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FBB’s who are sexual aroused for being stronger then men?

Sep 29, 2021 - edited Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

I’ve come to a point where I can not get aroused by female muscle just from a girl who is muscular. Sure, it’s nice to look at, but the one night stands I’ve had with muscular girls are not better in anyway than with “normal” women.

So I understand now that I need to find a muscular girl that actually got muscular and big because she is sexually driven by being bigger and stronger than the average male.

The muscular girls I meet never has this motivational drive.

What do you guys think about this!?

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

It’s something to think about for sure.

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

I feel the same. We all know from sessions the feeling of fbbs being proud to be stronger. But are they really aroused or are they actors in those situations? I would love to know from real life ...

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

From watching Amber DeLuca’s videos either she’s an Oscar-worthy actress or she really likes getting off with shorter, weaker men. She actually regularly advertises looking for smaller guys for her videos.

Sep 29, 2021 - edited Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

From watching Amber DeLuca’s videos either she’s an Oscar-worthy actress or she really likes getting off with shorter, weaker men. She actually regularly advertises looking for smaller guys for her videos.

But the question is: who she is married to/in a relationship with? Those shorter, weaker guys, or someone who is also strong and muscular?

That’ll answer your question

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

A question I've always wondered about. But if any woman is driven in this way, would she ever admit it.

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

From watching Amber DeLuca’s videos either she’s an Oscar-worthy actress or she really likes getting off with shorter, weaker men. She actually regularly advertises looking for smaller guys for her videos.

This is her business. Because she knows we like it.

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

Yeah, for me even if a girl looks great, if she's not stronger than me or doesn't want to be stronger than me, then it's a huge turnoff. I've had FBBs tell me they want a man that makes them feel small, which I felt is strange for an FBB to want to feel small. But, I suppose they normalize their size and maintain their traditional sense of femininity by keeping things relative.

The only person that comes to mind who is probably stronger than a lot of guys and absolutely loves being stronger, is Jessica Sestrem. I could be wrong, but I get the impression she wants to be stronger than her bf and be in control in every sense of the word.

Sep 29, 2021 - permalink

As for Amber, she's told me she prefers being dominant and in control. And her ex-husband and soulmate, Eddie DeLuca, is pretty short. He's a schmoe like us, so he really made a good choice.

I'm a bit worried that OP is too focused on himself and his sexual needs. That can lead down a lonely path in which you seek more and more extreme versions of your fetishistic fixation, eventually being unable to find them because no earthly woman can meet your needs. That's also a huge turn-off to women. Every sexual relationship, be it a one-night stand or a long-term relationship leading to marriage, is about give and take, about cultivating the wonderful things you find in each other. Next time you're with a girl, focus on the positives... and maybe playfully suggest a little power exchange roleplay to spice things up. She might get into it, seeing how into it you are, and decide "hey, I really like overpowering this guy".

I know I've met muscular women who were a bit self-conscious about their "unfeminine" physiques, and then they saw how turned on I got and started getting into their muscles more as a source of sexiness, and feeling more confident about showing them, flexing, and so on.

Sep 30, 2021 - permalink

As for Amber, she's told me she prefers being dominant and in control. And her ex-husband and soulmate, Eddie DeLuca, is pretty short. He's a schmoe like us, so he really made a good choice.

I'm a bit worried that OP is too focused on himself and his sexual needs. That can lead down a lonely path in which you seek more and more extreme versions of your fetishistic fixation, eventually being unable to find them because no earthly woman can meet your needs. That's also a huge turn-off to women. Every sexual relationship, be it a one-night stand or a long-term relationship leading to marriage, is about give and take, about cultivating the wonderful things you find in each other. Next time you're with a girl, focus on the positives... and maybe playfully suggest a little power exchange roleplay to spice things up. She might get into it, seeing how into it you are, and decide "hey, I really like overpowering this guy".

I know I've met muscular women who were a bit self-conscious about their "unfeminine" physiques, and then they saw how turned on I got and started getting into their muscles more as a source of sexiness, and feeling more confident about showing them, flexing, and so on.

Why do women get to be picky but men can't? How many women only date taller men, yet no one is telling them to focus on the positives of shorter guys.

Sep 30, 2021 - permalink

My last relationship was with a woman who had a matching sexual drive like this. They do exist, and it's hard to imagine going back to the alternative. Everything just felt "right."

Sep 30, 2021 - permalink

As for Amber, she's told me she prefers being dominant and in control. And her ex-husband and soulmate, Eddie DeLuca, is pretty short. He's a schmoe like us, so he really made a good choice.

Lol, Eddie was an MMA fighter who competed in the light heavyweight division (in other words he was a big dude,) including beating one of his opponents with a neck crank in less than 15 seconds. He is a far cry from being your cliche weak “schmoe.”

I get having a fantasy, but it’s kinda depressing to see so many fans who desperately want to believe that it is true, and that they have a chance even if they don’t lift or aren’t in shape.

Sep 30, 2021 - permalink

And yet I have heard so many female bodybuilders say they wouldn't date a male bodybuilder.

Sep 30, 2021 - permalink

Even MBBs date regular ladies.

Oct 03, 2021 - permalink

I'm a bit worried that OP is too focused on himself and his sexual needs. That can lead down a lonely path in which you seek more and more extreme versions of your fetishistic fixation, eventually being unable to find them because no earthly woman can meet your needs. That's also a huge turn-off to women

I fear this is what has happened to me. Years and years of watching erotic/mixed wrestling videos (Mainly Amber Deluca/Debra D'andrea vids) with fbbs vs weaker men, has made me only find masculine/alpha/strong/stocky women appealing and have lost attraction to normal/feminine women. I have met with normal escorts before and asked them to fulfil this fantasy/roleplay but most cannot meet my needs or perform what I want. I am not interested in BDSM/Dominatrix providers they do not offer the sensual/sexual experience I want so its always been hard to find a sexually aggressive dominant woman which has led to alot of frustration and procrastination.

Oct 04, 2021 - permalink

It seems to be extremely rare as far as i can tell they are just very normal and traditional sexually you will have more luck finding a women who is physically weak but wants to dominate than you will finding one that is actually strong enough to beat you and enjoys it.

Oct 04, 2021 - permalink

Every girl is different, some hate that you're into their muscles, some love to dominate talk smack and totally back it up with hard core fucking. I don't think FBBs like guys that don't lift at all or are weak. Obviously they like muscle. But some just don't want to talk about being strong - makes you think what kind of guys did you think you were going to attract?

Oct 08, 2021 - permalink

Every girl is different, some hate that you're into their muscles, some love to dominate talk smack and totally back it up with hard core fucking. I don't think FBBs like guys that don't lift at all or are weak. Obviously they like muscle. But some just don't want to talk about being strong - makes you think what kind of guys did you think you were going to attract?

All right lfelbs123 you have some experiences you are holding back on. Open that up for us.

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