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Rant: Stop treating your attraction to buff women like some deep dark secret!

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

I think if your sexual fetishes and attractions are ruining your life you need to get therapy or at least jerk off less

^^

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

My love for muscular women isn't really a secret, but if nobody asks, then I'm not saying anything. I enjoy them plenty, but not so much that it interferes with my life.

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

I think of this not so much of a dark secret and more like a thing that doesn't need explanation. I like muscular women, but I don't feel the need to explain that. If I see a muscular woman, I will just go up and talk to her. Every time someone I knew saw me interacting with a fit woman, they never brought up anything other than pointing out how muscular she was. Now if I state that I really like muscular women, I'm sure my friends and families will ask me why so I don't mention it

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

I think if your sexual fetishes and attractions are ruining your life you need to get therapy or at least jerk off less

Who is this motherfucker?!

Get out of here you clown!

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

> Every family member, friends and some coworkers know I love muscular women. My social media accounts are public and I post photos and videos there. I don't care what people think. > > But I don't go around telling everybody though. If they find out, they find out.

Ozzy Osbourne was once asked about this and said that blokes who like muscle chicks are gay as the ace of spades.

He was hardly an icon of sanity.

Apr 05, 2026 - permalink

> > Ozzy Osbourne was once asked about this and said that blokes who like muscle chicks are gay as the ace of spades.

Ozzy was the greatest lead vocalist of all time but his taste in women and who he ended up with kind of speaks for itself

LOL all too true. His wife is an absolute disaster

Apr 11, 2026 - permalink

Any user who is embarrassed to admit they admire the typical buff, muscular women has deep rooted insecurities. For example, in my opinion, you have issues if you can’t admit to friends or family that you think women like Lauren Findlay or Desi Johnson (or more or less similar women) are attractive. Most likely there is a spectrum of other insecurities, lack of confidence, low achievement that defines their behaviors. There is also childhood/familial conditioning and maybe trauma growing up that leads to these beliefs. I can understand if you are into the fetish aspect of muscular women and focused on objectifying the physiques of the small percentage of mass monsters; no one needs to know. But otherwise, it’s a serious flex to walk into a social setting with a beautiful, fit and buff woman on your arm.

Apr 11, 2026 - permalink

Under what circumstances would someone have broached the topic of attraction to muscular women with Ozzy Osbourne?

Apr 13, 2026 - permalink

Any user who is embarrassed to admit they admire the typical buff, muscular women has deep rooted insecurities. For example, in my opinion, you have issues if you can’t admit to friends or family that you think women like Lauren Findlay or Desi Johnson (or more or less similar women) are attractive. Most likely there is a spectrum of other insecurities, lack of confidence, low achievement that defines their behaviors. There is also childhood/familial conditioning and maybe trauma growing up that leads to these beliefs. I can understand if you are into the fetish aspect of muscular women and focused on objectifying the physiques of the small percentage of mass monsters; no one needs to know. But otherwise, it’s a serious flex to walk into a social setting with a beautiful, fit and buff woman on your arm.

With all due respect, most people have deep-rooted insecurities. There's nothing special about ours (ours = anyone feeling it within the female muscle fan sector).

Apr 13, 2026 - permalink

Ngl, people are gonna think you're weird. But everybody these days knows that "feeders" and "furries" and the like have their own online communities, as do those who like "muscle mommies". So it's more accepted today, just still not "normal".

Apr 14, 2026 - edited Apr 14, 2026 - permalink

The muscular women of the world really do need to step up and start beating men publically so they can start ruling the world. Then there can be no shame. It will come to pass anyway and we'll be their pets. When we are all in our mistresses cages, no one can judge.

Apr 14, 2026 - permalink

The muscular women of the world really do need to step up and start beating up men publically so they can start ruling the world. Then there can be no shame. It will come to pass anyway and we'll be their pets. When we are all in our mistresses cages, no one can judge.

