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Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

When I was a kid or teenager, no girl had abs or nice arms, legs or anything. 😭

Nowadays there are 15-16 yo crossfit bulls with huge arms and shoulders, girls with abs like peak Rachel Scheer.

I need something like Zac Efron in 17 Again! 😅

I beg to differ... When I was young, I was into competitive swimming - I can tell you they there were fit young girls. Many of them...

If you partook in a serious sport when you were younger, there was a higher chance of coming across it - that's for sure.

Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

As I said before, I was at the pre-judging part of this year's Lee Labrada event, but (apart from the first one of those I went to) they don't seem like very nice events for "civilians" as far as feeling welcome. And because of that I only approached one FBB or fitness model, who wasn't rude but didn't seem especially glad about it.

But there was one other thing. I saw someone who at least resembled a great FBB, with her same sort of smile, but wearing glasses, which was enough to make it confusing. I kept looking casually at her - hopefully not in any "weird" way - but she didn't approach, so this time I didn't either. Since then I've been kicking myself about whether it was the one she resembled. I think she was just there as a guest, so her name wouldn't be on the list, which might be just as well for me.**

Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

'Kept looking at her' doesn't have a casual version.

Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

Jaja. Well I didn't explain exactly how did I get there. I live in MĂ©xico and there is a lot of muscle girls around. I went to the store and she was watching a video about bodybuilding, I just asked her what was the video about and then I asked her if she was into it and she told me yes, you can tell (because she have a sweater and you were able to see her muscle arms, not that big but shredded). Then we talk a little bit about gym stuff and then I asked her to show her bicep and she flexed and just touch her without asking. Btw I bought a short so after the transaction I asked her to show her tricep and she just put her hand on the table between us and flexed her tricep in front of me. I was not able to stop touching I even asked her if that didn't bother her but she was ok. Also I asked for her Instagram but she rejected me I guess bc of my age, I'm 25, idk

What? There are definitely not a lot of muscular women in Mexico. That’s like living in U.S. and saying there’s a lot here too. I know where I live there are more fit women but I live in a higher income neighborhood, but I know that’s not true for everyone in the U.S.

Your story sounds a bit off. Even in Mexico, it’s not common to be feeling up a woman so openly, regardless whether she lifts or not. You also said she was 40-50 years old. It’s not as common for women that age to have Instagram so why not ask for her number?

Either way. You don’t have to convince me what happened was true. Just pointing out how odd your story sounds.

Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

I really wanted to share my history just to get it out and also just to motivate you guys to try. I'm just tired of looking muscle girl and not talking to them and I'm willing to take some risks.

And men. You should go to Mexico city, that's where I'm. After COVID I've been seeing muscle girls a lot. Of course most of them just train legs but every now and then you see a girl with muscle arms, that's so crazy. If you live in MĂ©xico city actually I can tell you the name of the store and you can see the girl by your self

Dec 05, 2024 - permalink

I beg to differ... When I was young, I was into competitive swimming - I can tell you they there were fit young girls. Many of them...

If you partook in a serious sport when you were younger, there was a higher chance of coming across it - that's for sure.

I played soccer, but there wasn't a female team or something.

A few classmates were into artistic gymnastics, soccer, volleyball or ballet, but none of them afaik had a hint of muscles.

I was a kid when singers like Christina Aguilera, Janet Jackson and Britney Spears, made belly shirts popular.

During summer, 99% of non-overweight girls wore them, but I've never seen a single one with abs or toned arms.

I've had some random encounters in my life, but most of them were athletes.

It wasn't a positive thing in society, a sort of taboo for a woman to have muscles, a hundred times more than today.

I knew a 35 yo lady when I was a kid, who started using heavy dumbbells to train her arms at home.

She had a small skinny frame, and obviously her biceps exploded in 9-12 months, like a peak Jennifer Pietsch full of veins.

I was in awe, while others hated her new look, and thought she spoiled her beautiful body. 😱

Dec 06, 2024 - permalink

'Kept looking at her' doesn't have a casual version.

I just meant glancing over.

Dec 08, 2024 - permalink

Had this sighting just this morning. I live in the Midwest and seeing a muscular woman is extremely rare. This morning I went for breakfast and as soon as I walked in the door of the restaurant I caught a glimpse of one of the servers that appeared to have a very athletic shape. After I sat down I could see from across the room she had well developed triceps. Then she came over and as luck would have it I was seated at one of her tables. This woman was amazing. Nicely peaked biceps with a visible vein on them. OMG they popped when she brought the food. She had a nice V-shape and big shoulders. I noticed she has those big strong muscular hands when she set down the food. Even saw her chest flex when she picked up dishes. This woman looked a few weeks out from a show. I was with someone or I would have commented on her shape.

