I get it that in onlyfans the end purpose is that you pay but on instagram they also want to sell you fitness plans so...
My brother in Christ, be serious, no rational human can be expected to pretend you are a potential customer for an exercise plan.
We've had a lot of fun here, but some stuff is just too silly even for this thread.
What's funny misconception it seems to people here is that they equate muscle on man as a measurement of masculinity, I don't think fbb do that, you could easily be an alcoholic bum and still be seen as a desirable man due to masculine vibes to an fbb. People don't need to have sameness for attraction to exist, quite the opposite.
What's funny misconception it seems to people here is that they equate muscle on man as a measurement of masculinity, I don't think fbb do that, you could easily be an alcoholic bum and still be seen as a desirable man due to masculine vibes to an fbb. People don't need to have sameness for attraction to exist, quite the opposite.
No one said that.
What was mentioned throughout the thread was that you have to at least be in shape and understand fitness to date any of these women seriously. Which may not be the rule per say, but this is a thing of probability. Putting yourself in a better position to get what you want in general does not hurt.
Sameness has been the standard throughout human history. Even now people look for partners that they have things in common with.
My brother in Christ, be serious, no rational human can be expected to pretend you are a potential customer for an exercise plan.
We've had a lot of fun here, but some stuff is just too silly even for this thread.
I'm talking about the people who address the fbbs in general on instagram.
I'm not talking about myself.
I never talk about myself.
Everything I say is related to the human population in general of the world.
Never about me.
you can imagine after 5 years of having sex with the same person it kind of loses attractive.
This is the dumbest shit I've ever heard in a while. Sex or any sexual act can be done for different reasons. Some like to spice things up, some like to unwind after a week of work. To say it loses attractiveness or getting boring is not true to most.
in onlyfans I talk to any girl they answer instantly and with the best predisposition.
instagram nobody answers.
Hopefully you have rewarding convos with the dudes managing the onlyfans accounts.
Muscles_Toez is on the money.
Being a bodybuilder is expensive. Hair, makeup, tan, posing, training, coaches, clothing and competition suits, regular maintenance. Not to mention the drugs. There are a lot of women, public and under the radar, that provide sessions. Pay to play is huge in the bodybuilding world. No way one person can afford all of it, unless they have an extensive network, make a good salary, or have providers that can take care of them.
Sessions themselves can lead to having a relationship. Friends with benefits if you will. If you want a romantic relationship, I can't see it.
Most guys that want a bodybuilding woman want the physical and sexual desire fulfilled. Dating these women would seem like a chore. I think being close to a few women who can provide that release is the best.
Agree 100% on all counts. The point that resonates most for me is the desire/pleasure vs chore component; being that obsessed with your appearance and lifestyle/diet etc at the exclusion of all else smacks of next level self indulgence and self centred-ness (trying to avoid using the word 'narcissist') that would grow a tad onerous after about 5 minutes! Just my take.
I'm tired of many fbb and such presenting themself as strong and confident, then lounge under a palm tree and hit the gym. Now show me those who endure Finnish winter for a week in the woods in a tent eating canned food and fish for themself, tired of these comfort seeking ones, then men go "oh moves much weight that one is strong as person"
I'm tired of many fbb and such presenting themself as strong and confident, then lounge under a palm tree and hit the gym. Now show me those who endure Finnish winter for a week in the woods in a tent eating canned food and fish for themself, tired of these comfort seeking ones, then men go "oh moves much weight that one is strong as person"
You don't have to be a survivalist or be in the front lines of whatever to feel strong and confident.
I wanted to type a text in Perplexity about how to fix the cognitive dissonance that comes with having a femuscle fetish...
Well, what i am getting at is that when i typed just "How do I marry my fetish...", the autocomplete showed this 𤣠emoji, lol
Agree 100% on all counts. The point that resonates most for me is the desire/pleasure vs chore component; being that obsessed with your appearance and lifestyle/diet etc at the exclusion of all else smacks of next level self indulgence and self centred-ness (trying to avoid using the word 'narcissist') that would grow a tad onerous after about 5 minutes! Just my take.
It's a decent take.
IMO I've realized that it's only physical and sexual desire that I want to fulfill with fit and athletic women. I don't need to be with a bodybuilder to achieve this. Access is better in some cases.
