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If you're skinny, would you take gear to be with your favourite muscle girl?

Sep 30, 2025 - edited Sep 30, 2025 - permalink

Okay, look, I've been in this scene for a long time. This is a viewpoint from my experience, take it for what it's worth.

The most common relationship status for an exceptionally muscular woman in her 30's and up (I'm talking women's physique & women's bodybuilding) is (1) single or (2) in a relationship with a physically or emotionally controlling man.

Their dating pool is small. The vast majority of men don't find them attractive. From the men who do, like 90% of them are out of the running because they're anxious or weird or embarrassed or out of shape or just entirely outside of the scene.

Although really muscular women seem strong and dominant, most of the ones who I've met aren't like that at all. Many of them are lifting and strengthening themselves to make up for past trauma or cope with life's challenges. This is common for sex workers of all stripes... and it's one of the reasons why so many muscular women enter easily into sex work themselves.

Let's use for an example, a confident beautiful muscular woman like Carolyne Marquez. Let's say she's single (I don't know if she is, but just as an example).

She undoubtedly likes muscles. She probably finds male bodybuilders attractive.

But I am 1000% sure that she would go for a fit and active man (let's say the build of Pedro Pascal) who has a good professional job and a comfortable place to live and plans and ambitions for the future. There is NO WAY that the vast majority of muscular women would be like "Sorry doctor, you're not a hulking idiot bodybuilder so please drive your nice German car far away from me."

Of course not. They're just like other women, and they crave a man that they can build with. If you're a successful and smart guy who stays fit, then I think most of them will be open to meeting you.

But yeah if you're a fat angry schmoe with a dead end job who's mad that there's no downvote ability for muscular women with tattoos and you're going to drool every time she tenses her arms.. she's not going to want to date you. Neither will like most other women.

Note: I'm not addressing anyone in particular with that last line, but we know that this description fits some folks in our scene.

Oct 01, 2025 - permalink

^^well said. Make no mistake all muscular women like muscular men. However even competitive male BBs don't like anything more than bikini muscle on their women.

The reason you see many fit people together as couples has more to do with them socializing on common grounds like a gym or related activities.

Oct 01, 2025 - permalink

Okay, look, I've been in this scene for a long time. This is a viewpoint from my experience, take it for what it's worth.

The most common relationship status for an exceptionally muscular woman in her 30's and up (I'm talking women's physique & women's bodybuilding) is (1) single or (2) in a relationship with a physically or emotionally controlling man.

Their dating pool is small. The vast majority of men don't find them attractive. From the men who do, like 90% of them are out of the running because they're anxious or weird or embarrassed or out of shape or just entirely outside of the scene.

Although really muscular women seem strong and dominant, most of the ones who I've met aren't like that at all. Many of them are lifting and strengthening themselves to make up for past trauma or cope with life's challenges. This is common for sex workers of all stripes... and it's one of the reasons why so many muscular women enter easily into sex work themselves.

Let's use for an example, a confident beautiful muscular woman like Carolyne Marquez. Let's say she's single (I don't know if she is, but just as an example).

She undoubtedly likes muscles. She probably finds male bodybuilders attractive.

But I am 1000% sure that she would go for a fit and active man (let's say the build of Pedro Pascal) who has a good professional job and a comfortable place to live and plans and ambitions for the future. There is NO WAY that the vast majority of muscular women would be like "Sorry doctor, you're not a hulking idiot bodybuilder so please drive your nice German car far away from me."

Of course not. They're just like other women, and they crave a man that they can build with. If you're a successful and smart guy who stays fit, then I think most of them will be open to meeting you.

But yeah if you're a fat angry schmoe with a dead end job who's mad that there's no downvote ability for muscular women with tattoos and you're going to drool every time she tenses her arms.. she's not going to want to date you. Neither will like most other women.

Note: I'm not addressing anyone in particular with that last line, but we know that this description fits some folks in our scene.

I do not think that is true. Angela Yeo was married to her husband before weight lifting, Angela Rayburn was married to her husband before bodybuilding. I would say most were in relationships prior to getting into bodybuilding or found someone that shares the passion along the way. For example Sherry Priami was married prior to competing, got divorced, then found someone that also competes

Oct 01, 2025 - permalink

I do not think that is true. Angela Yeo was married to her husband before weight lifting, Angela Rayburn was married to her husband before bodybuilding. I would say most were in relationships prior to getting into bodybuilding or found someone that shares the passion along the way. For example Sherry Priami was married prior to competing, got divorced, then found someone that also competes

Yeah, I can't pull up any official stats, I can only share what I've been told. I would contend that - compared to other cohorts of women in their 30s to 50s, female bodybuilding and physique competitors are far more likely to be single or in difficult, unhappy relationships.