Dec 09, 2024 - edited Dec 09, 2024 - permalink

Real Life Encounter; yes! Mine came when I was driving a taxi. I pulled in for gas, and a "homeless" girl in a very tight tank top came out of the blue and asked me for money. She was small, short , and about 58 years old, she had muscles everywhere man. I looked at her feet too, and she had no shoes on, and I thought, perfect, so I invited her to target about 2 towns over, for some shoes, and she accepted. She was high, on whatever, but I didn't care. She flexed and knew I was going crazy, then she wanted me to pay for a gym membership for her, 30 a month, it had showers too for her. I DID! I gave her the money but the place wanted a credit card, so I got her a visa gift card and it worked, I paid for 6 months or her and I dont know how, but lifting got her really REALLY muscular, its like her body was a protein bar. mOst girls take a while ,but she went SWOLE quick, needless to say, I met her almost evyer night I worked, we did my car wash , at night, and she would make me sit in cab as she wiped the water off the hood side and back, and she'd then come in and ask me if I finished.I knew what she meant, anyway, this went on for 6 months, but her drug habit got in the way, and I moved away frm the area, I am planning on going back and seeing if I can find her soon, at least get some pics. BTW, that Visa GIft card was done after 6 months (180 bucks) but funny thing is, she used to buy scratch offs,and in my cab, lean on me while scratching off the tickets, she knew I liked that too, as I had to strech my neck over her huge shoulders to see her scratching the lottery ticket, so about a week before I left, she won 300 dollars, and gave me 200, Life was good, now In my mind I think that will happen again. LOL - I am only hoping

Dec 09, 2024 - permalink

Real Life Encounter; yes! Mine came when I was driving a taxi. I pulled in for gas, and a "homeless" girl in a very tight tank top came out of the blue and asked me for money. She was small, short , and about 58 years old, she had muscles everywhere man. I looked at her feet too, and she had no shoes on, and I thought, perfect, so I invited her to target about 2 towns over, for some shoes, and she accepted. She was high, on whatever, but I didn't care. She flexed and knew I was going crazy, then she wanted me to pay for a gym membership for her, 30 a month, it had showers too for her. I DID! I gave her the money but the place wanted a credit card, so I got her a visa gift card and it worked, I paid for 6 months or her and I dont know how, but lifting got her really REALLY muscular, its like her body was a protein bar. mOst girls take a while ,but she went SWOLE quick, needless to say, I met her almost evyer night I worked, we did my car wash , at night, and she would make me sit in cab as she wiped the water off the hood side and back, and she'd then come in and ask me if I finished.I knew what she meant, anyway, this went on for 6 months, but her drug habit got in the way, and I moved away frm the area, I am planning on going back and seeing if I can find her soon, at least get some pics. BTW, that Visa GIft card was done after 6 months (180 bucks) but funny thing is, she used to buy scratch offs,and in my cab, lean on me while scratching off the tickets, she knew I liked that too, as I had to strech my neck over her huge shoulders to see her scratching the lottery ticket, so about a week before I left, she won 300 dollars, and gave me 200, Life was good, now In my mind I think that will happen again. LOL - I am only hoping

You do realize this is “REAL life encounters” right?

Dec 09, 2024 - permalink

yes.

Chainer
Dec 09, 2024 - permalink

No. I don't want the forum and ESPECIALLY the nonfiction section overrun with this kind of crap. I would delete it but I will leave it up as an example of what NOT to post.

Dec 09, 2024 - permalink

Had this sighting just this morning. I live in the Midwest and seeing a muscular woman is extremely rare. This morning I went for breakfast and as soon as I walked in the door of the restaurant I caught a glimpse of one of the servers that appeared to have a very athletic shape. After I sat down I could see from across the room she had well developed triceps. Then she came over and as luck would have it I was seated at one of her tables. This woman was amazing. Nicely peaked biceps with a visible vein on them. OMG they popped when she brought the food. She had a nice V-shape and big shoulders. I noticed she has those big strong muscular hands when she set down the food. Even saw her chest flex when she picked up dishes. This woman looked a few weeks out from a show. I was with someone or I would have commented on her shape.

I hate to say it, but I'll bet half the other customers made little remarks to each other, and not compliments. I'm glad you got to see her, though.**

Dec 09, 2024 - edited Dec 12, 2024 - permalink

I remember one encounter I had a couple of years ago ( Don’t ask me why I remember this now ).

