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Would you ever attend an in-person meetup with other "muscular woman admirers?"

Sep 07, 2025 - permalink

The younger generation which is many here did not grow up attending events or meeting the women. Their experience is internet only.

I do wonder how many of such responders would attend any in-person meetup on any topic. Seriously: how many people have responded who don’t really go out and do anything with anybody?

I suspect there might be some overlap with the crowd asking “How can I meet fit/athletic/muscular women?”

There is a significant and valuable component of learning how to meet and talk with people in general. Learning how to have a discussion involving different points of view. Learning how to digest viewpoints and reflect on info from someone who disagrees with you. Learning how to read emotional energy as data, not as a personal threat.

Sep 07, 2025 - permalink

> > I think that would be what I would hope for. It's my understanding that this happened a lot with guys on the unrealmuscle.com site back in the day. Regular meetups at events and even a random house with more than one FBB joining.

If it’s at a house no FBB is joining let’s be realistic lol

It absolutely happened, numerous pictures. Maybe Tre could elaborate.

Sep 07, 2025 - permalink

I do wonder how many of such responders would attend any in-person meetup on any topic. Seriously: how many people have responded who don’t really go out and do anything with anybody?

I suspect there might be some overlap with the crowd asking “How can I meet fit/athletic/muscular women?”

There is a significant and valuable component of learning how to meet and talk with people in general. Learning how to have a discussion involving different points of view. Learning how to digest viewpoints and reflect on info from someone who disagrees with you. Learning how to read emotional energy as data, not as a personal threat.

Sep 07, 2025 - permalink

I do wonder how many of such responders would attend any in-person meetup on any topic. Seriously: how many people have responded who don’t really go out and do anything with anybody?

I suspect there might be some overlap with the crowd asking “How can I meet fit/athletic/muscular women?”

There is a significant and valuable component of learning how to meet and talk with people in general. Learning how to have a discussion involving different points of view. Learning how to digest viewpoints and reflect on info from someone who disagrees with you. Learning how to read emotional energy as data, not as a personal threat.

Yup. I think getting out of the house/apartment for some in-person socialization would do some users here some good!

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

It absolutely happened, numerous pictures. Maybe Tre could elaborate.

I literally don't even know what to say. You do the thing, document the thing, share evidence of the thing, and the people say "nah, that's impossible - could never have happened".

What have we done to these young people to convince them that the enjoyable is entirely unattainable?

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

I literally don't even know what to say. You do the thing, document the thing, share evidence of the thing, and the people say "nah, that's impossible - could never have happened".

What have we done to these young people to convince them that the enjoyable is entirely unattainable?

I wanted to go to one of the Muscle House's, I think that's what you guys called them, but I just couldn't get away and the timing was always bad. Not to mention the expense and a wife at the time that didn't know about my fetish.

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

I literally don't even know what to say. You do the thing, document the thing, share evidence of the thing, and the people say "nah, that's impossible - could never have happened".

What have we done to these young people to convince them that the enjoyable is entirely unattainable?

actually, nothing.. technology has made things .. easier and "lazier". back in the early to mid 2000s, while there was already plenty of material, going to the events was THE experience. message forums like this were the place where people would say "hey, Im headed to event x in city y, see you at the expo!". meeting the girls just "happened".

I realize that money and other responsibilities can be an obstacle. however, Im a big believer that if you are motivated enough, you get it done and push past the discomforts of any meeting.

Sep 09, 2025 - edited Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

If it was purely a meetup with other fans, then I wouldn't be interested. I just don't see the point, and besides, how would it actually work?

On the other hand, if it was more of a "worship" event with women present, I would be interested but it's probably very difficult to have an event that did not descend into seediness.

I like feet as well as muscle, and I have wondered if muscle worship parties or meetups, could be organized on the same outline basis as foot parties are. I see reference above to "Muscle Mansions' so perhaps they could be.

I would be interested in learning more about what these events were like. I guess they would be considerably more difficult and expensive to organize. There are lots of women with pretty feet interested in attending foot parties, but the pool of available and willing muscular women in a given location is probably going to be considerably less.

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

however, Im a big believer that if you are motivated enough, you get it done and push past the discomforts of any meeting.

