would any of us like each other in real life?

do you guys ever wonder about this? everyone here is brought together by this one hyper specific niche interest. is that alone enough to mean anything about whether we would get along in person? the fact that most of us don't have other people IRL to talk to about this stuff makes me think probably not. would i be friends with any of you? i'm not ashamed of my interest in muscular women, but i do know that my use of this site is unhealthy and obsessive, and i'm addicted to porn overall. so in that way maybe i never would want to meet any of you in real life.

just some thoughts.

To me, I don't think all of us would. I myself have many interests outside of GWM, and wouldn't really want to talk about them 24/7. I mean, they're wonderful, beautiful women, but there's more out there to see.

Some would but some wouldn't we don't have much in common apart from our preferences. just look at what happens when something controversial is mentioned on the forum. i am sure there are a lot of guys on here that i can get along with probably over half of the users but not everyone. i also think things could get toxic when a fbb walks by and we all fight for her attention and get jealous.

There are several guys on here who have carved their way into my heart. I definitely feel like I could easily build a real life friendship, with some of them. My passion for strong, muscular women would be so much more enjoyable, sharing it, in person with a friend.

Politics and other controversial things could arise but for the most part, it would incredible to sit next to someone, viewing these incredible women. 💪👍😁

Yes, there are some cool guys here.

But there are also a few whackos like the guy who goes on and on (and on) in the thread about the psychology behind our muscle fetish...

A certain moderator sounds a bit prickly as well!

@HiHat, obviously...you are one of the people who has been a good cyber friend, to me. Lpc is another awesome dude who would be great to meet. There are several others, including a couple females. Sorry that I can't think of all their GWM handles at the moment.

Thank you to everyone who has helped me to enjoy this site and our passion for the most beautiful and sexy women on the planet. 👍💪

Thanks, luvembuff, comin' back at ya!

I don't think that my circle of friends could include any man who fantasizes about having the shit kicked out of them by a woman. It's not that my friends aren't eclectic - - they are - - but they tend to share one particular characteristic: they all value their traditional roles as "men" and appreciate women who prefer being with men who have such values.

Personally, I don't fantasize about women kicking the shit out of me. I just happen to see muscular women as incredibly sexy females. I'm also intrigued about their strength and confidence.

I don't think that my circle of friends could include any man who fantasizes about having the shit kicked out of them by a woman. It's not that my friends aren't eclectic - - they are - - but they tend to share one particular characteristic: they all value their traditional roles as "men" and appreciate women who prefer being with men who have such values.

Watch out everyone, make sure you check your unwanted fetishes at the door if you wanna be friends with this guy. It will definitely be on the quiz!

A lot of "us" used to be fans who would hang out together and talk at events. Many of those friendships have lasted a long time. I just ran into one of my old DtV buddies, Buildy, at the Romania Pro last year and chatted for a bit (two, if we count the promoter).

However, most of "us" never did and would never have done anything like that.

I think as with any community and forum, you'll find people you get along with and those you don't. Some people on this forum are pretty cool and I could see myself chatting with and getting along with. Others...probably not.

I also think it would be ideal if the people we met up with had other interests outside of being attracted to buff women. I also like lifting, gaming, art, music, hiking and building models.

I know the moderator to whom you refer. I find it strange that moderators on this website, unlike moderators on most other sites who properly moderate from a distance, make it a point instead to put themselves front-and-center. This is not the case on this site wherein some moderators feel "empowered" and enjoy exercising this imaginary power merely because they can.

I think that there was a time when Chainer would not have tolerated this kind of behavior among those entrusted to managing his site.

it's probably me LMAO

My interests are diverse and GwM are just a part of those. An important part, but not the only one. I wouldn't mind getting along with folks with diverse interests as well, because as everything else, dealing with obsessed, mentally unhealthy folks is never a good thing. Though I'm more of a lonewolf person in the real world. Not really antissocial, just cautious.

There is a lot of immaturity in the world. Lots of folks quickly judge this interest in a negative way. It would be great to be able to discuss everything openly, but it is rare to find someone with the capacity to listen without judging and the wisdom to not discuss this when immature people are present.

Generally, to be a friend, I would welcome someone who makes the burdens of life lighter, not heavier.

My limited experience here tells me that the normal spectrum of society is represented. I think the chances of liking each other in person would be about the same as liking the people we work with or meet in our neighborhood.

I also want to say that I have interacted with fellow muscular woman "admirers" in person at expos (usually) and competitions. There are some that were really cool to chat with. But there were others who, well, let's just say were lacking pretty badly in social skills lol.

It's kind of reflective of what we see online, to be honest.

it's probably me LMAO

@fp909... It's definitely not you, who's being referenced.

No, fp909, you're cool, man... And we appreciate what good moderators do in these hate-filled times...

The user who made that post is a serial inflammatory poster who was banned for that a long time ago and returns periodically.

We don't go out of our way to look for his alt accounts or anything but he keeps making posts that raise red flags and make at least one mod wonder if the account is him specifically, and only once we check do we discover that it is indeed him. If he wanted to stick around longer term all he would have to do is not make these sorts of inflammatory posts and we would let him be. But so far, whether intentionally or not, he hasn't been able to help himself.

Never had a friend that was openly into gwm. I'm down for a cyber friend to talk about said interest haha

I’m not sure if I would like any of the people here not because I think I would outright hate them but more or less because of how we all tend to have different interests and personalities