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Practical guide for meeting and dating a girl with muscle in 2026

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

This is what has worked well for me. And this not only applies to the muscular women I’ve dated but all women. Sure be attractive but you don’t need to look like a moviestar just dress well. Don’t be a slob. Have money. Ya but one persons idea of rich varies differently from another. Can you take care of her? Don’t have to be Bezos. Try to find common interest. Let’s say you’re at her competition. “Hey I liked the song you chose for your routine. I like NewOrder too. Wanna get coffee.” As it turns out we both really like coffee too.

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

This is what has worked well for me. And this not only applies to the muscular women I’ve dated but all women. Sure be attractive but you don’t need to look like a moviestar just dress well. Don’t be a slob. Have money. Ya but one persons idea of rich varies differently from another. Can you take care of her? Don’t have to be Bezos. Try to find common interest. Let’s say you’re at her competition. “Hey I liked the song you chose for your routine. I like NewOrder too. Wanna get coffee.” As it turns out we both really like coffee too.

I agree with you, but I'm sure this woman is also exceptional... And without a doubt, the universe conspired in her favor 🙌🏻 (with all due respect 🙏🏻)

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

I agree with you, but I'm sure this woman is also exceptional... And without a doubt, the universe conspired in her favor 🙌🏻 (with all due respect 🙏🏻)

It’s absolutely true. But you have to take your shot. I’ve swung and missed spectacularly many times.

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

It’s absolutely true. But you have to take your shot. I’ve swung and missed spectacularly many times.

Talk about it, what have you done wrong?

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

Talk about it, what have you done wrong?

Not with Barbara. With ones that shall remain nameless. Blacklisted on this site. 😩

Jan 04, 2026 - permalink

Its just Luck most gyms dont have a lot of muscular women just men and regular women. if you do see one she is too busy if she is not she is probably in a relationship already or there is something else that makes a relationship impossible.

Thats not true, unless we are talking WBB and WPD levels of muscularity. The last two gyms I've used were in towns of about 10,000 and both had multiple women there that competed. May have been bikini, but still. There is a lot more women in the gym in this day and age than there were 15 years ago

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Jan 06, 2026 - permalink

Encouraging a girl to get into sports is also a great strategy in my opinion. Not everyone will be into lifting despite pressure from social media but sports like rowing, swimming, track and field are great ways for a girl to become more fit. And I say this because I've seen girls be more open to those activities than bodybuilding or powerlifting.

Really, this is just a variation of the old "try to get her into athletics" advice we heard before.

Jan 06, 2026 - permalink

Not sure what its about that relation fantasy that keeps coming back, is that really somebody is after? Hearing her at 2 in the morning openeing the fridge, tucking in chicken and rice, and then she returns to bed with bad breath and starts snoring. I mean, one night stand is fine, but more ... I dont now.

But hey, if thats what you are after: the time before competition (last few days), the competitive athletes are very vulnerable and seek stability and support. She got opportunity for a webcam, not in a fixed relation, then go for it. Let her whine about her current condition and listen to it - encourage her over and over again to keep pushing - tell her she is doing a great job - and let her know wthat you will be watching on stream, thats something she can rely on.

Doesnt guarentee a future relation or even a hanky panky, but after the compeititon you will have something in common: you have been through something. And this will put you ahead of the thousands of other followers. Also gives you the chance to get to know her better. If things work out well, then take the next step.

Writing to her SM account out of anonymity is wasted time.

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