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Yeah I’m going to end it here, there is a little more to tell, but this is supposed to be a muscle forum. Ive surprised myself in this case. I first became attracted to her because of the muscle. Now it’s just about her. I don’t even think about the muscle any more, just about how hot she is. Thanks for your input.
Hey, thanks for asking. Not a major update, but here’s what’s happening. She doesn’t work for me often now, just occasionally when my needs fit with her availability. Very much in the friend zone. It’s ok, there are worse things, and it’ll never be anything else. Whenever we embrace - this is France, and greetings are quite physical - I have my hands on her lovely hard delts. She likes me a great deal, but I know where i stand. She did invite me to a rave, which was amazing fun. I enjoyed being with someone so hot, and the looks on other peoples faces seeing is together - the age difference is huge. Purely friend zone though, Im actually embarrassed to think there could have been anything more. She did introduce me as her best friend. It’s not true of course but nice to hear. I saw her two Saturdays ago, and at one point she was flexing for a group of girls who were feeling her arms and being very noisy about it. My god that was hot.
Thank you. I appreciate that a lot. I can’t have regrets . Well of course I do. What I would give to get close to her. But i have had a life. Was married 37 years, had for kids, all grown up and gone. Just me being with her must look creepy, but it’s her who invites me to raves, comes to see me, gets edgy when I talk to other women. But I can not, ever come on to her or any other young woman. Whatever this is, I’ll just enjoy it at face value. Thank you. Oh yeah, 2 weeks ago she came to my bar, with her boyfriend. She kept abandoning him to come and talk to me in the kitchen. A warm physical embrace as usual. Her bf kept following her in to see where she was. I felt I felt bad for him. Then at her insistence I took a break and sat with them. She then switched to speaking only English and we laughed and joked away. I kept switching to French to include her bf, but she kept going back to English . She’s fluent in both, I’m not. Bf doesn’t speak a word on English. I felt really bad for him and I don’t know what she was doing. Anyway, don’t know why I added that. God she looked hot. She wore heels for the first time I’d seen. We were almost at equal eye level. She asked “what’s it like looking at me straight in the eye now?” I think she knows what she does to me and just loves the ego boost I give her.
Thank you. I appreciate that a lot. I can’t have regrets . Well of course I do. What I would give to get close to her. But i have had a life. Was married 37 years, had for kids, all grown up and gone. Just me being with her must look creepy, but it’s her who invites me to raves, comes to see me, gets edgy when I talk to other women. But I can not, ever come on to her or any other young woman. Whatever this is, I’ll just enjoy it at face value. Thank you. Oh yeah, 2 weeks ago she came to my bar, with her boyfriend. She kept abandoning him to come and talk to me in the kitchen. A warm physical embrace as usual. Her bf kept following her in to see where she was. I felt I felt bad for him. Then at her insistence I took a break and sat with them. She then switched to speaking only English and we laughed and joked away. I kept switching to French to include her bf, but she kept going back to English . She’s fluent in both, I’m not. Bf doesn’t speak a word on English. I felt really bad for him and I don’t know what she was doing. Anyway, don’t know why I added that. God she looked hot. She wore heels for the first time I’d seen. We were almost at equal eye level. She asked “what’s it like looking at me straight in the eye now?” I think she knows what she does to me and just loves the ego boost I give her.
If I was to give my opinion on the type of situation a few years ago, I would have agree to say, you have zero shot and say let this go, especially with the age gap being as wide as it is.
However, I've come to learn that there are quite a few younger women who love much older men. I mean, just look at a well known football coach here in the US (Bill Belichik). He's in his 70's and his "girlfriend" 24 years old. By ALL accounts, I think it's creepy and wrong. At the same time, the guy is wealthy, she's using him for his money and status, but it sounds like he doesn't mind being used. So, whatever!
In your case, it sounds like you're no longer married and by what you're saying about this girl, it sounds like she's one of those young women who are actually attracted to much older men. I highly doubt that a relationship with her would fully committed or long term, but I see that there's a shot for you to be able to live your fantasy here. Even if for a short time.
She's clearly into you, so you may just need to watch for the signals like her asking what it's like to look her in the eyes---and any other hints---and start to take the bait. Let her know you're interested. Good luck!
Totally right - that was an invitation to make a remark, and I choked!! I’ll be ready next time. She always calls me Sir. It’s so damned sexy.
This post is an example of why many don’t post similar encounters on this site. Some people just couldn’t wait to exhibit their ignorance. Who wants to deal with that?