Pursuing a romantic relationship with a female bodybuilder, anything is possible but not everything is probable. The core aspect of that relationship will be fitness, sports, and in generally being physically active. It makes sense if you are aligned with that lifestyle.
In the real world, you can broaden the band to include athletic, slim, fit women whose lifestyles are more aligned. In doing so the physical and sexual desire can be more easily fulfilled.
Yeah I think broadening the band is the only right way to do it. Itâs just like going âcold turkeyâ from smoking for example. Once you get reeled back in your twice as more addicted. If you start simple and become accustomed to a girl with large glutes (common), athletic build (common) youâve already won most of the battle.
It's a decent take.
IMO I've realized that it's only physical and sexual desire that I want to fulfill with fit and athletic women. I don't need to be with a bodybuilder to achieve this. Access is better in some cases.
Pursuing a romantic relationship with a female bodybuilder, anything is possible but not everything is probable. The core aspect of that relationship will be fitness, sports, and in generally being physically active. It makes sense if you are aligned with that lifestyle.
In the real world, you can broaden the band to include athletic, slim, fit women whose lifestyles are more aligned. In doing so the physical and sexual desire can be more easily fulfilled.
if a girl is 30+
she has instragram with thousands of followers
her body looks like a goddess
she's an ifbb pro
yet she's single
YOU NEVERS STOPPED TO THINK MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DATE ANYBODY?
THERE'S ONLY TWO OPTIONS IN THIS UNIVERSE
1- SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DATE ANYBODY
2- SHE'S WAITING FOR ME
NONE OF THOSE INCLUDE YOU
if a girl is 30+
she has instragram with thousands of followers
her body looks like a goddess
she's an ifbb pro
yet she's single
YOU NEVERS STOPPED TO THINK MAYBE SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DATE ANYBODY?
Or maybe she's able to have sex and have those needs met without the weight of a relationship.
THERE'S ONLY TWO OPTIONS IN THIS UNIVERSE
1- SHE DOESN'T WANT TO DATE ANYBODY
2- SHE'S WAITING FOR ME
NONE OF THOSE INCLUDE YOU
You remind me of the homeless people I see on the street talking to themselves out loud.
For a split second you believe that they're speaking to you, where in reality they're having discussions with the demon in their heads.
Don't make eye contact and you'll be fine.
Yeah I think broadening the band is the only right way to do it. Itâs just like going âcold turkeyâ from smoking for example. Once you get reeled back in your twice as more addicted. If you start simple and become accustomed to a girl with large glutes (common), athletic build (common) youâve already won most of the battle.
The world becomes more palatable if you are open to eating what it has to offer.
Those that are picky eaters will make it much harder to feed themselves.
Or maybe she's able to have sex and have those needs met without the weight of a relationship.
Normal people like being in relationships because it feels good to share your life with someone.
The fact that they don't want to be in a relationship is a sign that something is not right in their mind.
Either that or they are all just waiting for me.
Normal people like being in relationships because it feels good to share your life with someone.
The fact that they don't want to be in a relationship is a sign that something is not right in their mind.
Either that or they are all just waiting for me.
Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
Traditional marriage is being redefined. Women and men today are not as willing to get tied up in long term relationships. Hot buff women who get lots of attention probably stay independent as long as they can while getting all their physical needs met.
I'm tired of many fbb and such presenting themself as strong and confident, then lounge under a palm tree and hit the gym. Now show me those who endure Finnish winter for a week in the woods in a tent eating canned food and fish for themself, tired of these comfort seeking ones, then men go "oh moves much weight that one is strong as person"
What an awesome statement, I love it! Unless you can survive on your own for weeks, or even months at a time, in tent in one of the coldest and harshest climates on earth then you don't know what being strong and confident really is!
How about being ready to survive the zombie apocalypse? Noone can really say they're strong or confident until you have survived through one of those! đ
My zombie apocalypse team is elite. And always ready.
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in the end they are similar sites.
you want their attention.
in onlyfans they give it to you, on instagram they don't.
some fbbs on instagram are also in onlyfans.
I get it that in onlyfans the end purpose is that you pay but on instagram they also want to sell you fitness plans so...