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Girlfriend choice

(391 total votes)

A bikini competitor who can support herself and pursue her passion (214, 54.7%)
A poor, unsponsored bodybuilder who you have to financially support (Lost funds) so she can pay for her diet, supplements, steroids, and travel to competitions abroad? (177, 45.3%)
May 03, 2026 - permalink

Would you rather spend your life with:

May 03, 2026 - permalink

Man. That's tough actually. A pro bodybuilder lifestyle I have to imagine is super expensive. But Bikini really isn't muscular enough for me. I mean it's more than I have in my life now LOL. If it had been pretty much any other more muscular level I would have gone wit that but I guess I'll have to be poor and pick bodybuilder. Guess I"m getting a second job.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

The poor unsupported bodybuilder of course. The bikini competitor who can support herself is definitely not dating you unless you look like an IFBB Pro yourself. The poor one will be more than happy to date a financially stable regular guy who works out but is never going to compete.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

I would not have an LTR with either. I bet I would have nothing in common personality wise with a woman who is just an FBB or bikini competitor. Short term dating with both types is probably ok. I am way past these options now.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

I think I have enough money to support her it should not be too expensive

Chainer
May 03, 2026 - permalink

Needing other people to financially support your hobby is pretty unattractive IMO.

edit: Props to you OP for proposing a question which so far appears pretty evenly split between the answers.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

Both types of women are primed for transactional relationships where both parties end up miserable in the long run.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

Both types of women are primed for transactional relationships where both parties end up miserable in the long run.

Exactly.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

Both types are still expecting to be taken care of / provided for. So the only thing you could do is choose wisely.

May 03, 2026 - permalink

Finance isn't going to be an issue, so many other factors will decide that.

All else being equal I'll take the poor Bodybuilder, but again so much could swing that the other way.

May 04, 2026 - permalink

I mean, I have so much money that this question is really just 'which of these chicks is hottest'?

You want some financial support? Sure, just take it out of the account and tell me if it's more than $15k.

So can you just add me as a vote to whichever one has the biggest butt? Or, like, if one of them is really ugly then I'll vote for the other one.

I'm sure the returning officer can figure out the fine detail.

May 07, 2026 - permalink

Easy one. Happy to support and pay her expenses etc... no problemo! 👍😁

May 07, 2026 - permalink

Young, fertile, and ready to build a wonderful life as a mother and wife. Go!

arl
May 16, 2026 - permalink

Unless you’re a BB yourself and need to be with someone who matches your lifestyle, I’ve never seen the appeal of being in a LTR with a FBB.Looks only go so far.

May 16, 2026 - permalink

The one who doesn't take steroids. Because I'm not into beard

May 16, 2026 - permalink

The one who I have to finance, easy choice. That's pretty much the ideal scenario for me. She shouldn't have to worry about anything except growing her muscles.

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