For context I live in a pretty small town where GWM are rare but occasionally you see girls in workout clothes but not much visible muscle,until this day. It was around summer and it was very hot and humid this day, I remember my ex- girlfriend withdrew money from the ATM while I stood by the side waiting. From the corner of my eye I noticed this women passing by across the street, just by curiosity I looked over and I couldn’t believe my eyes, this older looking women with glasses and HUGE muscular arms.She was dressed in a long, sleevles, tight fit dress carrying two heavy looking bags with groceries, her arms was really well pumped so you could see every detail in there, I also noticed her well defined pecs and because of the weather she was covered in sweat. I assumed she was a bodybuilder or maybe a personal trainer. My ex. later asked me why my
 pants looked so tight


Another encounter happened around the same time, I was out for a walk when two girls came from the opposite direction. One was riding a bicycle while the other was walking beside her, the twist tough was that the girl on the bicycle didn’t "ride" it, she was holding the other girls shoulder that more or less POWER WALKED while leading the girl on the bicycle effortlessly. As they came closer I noticed that the girl power walking was slim but really fit and muscular with a well defined six pack and thick legs pumping, also altough it was clearly a hard workout for her she looked really happy and they more or less had a casual conversation about something. It clearly was just a normal day working out for this girl.

Dec 24, 2024 - edited Dec 24, 2024 - permalink

Just headed into the gym there and a girl in her mid-20's walked out. First thought was, oh she's cute, then I looked down and saw the most enormous quads I've ever seen. Still in total shock. Being going to the gym for years and never saw a girl any bigger than a slim cross fitter. Best way I could describe her would be an off season Julia Caceres. Couldn't take my eyes off the way the muscle above her knee was bulging and tensing with every step. Hopefully she's just signed up for a membership 😂

Dec 24, 2024 - permalink

Just headed into the gym there and a girl in her mid-20's walked out. First thought was, oh she's cute, then I looked down and saw the most enormous quads I've ever seen. Still in total shock. Being going to the gym for years and never saw a girl any bigger than a slim cross fitter. Best way I could describe her would be an off season Julia Caceres. Couldn't take my eyes off the way the muscle above her knee was bulging and tensing with every step. Hopefully she's just signed up for a membership 😂

A nice early Christmas present for you 😊👍👍

Dec 24, 2024 - permalink

Last month there was this girl at the gym who was a perfect sleeper. Until she started lifting, she litterally owned everybidy in the gym, doing the heaviest front squats at +80kg. Then she removed her shirt to continue the work out in sports bra and omg, she had a 6 pack, massive delts and shoulders.

Jan 12, 2025 - edited Jan 12, 2025 - permalink

I was at work and saw a girl who looked around my age enter the building. She chatted with me a little bit so I kept it friendly and did my job, but it was only after I helped her out did I realize she was big. Not physique or bodybuilder big, but she clearly was taking the gym seriously and seemed to be bulking if I had to guess. She had rounded wide shoulders that were always visible, along with impressively large curvy arms that naturally showed off her biceps and triceps without flexing. I was able to see her tapered lats a few times, and she would occasionally hold her arms above her head casually, accenting her forearms. Her pecs weren't on the same level as everything else, but they were still as shocking to see in real life as the rest of her muscles. She was really nice and fun to talk to, but in the end I found out she and her siblings were just visiting family up north and lived in South Carolina. Oh well, still an unexpected encounter.

3 days ago - permalink

Crazy story from this past weekend

So I was on vacation with some friends (here in the US) and we went clubbing to a pretty well known spot. A few minutes after coming in I spot a woman about 10ish years older than me (I'm in my 20s) who was visibly jacked. Huge biceps and shoulders, veins on the forearms and she lifted her arms once and you could see her lats pop out. You could tell she that she was obviously on gear but not on crazy amounts so she still appeared extremely feminine and could step on a wellness stage in a month. That's exactly what I like as a muscular guy myself who likes the sport in general, have been lifting seriously for a while now.

I meet eyes with her a few minutes later while walking by and she maintains the eye contact so i do the same, thinking there's interest but walk way with my friends. A few minutes later I spot her again from across the room and we make eye contact and both smile. I tell kinda motion to her to come to me and she does the same and we both laugh and I move away with my friends.

I'm standing with my friends again on the other side of the club and out of nowhere somebody grabs my arm and it's her smiling. We get to talking and she's also on vacation, doesn't compete but loves bodybuilding. We complement each other while talking and get close to each other and the tension is through the roof. So she grabs my hand to go somewhere less busy to dance and her grip is strong hands obviously calloused from working out like mine. As we're walking she squeezes my hand extremely hard almost like she knew I was attracted to strong women (maybe she did based on our convo.

