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Is your female partner stronger?

Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

My girl is definitely stronger at cooking and cleaning...just saying.

Not bad, lmao

Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

It depends on which lift. I've got her beat on anything upper-body. She beats me in adductors and abductors, as well as leg extensions. I beat her in leg press, but I suspect she just hasn't tried to max out that one, since she doesn't want to get too sore.

Sep 30, 2025 - edited Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

Yes. Same height, but she weighs 20lbs more than me with much more muscle in her comp. Her measurements are all bigger than mine too. It’s not crazy though, I’ve been turned on by muscular powerful women since I was a kid. There’s no way I wouldn’t have married one

Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

I was dating an east european girl who was 5'11/180cm 260lbs/120kg. I am same height but close to 300lb and I am stronger than the average dude. she was surprisingly muscular underneath and definitely stronger than me in lower body. She had firm thick but not-defined forearms and I swear her grip was matching my strength if not stronger. Her hands were more solid than mine, mine was softer 🙈 She was using the heaviest ball(16) in bowling where I was having trouble to use it.

Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

No, but she’s getting closer to being stronger, and she’s 10 years younger than me so it’s probably just a matter of time. 😥

Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

No, she's pretty strong for her size, but i got her by a few inches and over 60 lbs

Oct 02, 2025 - permalink

She’s not stronger than me. However, she is stronger than most guys, especially most of the guys that go to our gym. She’s also 5’8” 165 and very built. And she keeps getting bigger and stronger since she’s training really well and eating right.

Oct 24, 2025 - edited Oct 26, 2025 - permalink

Well, my case progressed from what I posted a few months ago. She finally decided this summer to work with a personal trainer, which she wanted to do since years ago. She remained in the 160-170 lbs range, but Im still a 30 lbs lighter. I have always been stronger than her, but her strength shocked me even earlier this year. Now she is even more shocking to me. It's difficult to get used to it, but I think she is stronger than me in any regard.

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Oct 25, 2025 - permalink

Well, my case progressed from what I posted a few months ago. She finally decided this summer to work with a personal trainer, which she wanted to do since years ago. She remained in the 160-170 lbs range, but Im still a 30 lbs lighter, but I have always been stronger than her, but her strength shocked me even earlier this year. Now she is even more shocking to me. It's difficult to get used to it, but I think she is stronger than me in any regard.

Do you have before an after photo or any one else on there partners progression or comparison to you

Oct 25, 2025 - permalink

Yes she is She weighs almost the same as me and is able to carry me (which I am not). She also beats me at armwrestling almost every time we try that and at wrestling, which we love to do as foreplay, she also dominates me, throws me around the bed, pins me mercilessly and is able to escape my pins with almost shocking ease.

Oct 25, 2025 - permalink

She’s not stronger but has been training for the past 2 years with a personal trainer who’s on GWM. Her legs and glutes are so much stronger than they used to be and arms are coming up slowly. When we got married she was 115 lbs. before training she was 130 and now about 150. Some of it is fat, which covers up her gains. I’m 10x more attracted to her now and she was already stunning.

Oct 27, 2025 - permalink

Do you have before an after photo or any one else on there partners progression or comparison to you

I wish to keep her privacy, so I'm only posting partial photographs of her in personal messages.

Oct 27, 2025 - permalink

My wife can deadlift 305lbs. She just maxed out for the first time in over 5 years with very little training. She weighs 160. I can lift more, but not twice my body weight. With more training I’m sure she will pass my total weight.

Oct 27, 2025 - permalink

My wife can deadlift 305lbs. She just maxed out for the first time in over 5 years with very little training. She weighs 160. I can lift more, but not twice my body weight. With more training I’m sure she will pass my total weight.

How much can she squat and bench?

Oct 27, 2025 - permalink
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Oct 27, 2025 - permalink

How much can she squat and bench?

Not as much, hasn’t focused on heavy lifting, which is why her deadlift impressed me so much. She is focusing on adding weight to that and is starting to get into other lifts with me now.

Oct 28, 2025 - permalink

Not as much, hasn’t focused on heavy lifting, which is why her deadlift impressed me so much. She is focusing on adding weight to that and is starting to get into other lifts with me now.

Thats great. Keep encouraging her and keep lifting for yourself also

Feb 24, 2026 - permalink

Well, my case progressed from what I posted a few months ago. She finally decided this summer to work with a personal trainer, which she wanted to do since years ago. She remained in the 160-170 lbs range, but Im still a 30 lbs lighter. I have always been stronger than her, but her strength shocked me even earlier this year. Now she is even more shocking to me. It's difficult to get used to it, but I think she is stronger than me in any regard.

