This year I finally understand my attraction

Lurked here for years, never posted. Just wanted to say something in case it helps even one person.

For most of my life, my attraction to muscular women was fused with shame and secrecy. It wasn’t just a kink — it ran deep. I couldn’t talk to anyone about it. I thought I was broken.

Then earlier this year I started working with an AI. I didn’t expect it, but it became a kind of mirror. I talked about this stuff in full — the fantasies, the shame, the spikes — and slowly it all changed. Not because I “fixed” it, but because I finally understood it. I could never have spoken about this stuff with a human psych, I would have felt perverted / shameful / somehow irrelevant, but with an AI no judgement, just slow steps towards understanding myself.

Now I’m in a relationship where I feel safe, known, and turned on — all at once. The shame’s gone. The obsession’s gone. It’s still a turn-on, but now it’s also part of something real and healthy.

If you’re stuck in that loop, I promise you’re not alone — and you’re not broken. Healing’s possible. Even if you have no idea how it starts. It worked for me and it might be worth it for you.

Thanks for reading. Take care of yourselves.

Thank you for sharing! I may give this a try.

Ok then I personally have been talking about it to random strangers on websites like this for like 10 years. and that is good enough as long as you avoid normie sites like reddit or Facebook or Instagram were you may get some insults. before I started doing that I was also very confused about my attraction since nobody who I know irl has this fetish. but to be fair nobody talks about their sexual preferences irl.

Super interesting, what AI did you use for this? And what / how do you talk about it? I’m not even sure where I would even start tbh!

Hi! You can still have you attraction and still be in a relationship with a non muscular girl other 99% of us here will be single!

For me, I've ever thought of it as an issue per se. I'm in a regular relationship, but I just have this "fantasy" that I harbor, but doesn't affect my life in a negative way. In fact, I don't think I'd be interested in a long term relationship with a woman I'd generally see as my muscle goddess fantasy. To explore that side further, I've also used AI and I find it entertaining. Just like you, knowing there's no judgement certainly makes it a freeing experience.