personalities, otherwise they wouldn’t be any good at bodybuilding. I’ve had a few interactions online with Kristina and she’s been usually friendly, but drives a hard no when I ask about custom videos. Obviously she doesn’t mind doing muscle stuff since she’s all over HB but dunno that she feels the same with fans. But perfectly able to briefly interact. I’m sure being married had something to do with it.

Nadia is interesting. Way back I was able to do customs with her although it wasn’t the friendliest experience. She treated it as a transaction (totally fine) and the vids were pretty good (until I lost them due to a catastrophic technical failure) and then one day said no.

I hesitate to use the phrase “find religion” since I’m religious myself but it seems that the case with her. I haven’t followed her in a long time, ever since she started using her presence to build up her business and downsized her arms.

If you’ve ever seen her videos with herbiceps you get a pretty decent idea of her attitude toward all this lol

Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

I'm still not sure exactly who this is but I received a private message on here a few years ago from an account called "Smalls1975" saying this:

"Just realized last night I am on this site. No,clue how, however try calling my son a nerd again. You've been reported. No need for that. You don't me, I don't know you NOR do you know my son. Grow up...how old are you? Guarantee my son is way more mature than yourself. Keep your rude comments to yourself."

I can't remember what I might have said to make her react but I'm guessing someone posted a pic of a muscular woman next to a nerdy looking guy who happened to be her son and I pointed it out in a comment lol

Found it, lmao:

Jul 02, 2021 - permalink

Some FBBs do act differently in real life than social media.

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