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How common is it for women to imagine how they'd do in fist fights with female friends?

Mar 08, 2024 - permalink

Also, with men, the ability to kick another male friends ass manifests as a psychological edge in some situations. Does this often apply to women as well?

PS: I'll never forget this one time. There was an app of some sort that was part of Facebook. It asked users random questions about their friends and you could post your answer publicly.

Two girls I know who were friends became involved with this app. One women answered the question: "If you and (blank) got into a fight, who would win?"

She posted the short and sweet answer: "ME".

They were both about 20-21 when they had this exchange. The other girl kind of made a joke about "shanking her". I was amazed that she was willing to put it out there publicly. I also wondered if she was able to "refresh" the question until the person she wanted to answer it about popped up. The girl who claimed she'd win was taller but had a smaller frame. At the time that she made the remark, she would have been about 5 inches taller and about 15-20 pounds heavier. She has since lost weight, so I wonder if her assessment of the fight has changed since now they both weigh the same.

Mar 08, 2024 - permalink

I can imagine very, very, very, very rare.

Mar 08, 2024 - permalink

I can imagine very, very, very, very rare.

My thing is, if you know someone, you're bound to get angry at them eventually. To me, thinking angry thoughts about someone and thinking about fighting them are closely associated. To be sure, I'm not saying you'd necessarily be considering fighting them for real. Just saying it's related.

Mar 09, 2024 - permalink

I am not a woman. but I think it's less common than with men. but not rare you see women fight each other often over some drama. But it's not sexual.

Mar 10, 2024 - permalink

I'm pretty sure it's extremely rare for ALL people to think about this.

BUT, a couple years ago, I was out with a girl who looked around the restaurant and told me she was stronger than most of them and knew she could kick anyone's ass in the room.

Mar 10, 2024 - permalink

I'm pretty sure it's extremely rare for ALL people to think about this.

BUT, a couple years ago, I was out with a girl who looked around the restaurant and told me she was stronger than most of them and knew she could kick anyone's ass in the room.

That must have been great!

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