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6) Take a good look in the mirror. Are you eating like crap, drinking alcohol, doing drugs, hanging out and playing video games all day, not being motivated in your life? Do you think a woman who has a muscular body as a result of YEARS of heavy lifting, getting up early to go to the gym, being disciplined with her diet, doing hard work every day, avoiding drugs/alcohol, and resisting social pressures against being big/lean/muscular for her entire life is going to likely SHARE those same habits? Possibly, if you're fantastic at art, business, music, or whatever - but because this is a lifestyle, she is probably looking to SHARE these healthy habits with her partner (you) and if your body doesn't reflect those habits (because you're woefully out of shape, weak, uncommitted, undisciplined), you are gong to have a hard time getting what you want. Let's face it, a muscular woman is still usually pretty attractive to the majority of guys whether they would admit it or not - most offseason bikini, figure or bodybuilding girls still have legs and asses that are spectacular and they know they can flaunt their physique successfully, so they are likely aware of their attractiveness. You need to step up your game and start sharing that lifestyle, while also committing to excellence in other areas of your life (job, career, intellect, compassion, caring, artistry, hobbies, etc) and the women of your (muscular) dreams will appear before you know it.
Go get em folks! You can do it!
Well said. I think I just gave up and decided to be fat. Deep down I probably don't want it that bad.
Well said. I think I just gave up and decided to be fat. Deep down I probably don't want it that bad.
Also it could be very frustrating to commit to such activities for too long and find that it just isnt happening. I guess there are better chances, but really it just a life commitment and I think it is very exhausting and I would imagine it also to be boring (It might be that I'm a lazy ass aswell, but well).
I like to think that if I do what I love I have better chances to find at least some woman I found hot physically, and also I like to think that I might find some fit woman and get along, at least it is a nice fantasy or dream. I'm a fool for many women particular kind of beauty so I'll be ok about finding something that I fancy.
If a guy asks "I want a prestigious college degree, but I don't want to go to college or study, what should I do?" he would be laughed at, or trolled 5 pages down in the comments.
And yet here we are, wiser and more experienced people, take the time and effort to type concise step by step guides on how to at least get to meet muscular girls and probably end with one and you get the reply "too much effort, or I don't want to change my hobbies, or I like myself as I am......".
These forum topics are a lost cause, guys that care can engage their logic and put 2 and 2 together even before asking the question and demand a miracle hack. A small percentage of people are worthy to get want they want, no matter how easy you make it for the rest, will always will be "too much effort".
For these people there will be scam college certificates to buy or muscular escorts. Ah sorry I forgot, these are too far away, they have to travel to get to the escort and too expensive and too difficult to contact.
hi everybody
So I have this thing I wanted to talk about. I love muscular women like everybody here, but don't you hate how much muscular women make the other women pale in comparison?
I am talking here about appearance, which of course is not everything in a person, but is the easiest thing to notice.
Take one woman at random, if she's healthy and in my age range I will maybe consider her as "attractive". I am a man and I like women.
But the problem is the comparison. If you put a regular woman I would find attractive next to a similar one that shows visible muscles, it's not a contest for me. I only think about the second one. And then the feelings for the first one are ruined.
I love muscular women but they are so few and they make it so hard to enjoy all the other women out there.
I know, I'm a superficial guy, anybody have this problem?
What you have is a fetish turned into an addiction. Like porn addiction or sex addiction, you cannot function normally, as in enjoy normal women. Although what you call normal these days can also mean obese women with thick glasses and green hair.
You either increase your value as a male so that you can get better looking women or quit your addiction. Several methods for the latter.
I sound kind of harsh, but so is reality. Living a life in denial is much worse.
What you have is a fetish turned into an addiction. Like porn addiction or sex addiction, you cannot function normally, as in enjoy normal women. Although what you call normal these days can also mean obese women with thick glasses and green hair.
You either increase your value as a male so that you can get better looking women or quit your addiction. Several methods for the latter.
I sound kind of harsh, but so is reality. Living a life in denial is much worse.
you are harsh but spot on. But not like there is two options, fitness girls and obese women, if you are confident and good looking enough, you could meet attractive women that you'll enjoy spending time with
If a guy asks "I want a prestigious college degree, but I don't want to go to college or study, what should I do?" he would be laughed at, or trolled 5 pages down in the comments.
And yet here we are, wiser and more experienced people, take the time and effort to type concise step by step guides on how to at least get to meet muscular girls and probably end with one and you get the reply "too much effort, or I don't want to change my hobbies, or I like myself as I am......".
These forum topics are a lost cause, guys that care can engage their logic and put 2 and 2 together even before asking the question and demand a miracle hack. A small percentage of people are worthy to get want they want, no matter how easy you make it for the rest, will always will be "too much effort".
For these people there will be scam college certificates to buy or muscular escorts. Ah sorry I forgot, these are too far away, they have to travel to get to the escort and too expensive and too difficult to contact.
Many people just don't get along with the gym/fitness people, it is just unrealistic to try to play that role if it isnt in your heart. It is just and effort in a charade that I think would be just frustrating and exhausting by itself, just the social part.
I think it would feel weird at some point for all the parties involved.
Also with that in the way I couldn't see meaningful relationships comming out of that.
I talked from the experience of trying to join different groups and activities throught out the years.
I mean, yes, all the motivational speach is good in certain extend, if you really want something, you might try to "get out of your confort zone", put effort, etc. But then it is kind of delutional to try to be something that really isnt you and you know it.
If you want, it is lazyness, but some are lazy on that and not in other fields. It depends on what you really enjoy doing.
I imagine being super bored with people that arent really in what I'm at. And also, I think now, the activity itself I found it boring. I couldnt bring myself to dedicated my life to something like that. I must say that I did some training at certain points of my life and enjoy riding bike, did dancing lessons, not a completle couch potato. As a matter of fact I found more chances on getting to know some fit lady in a dancing lesson that dedicating my life to the gym or a sport, and it would be more natural as I would more in some more natural enviroment to me, does that make sense?
At least in my "life hack" I fancy that I might have better chances of showing myself as a worth person in an activity that I love, and not going against the tides and put myself in unconfort zones.
You are right about that last one, kind of cruel and harsh. Lucky me I was able to get with an fbb escort in my area, it was a great time. So that experience is in me so I don't really miss not being able to find a budget friendly fantasy session. I mean I experienced that and it was really amazing, it helps my fantasy nowadays.
should do whatever fits you best, I mean imagine you're dating a fitness girl but she's not into you. You don't have to sacrifice your happiness just to live your fantasy. chances aren't low that you'll find a partner that'll share your hobbies.