Sure :D

Apr 14, 2026 - permalink

Kevin is known for his irreverent sarcasm. ;-)

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Apr 14, 2026 - permalink

Any user who is embarrassed to admit they admire the typical buff, muscular women has deep rooted insecurities. For example, in my opinion, you have issues if you can’t admit to friends or family that you think women like Lauren Findlay or Desi Johnson (or more or less similar women) are attractive. Most likely there is a spectrum of other insecurities, lack of confidence, low achievement that defines their behaviors. There is also childhood/familial conditioning and maybe trauma growing up that leads to these beliefs. I can understand if you are into the fetish aspect of muscular women and focused on objectifying the physiques of the small percentage of mass monsters; no one needs to know. But otherwise, it’s a serious flex to walk into a social setting with a beautiful, fit and buff woman on your arm.

It’s little weird pointing someone’s insecurities, they already deal with the stigma but then saying they have issues and insecurities definitely doesn’t help with them being okay with being open about being attracted to muscular/fit women.

I only have ever seen people get criticized for it when

  1. They make it a overtly sexual fantasy, and when I mean by this I mean like over the top, where they make it their only personality which is honestly valid for any type of sexual preference or fetish

  2. When said person is pretty out of shape/overweight, it’s like a woman who earns $50k a year who only says he’ll date a man who makes 7 figures. Dating in your tax bracket=dating your body bracket if that makes sense. Now obviously there’s many fit women and bodybuilders who don’t mind dating a man who’s not as active, but it’s kind of a given for a bodybuilder to prefer date someone who understands and matches their lifestyle instead of it being a fetish

Like my girlfriend has always been a competitive cheerleader her whole life with a great body with some muscle. When we started dating I never once mentioned her going to the gym, but as life went on she understood this is my lifestyle as a guy who lives a bodybuilder adjacent life, and that she wanted to adopt it because 1. The health benefits 2. We want to appeal to each others physical attraction

Apr 17, 2026 - permalink

Ngl, people are gonna think you're weird. But everybody these days knows that "feeders" and "furries" and the like have their own online communities, as do those who like "muscle mommies". So it's more accepted today, just still not "normal".

Damn, even podophiles (it’s the clinical name for foot fetish, don’t worry) (but be damn careful about typos!) are increasingly out these days. Lots of people will be assholes over straight vs LGBTQ sadly, but gradations of heterosexuality don’t really get judged anywhere NEARLY as much as they used to.

Apr 18, 2026 - permalink

Stoicism. Like the dude abides man 😁

Apr 18, 2026 - permalink

Clayton77:

Stoicism. Like the dude abides man 😁

Like, wow, and groovy mannn, but The Dude wasn't like a Stoic. The Dude was a total stoner! Right on! Oh wait a sec mannn, you just made a typo rightttt? That's cool man, and like, you can ignore me cause like, I'm really stoned man. Yeah. I don't need weed, I'm just high on life! Right on! Keep on abiding The Dude tho. That's like, righteous! 🥴👍

May 21, 2026 - permalink

Stoicism. Like the dude abides man 😁

omfg she's enormous! I can tell the size difference, other than height, is incredible. Wow she's so built. How do you get a woman like this? What is the attraction on her end, no offense. I would think she'd want a bodybuilder man.

May 21, 2026 - permalink

How do you get a woman like her? Treat her like a woman and not just as a bodybuilder. She may be into the gym, but I'm sure he loves her for more than just her muscles.

May 23, 2026 - permalink

She doesn’t want a bodybuilder. She likes being a lot bigger than me it’s part of the attraction. Crash is right, treat a woman like a woman and you can’t go wrong. They like being treated like the queens they are.

May 23, 2026 - permalink

Damn, even podophiles (it’s the clinical name for foot fetish, don’t worry) (but be damn careful about typos!)

Almost wish I were a foot-fetishist I'd start using the word JUST to make people squirm :)

May 24, 2026 - permalink

The problem with people and the other thing is that people see it EVERYWHERE, when it's there and when it isn't. So, shaking them up a little make sense.

1 hour ago - permalink

She doesn’t want a bodybuilder. She likes being a lot bigger than me it’s part of the attraction. Crash is right, treat a woman like a woman and you can’t go wrong. They like being treated like the queens they are.

Why does she like being bigger? It seems like female bodybuilders are always with bigger men.

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