It's not so hard to believe.. they are extremely counter culture and most men - including really muscular men - are not attracted to their physiques.

Angie Yeo and Abi Jimenez are two shining examples of women with apparently very supportive and distinctly non-fit partners, but they are very much the exception to the rule. We're talking a handful out of thousands.

Oct 02, 2025 - edited Oct 02, 2025 - permalink

> 99% of muscle girls get turned on by a guy who is into his own health and takes care of his body. Hormone blockers ain't nothing to fuck with. Don't mess up your body by using them for a fetish.

Don't worry about.. LITERALLY no one has ever done this.

In order to get hormone blockers legally, you'd need a prescription. Absolutely no doctor is ever giving that out without a real medical reason.

And.. yeah I imagine that you could buy them on the black market because you can buy anything there, but since 98% of the schomes here can't be bothered to buy steroids which are easy to get and which would actually help them meet a GWM, I'm positive that there's no one getting hormone blockers from the corner source on the off-chance that they run into a GWM somewhere outside of the gym - since they don't go to one.

Yeah that story is absolute BS.

  1. Nobody claimed that this is a mass phenomenon. 2. You have no clue at all. It is not necessary to go to black markets. T-Blockers and Estradiol are easy to get. Just pretend to be trans and in many countries an online doctor will prescribe it to you. So why don't you shut up and keep your pseudo rationality for yourself?
Oct 03, 2025 - permalink
  1. Nobody claimed that this is a mass phenomenon. 2. You have no clue at all. It is not necessary to go to black markets. T-Blockers and Estradiol are easy to get. Just pretend to be trans and in many countries an online doctor will prescribe it to you. So why don't you shut up and keep your pseudo rationality for yourself?

Hmm, since I'm in bodybuilding and I'm both an online and an in-person client of a bunch of female sessionettes, I feel qualified to speak on this. So I'll keep talking and I'll say it clearly:

Absolutely no one in the history of humanity has EVER "pretended to be trans" in order to get estradiol and/or spironolactone to make themselves more weak and feminine with the express purpose of looking feminine compared to an FBB.

Do you hear yourself? Say you did that. I believe that you could get the drugs. Then in a year you have sort-of boobs and a lot less lean tissue. How exactly do you meet the muscular women? Do you start hanging out in gyms? Do you ask them for a date? Are you suddenly really wealthy and you become a big spender on sessions and s-x work?

LOL hell no. This is some ridiculous fantasy cooked up by a guy who has never done hormones of any kind and has never even spoken to a muscular woman.

Oct 03, 2025 - permalink

There are 4 billion men it could be possible someone attempted to do that. but maybe not or he quitted when he realized it was dumb

Oct 03, 2025 - permalink

Also I heard there were some dominant sadistic women. who made their victims to take estrogen. but these women weren't muscular

Oct 03, 2025 - permalink

I heard that there's these muscle women who are so turned on by their own strength and superiority that they'll find a really buff boyfriend and then slowly crush up estrogen into his protein drinks so he gets smaller little by little and before he even notices it, he's totally her little sissy... and he secretly loves it!

I mean, who's to say that didn't happen, amirite?!?!

Oct 03, 2025 - permalink

I do not think that is true. Angela Yeo was married to her husband before weight lifting, Angela Rayburn was married to her husband before bodybuilding. I would say most were in relationships prior to getting into bodybuilding or found someone that shares the passion along the way. For example Sherry Priami was married prior to competing, got divorced, then found someone that also competes

Going out of your way to find exceptions doesn't make an argument like that untrue. Like Musclez-Toez_ already said, the reason why it seems like they usually go for male bodybuilders is because their eligible dating pools are pretty small, and as a result find themselves going for those who are in the same environments they are usually around (in this case, bodybuilding gyms and communities. They would go for more "schmoes" if more took care of their fitness and weren't completely socially awkward with wearing their fetish on their sleeves (and if you think that is only an online phenomenon, I have seen schmoes who lead with their fetish at IFBB events try to interact with buff women, and the results were as you would expect)

Nobody claimed that this is a mass phenomenon. 2. You have no clue at all. It is not necessary to go to black markets. T-Blockers and Estradiol are easy to get. Just pretend to be trans and in many countries an online doctor will prescribe it to you. So why don't you shut up and keep your pseudo rationality for yourself?

Sure Jan. Balrogs living inside the Rocky Mountains are more believable than that fantasy you just conjured.

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