Since then it is safe to say that she is the stronger one. Working out is now her main hobby, and it's the first thing she manages to and actively tries to find time for in a regular bases since childbirth. Visible results now boosts her confidence in the gym, and the fact that she can tease me about it, lol. She knows how it affects me.

Mar 03, 2026 - permalink

No. Never been with a partner stronger than me. Well over 300kg dead and back squat, and well over 200kg bench. All raw, no powerlifting lifts.

That is like being 213 cm/7 ft tall and having a liking for taller women haha.

Mar 03, 2026 - permalink

Well, we recently broke up but it was a pretty incredible year bedroom –wise. I'm 5'11" 185 lbs. She is strong fat (5' 9", 210 lbs), emphasis on the strong part. I've not dated that type before I usually like them pretty petite. but one day she stopped by where I was working, cleaning out a house after an estate sale and I couldn't quite reach something hanging off the ceiling so she lifted me up (I didn't even ask she just did it). and she did it so easily and smoothly I was like holy shit maybe we should talk about my attraction to strong girls and we did and she took it as inspiration. We arm wrestled and it was always a tie. I couldn't beat her, she couldn't beat me but we broke the kitchen table trying.

at the end of date night, she would carry me into the bedroom either over her shoulder or cradle style, and then toss me into the bed. my favorite move was when I'm on top missionary style she would do the pelvic lift and she could easily just lift me 2 feet into the air. The other favorite was she would get on her knees at the end of the bed I would lean forward and she would basically lift me shoulder press style and deep throat me on the downstroke. it was wild.

Mar 04, 2026 - permalink

I found a new GF and she has stronger arms than me even pretty defined (im lean on top). Shes got ofc bigger ass, but i do have bigger legs since i do more leg heavy sports.

Mar 04, 2026 - permalink

Well, we recently broke up but it was a pretty incredible year bedroom –wise. I'm 5'11" 185 lbs. She is strong fat (5' 9", 210 lbs), emphasis on the strong part. I've not dated that type before I usually like them pretty petite. but one day she stopped by where I was working, cleaning out a house after an estate sale and I couldn't quite reach something hanging off the ceiling so she lifted me up (I didn't even ask she just did it). and she did it so easily and smoothly I was like holy shit maybe we should talk about my attraction to strong girls and we did and she took it as inspiration. We arm wrestled and it was always a tie. I couldn't beat her, she couldn't beat me but we broke the kitchen table trying.

at the end of date night, she would carry me into the bedroom either over her shoulder or cradle style, and then toss me into the bed. my favorite move was when I'm on top missionary style she would do the pelvic lift and she could easily just lift me 2 feet into the air. The other favorite was she would get on her knees at the end of the bed I would lean forward and she would basically lift me shoulder press style and deep throat me on the downstroke. it was wild.

Oh man sounds like a good time indeed!

Mar 17, 2026 - permalink

I'm in my 60's. After many years married finally came clean about my preference for women with muscle to my wife and to my surprise she embraced the idea completely. She is 5'6" and 120lbs and has always been a dancer. Since then she spends an hour or two most days in the gym, and has started to build some serious muscle. In the last 18 months and has become much stronger and to my surprise she now beats me arm wrestling, and our time in the sack has changed completely. I'm loving it. Should have been honest years ago.

Mar 19, 2026 - permalink

It’s not me, but there’s an instagram account from a Korean couple where the woman is obviously way fitter than her husband and quite likely stronger. It’s quite funny and I have a feeling that the husband is very comfortable with who he is and seems to be fine playing the patsy. The videos are all in Korean but have English subtitles. The main criticism I have with the shorts is that the subtitles covers her glorious abs. And the man is clearly living the dream.

Since I am too fresh to post links here is a slightly altered one. You can also search for happy_ss13

www. instagram. com/happy_ss13/

Mar 19, 2026 - permalink

It’s not me, but there’s an instagram account from a Korean couple where the woman is obviously way fitter than her husband and quite likely stronger. It’s quite funny and I have a feeling that the husband is very comfortable with who he is and seems to be fine playing the patsy. The videos are all in Korean but have English subtitles. The main criticism I have with the shorts is that the subtitles covers her glorious abs. And the man is clearly living the dream.

Since I am too fresh to post links here is a slightly altered one. You can also search for happy_ss13

www. instagram. com/happy_ss13/

Nice find, thanks!

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