We get dancing with her in front of me; her ass is simply amazing - large but also firm. She has great rhythm so we danced together so we'll. Slowly I start feeling everything: back, arms, thighs and it's all so muscular. We make out for a bit as well and a few minutes later we both say we gotta go back to our friends. She squeezes my hand again and says "you're coming with me" but I tell her I'll find her after instead. I rejoined my friends and sadly couldn't find her the rest of the night.( Really big and busy club)

I've been with muscular women before (a few athletes, a woman who did a bikini show, dated a powerlifter, etc.) But none close to as muscular as her and maybe never as much immediate tension as her. I'm not usually in the business of dating people from the club seriously but I do wish I got her number before we had both left. Either way it was great and I encourage everyone here to 1. Immerse yourself in the community of bodybuilding - go to the gym yourself, learn about the sport, etc. So you appreciate it more than just the bodies, and you can talk about it with anyone, and 2. Be confident and politely shoot your shot in a non-creepy way. At the end of the day bodybuilders are normal women that want love like everyone else and you will probably end up having a great time if it works out. You never know until you try.

2 days ago - permalink

You’re right—bodybuilders are just people like everyone else, and showing genuine interest in their passion goes a long way.

2 days ago - permalink

Crazy story from this past weekend

So I was on vacation with some friends (here in the US) and we went clubbing to a pretty well known spot. A few minutes after coming in I spot a woman about 10ish years older than me (I'm in my 20s) who was visibly jacked. Huge biceps and shoulders, veins on the forearms and she lifted her arms once and you could see her lats pop out. You could tell she that she was obviously on gear but not on crazy amounts so she still appeared extremely feminine and could step on a wellness stage in a month. That's exactly what I like as a muscular guy myself who likes the sport in general, have been lifting seriously for a while now.

I meet eyes with her a few minutes later while walking by and she maintains the eye contact so i do the same, thinking there's interest but walk way with my friends. A few minutes later I spot her again from across the room and we make eye contact and both smile. I tell kinda motion to her to come to me and she does the same and we both laugh and I move away with my friends.

I'm standing with my friends again on the other side of the club and out of nowhere somebody grabs my arm and it's her smiling. We get to talking and she's also on vacation, doesn't compete but loves bodybuilding. We complement each other while talking and get close to each other and the tension is through the roof. So she grabs my hand to go somewhere less busy to dance and her grip is strong hands obviously calloused from working out like mine. As we're walking she squeezes my hand extremely hard almost like she knew I was attracted to strong women (maybe she did based on our convo.

We get dancing with her in front of me; her ass is simply amazing - large but also firm. She has great rhythm so we danced together so we'll. Slowly I start feeling everything: back, arms, thighs and it's all so muscular. We make out for a bit as well and a few minutes later we both say we gotta go back to our friends. She squeezes my hand again and says "you're coming with me" but I tell her I'll find her after instead. I rejoined my friends and sadly couldn't find her the rest of the night.( Really big and busy club)

I've been with muscular women before (a few athletes, a woman who did a bikini show, dated a powerlifter, etc.) But none close to as muscular as her and maybe never as much immediate tension as her. I'm not usually in the business of dating people from the club seriously but I do wish I got her number before we had both left. Either way it was great and I encourage everyone here to 1. Immerse yourself in the community of bodybuilding - go to the gym yourself, learn about the sport, etc. So you appreciate it more than just the bodies, and you can talk about it with anyone, and 2. Be confident and politely shoot your shot in a non-creepy way. At the end of the day bodybuilders are normal women that want love like everyone else and you will probably end up having a great time if it works out. You never know until you try.

Hope she’s not the one that got away for you. Could turn it his into a Rom-Com in no time. Who knows, maybe she knows about this site and her pics are on here and you guys can hook back up. How can we not all pull for this guy now?

2 days ago - permalink

Hope she’s not the one that got away for you. Could turn it his into a Rom-Com in no time. Who knows, maybe she knows about this site and her pics are on here and you guys can hook back up. How can we not all pull for this guy now?

Er, because he chose his friends? He wasn't that interested.

2 days ago - permalink

I was certainly interested, just was a lil hectic in the moment and thought I could find her afterwards. Was just playing it safe in the club. Either way it's worth a shot - she said her name was Vicky (not sure which way she spelt it) said she said she was from Spain. Looked to be in her 30s, 5'5 dark hair, tanned skin, strong facial features, tattoos on both arms, very muscular. Shot in the dark but would be crazy if someone knew!

2 days ago - permalink

I was certainly interested, just was a lil hectic in the moment and thought I could find her afterwards. Was just playing it safe in the club. Either way it's worth a shot - she said her name was Vicky (not sure which way she spelt it) said she said she was from Spain. Looked to be in her 30s, 5'5 dark hair, tanned skin, strong facial features, tattoos on both arms, very muscular. Shot in the dark but would be crazy if someone knew!

Yeah it was smart of you to play it safe. As little as it’s talked about, men are victims to these kinds of situations as well. Good for you, buddy!

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