My girlfriend found out about my interest in GWM. Now, it is only getting better.

So, as many of you experienced, it can be a bit difficult or challenging to tell your other half about your interest in GWM. Currently, i have a perfect relationship and we are totally open towards each other. However, the last point which i didnt tell her, was this.

Last week, she found out. We were planning a trip on my laptop and she searches 'Google flights'. Well, when she enteres the 'g', this website popped up. So, there we go i thought.

Some long talks later, she knows everything about it. It was a bit uncomfortable at first. I mean, it is kind of a big thing which i didnt tell her and you never know what someone things about it. The most difficult thing for her was the thought that i can be aroused about other women, based on a thing she doesnt have much muscles. And you cannot grow it wihtin a week or so.

So, some talks later, things are way better now. She is atheltic herself, pretty fit, does a lot of sports, but not very muscular. She playes hockey, running, group lessons etc. You get me.

However, she likes the idea of me liking the muscles and also the progress of getting muscles. So now we did go to the gym a couple of times and now she is really into it.

I mean, this is the dream almost? Oke i am realistic and muslce grow takes years, but how nice that she wants to work on it for me because i like it so muc, but now she also likes it herslef.

Curious where this will lead to.

Does anyone has the same experience? Any tips?

Kind regards!

why would any male on this planet want his girlfriend to go to the gym?

lol

did you not notice by any chance that 90% of the regular attendants to the gym are single young men?

gyms are a place for singles to hookup.

You are really sad and insecure

You are really sad and insecure

a very constructive, self contained, logical comment

might as well just throw the keyboard at the screen lol

Hey that's the dream right? I'd say go with her and workout together, great bonding time! You can figure out a good meal plan for the both of you that supplies the calories and protein required, and enjoy the progress. I'm sure your admiration of her gains will provide good motivation for her to keep going :D

so she went from finding out, talking about it, and she already went to the gym multiple times in 1 week?

Congratulations! Hope you get to enjoy her growth!

so she went from finding out, talking about it, and she already went to the gym multiple times in 1 week?

My bad, maybe the timespan was a bit unclear. It is 3 weeks now.

Thanks you all! really curious where this will lead to

why would any male on this planet want his girlfriend to go to the gym?

Because he's in a stable psychologically healthy relationship with a fellow adult and doesn't have a micropenis?

It's a mystery why that possibility hadn't previously factored into your thinking on this issue.

You should absolutely keep her going to the gym, ensure she does her warm up sets, doesn't overtrain, stretches after every exercise. Keep her training relatively gentle for NOW, to ensure its longevity. Encourage her efforts, congratulate her breaking PB's. She should eventually get so enamoured with the process she trains alone for YOU, she hits failure towards the end of a set for YOU. Have her focus on the feminine muscle groups, the quads, glutes calves, pecs.

The most difficult thing for her was the thought that i can be aroused about other women, based on a thing she doesnt have much muscles. And you cannot grow it wihtin a week or so.

I have to say, before you wrote, "based on a thing", my initial reaction was "Whoa...the thought that other women can arouse you is difficult for her? Red flag buddy!" I hope it's ONLY the current muscle disparity she has a problem with, and I do hope she is confident she'll build muscle and has set herself (or you both set her) some numeric goals. I'm not used to training women but I think depending on her age adding 10lbs of lean muscle tissue is a viable goal in the first couple of years.

I have to say, before you wrote, "based on a thing", my initial reaction was "Whoa...the thought that other women can arouse you is difficult for her? Red flag buddy!" I hope it's ONLY the current muscle disparity she has a problem with, and I do hope she is confident she'll build muscle and has set herself (or you both set her) some numeric goals. I'm not used to training women but I think depending on her age adding 10lbs of lean muscle tissue is a viable goal in the first couple of years.

Aah haha no dont you worry. It is a healthy relationship, but indeed it was the muscles that made her insecure.

I will! We will make it a fun progress. Maybe, if she agrees on it i will post the progress here, would be fun

I really enjoyed your story and the fact that she’s onboard with it now! My experience of telling my girlfriend about this 15 years ago has been nothing but positive.

It’s important that she understands it’s like any other fascination or preference. For example, if I see a muscular girl at the beach, I find it fascinating, but it doesn’t arouse me. You need a certain setting for that, which I think most people can relate to.

Over the years she has actually adapted to the fascination, and now we can both comment to each other if we e.g. see a woman in public with ripped calves 😅

I’m 100% sure it will only be a positive ride from here!

Sweet man, now you just gotta convince her to take steroids.

Also pro tip for the future, use incognito mode.

Talked my wife (at the time girlfriend) into going to the gym with me as way to spend more time together 6-7 years ago.

She put two and two together and figured out I was attracted to girls with muscle.

Fast forward to present day. We hired coaches to do a show several months back. She is more eager to step on stage than I am.