I’ve often found men who were bullied because of their less than socially accepted bodies go into bodybuilding, I always assumed it was the same with women.
From time to time I stumble over girls who are into lifting (and sometimes martial arts) who were sexually or physically abused in their past.
I wonder how often this is the case and if muscles are a way to cope with their traumatic experiences, like building some kind of shield around them.
Yes, this is a very wise observation. It's about power, and about potentially being able to resist things like unwanted advances or dominance.
I met one stripper (pictured on here) who I wanted to arm wrestle. She is plenty strong but was just a big shy, at least at first. She worked out constantly for all the years she was an exotic dancer, and that was many. She is very lean and strong, and I always thought those muscles were a defense, like wearing armor when you are a knight.
Yes, in my case the abuse had a major influence. It's not shameful to share it.
The thread asks a good question. I dont think we´ll ever really know, for obvious reasons.
But it is quite clear that some of these women on here have had a troubled past, like depression, anorexia etc. Bakhar Nabieva, Fanny Swerkstrom, Rebecka Jansen, Slava Galagan to mention a few. You can hint they have this kind of vulnerability they try their best to hide. And building muscle is a great way to boost self esteem, even though it can be a bit too shallow.
The thread asks a good question. I dont think we´ll ever really know, for obvious reasons.
But it is quite clear that some of these women on here have had a troubled past, like depression, anorexia etc. Bakhar Nabieva, Fanny Swerkstrom, Rebecka Jansen, Slava Galagan to mention a few. You can hint they have this kind of vulnerability they try their best to hide. And building muscle is a great way to boost self esteem, even though it can be a bit too shallow.
oh yeah, I remember a vid where Bakhar said she got bullied by her peers when she was younger and that was a motivation for her to build muscle
From time to time I stumble over girls who are into lifting (and sometimes martial arts) who were sexually or physically abused in their past.
I wonder how often this is the case and if muscles are a way to cope with their traumatic experiences, like building some kind of shield around them.