Not dumb... but... If you subscribe to something you will be reminded. Wasn't that the point of subscribing in the first place?
@HallowsHavok: you're only reminded when a new image gets posted for a subscribed woman (and apparently also when image is merged/deleted, which makes me think you get notified whenever the image count changes). Anyway, the original question was asking to see all women you are currently subscribed to, regardless of when the most recent image was posted or when you were last notified.
I'll delete this if I'm being dumb and missing something obvious, but is there no way to see what women and pages we're subscribed to? Outside of those subs getting new notifications there is no real list.