That part. The old circumstances - where our main exposure to musclegirls was in magazines - don't exist anymore, but I believe that every era presents its own opportunities. At 50+, I probably couldn't get away with the things I did in my 20s, but I sometimes think about how we struggled to get models when the internet was in its infancy. They all wanted to be in magazines and could care less about websites - "What's that?" lol And yet, 20+ years later, we're still here. We're thankful the fans and models believed in us enough to make it real. And it starts with believing that something is possible.

Even before DtV began sponsoring the Women's Strength Extravaganza, a bunch of us would always gather at the Jan Tana. One of the more memorable superfans, Charles, always gave his favorites a rose. I couldn't have done it! But I always thought it was cool that he had his own trademark.

Ok, I'll stop now.

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

If it was purely a meetup with other fans, then I wouldn't be interested. I just don't see the point, and besides, how would it actually work?

On the other hand, if it was more of a "worship" event with women present, I would be interested but it's probably very difficult to have an event that did not descend into seediness.

I like feet as well as muscle, and I have wondered if muscle worship parties or meetups, could be organized on the same outline basis as foot parties are. I see reference above to "Muscle Mansions' so perhaps they could be.

I would be interested in learning more about what these events were like. I guess they would be considerably more difficult and expensive to organize. There are lots of women with pretty feet interested in attending foot parties, but the pool of available and willing muscular women in a given location is probably going to be considerably less.

It wasn't at Muscle Mansion, but the "worst" thing I ever witnessed a fan do was to sniff a young woman's arm the very first time he met her. No, she was not hurt, but she was absolutely traumatized. Hopefully she's been able to block it out in the ensuing decades, but those who were there definitely remember. It was just a regular gathering for dinner and drinks after one of the shows.

But that was one unfortunate moment out of thousands of encounters.

Sometimes a party can just be what it is and that's enough. The best parties most of us have ever attended were completely unscripted.

Sep 09, 2025 - permalink

It wasn't at Muscle Mansion, but the "worst" thing I ever witnessed a fan do was to sniff a young woman's arm the very first time he met her. No, she was not hurt, but she was absolutely traumatized. Hopefully she's been able to block it out in the ensuing decades, but those who were there definitely remember. It was just a regular gathering for dinner and drinks after one of the shows.

But that was one unfortunate moment out of thousands of encounters.

Sometimes a party can just be what it is and that's enough. The best parties most of us have ever attended were completely unscripted.

What the fuck? Was that dude raised in a barn or something?

Fucking hell that’s embarrassing. Really wished he got his ass whooped by some burly dudes.

Sep 10, 2025 - permalink

If it was purely a meetup with other fans, then I wouldn't be interested. I just don't see the point, and besides, how would it actually work?

On the other hand, if it was more of a "worship" event with women present, I would be interested but it's probably very difficult to have an event that did not descend into seediness.

I like feet as well as muscle, and I have wondered if muscle worship parties or meetups, could be organized on the same outline basis as foot parties are. I see reference above to "Muscle Mansions' so perhaps they could be.

I would be interested in learning more about what these events were like. I guess they would be considerably more difficult and expensive to organize. There are lots of women with pretty feet interested in attending foot parties, but the pool of available and willing muscular women in a given location is probably going to be considerably less.

Worship event . Yeah sure women are going to come to an event with a bunch of weirdos who are only there for them and aren’t even willing to socialise with each other

Sep 10, 2025 - edited Sep 10, 2025 - permalink

I don't know for sure since I was very young in that period. but it seems like in the 90s things were just super weird and different so you could come up with these weird ideas and it would work out well. While if you tried to do those things now most men would think it's dumb or boring or a waste of time while most women think it's perverted or weird. I think back then most women probably didn't even know what a fetish is when they started bodybuilding. now they often hear about that stuff before they start. Maybe it's just because I watched too many dumb movies from that era and it was never really like that.

Sep 10, 2025 - permalink

That weird guy smelling the arm of that girl IS weird like Gatsby said. I'm surprise that girl didn't bitch slap him. Kissing the hand is one thing though but I've never done it nor have I seen it done IRL only on tv but could of just done that.

For this topic maybe open up a strip club with fit girls?!?!

Sep 13, 2025 - permalink

That weird guy smelling the arm of that girl IS weird like Gatsby said. I'm surprise that girl didn't bitch slap him. Kissing the hand is one thing though but I've never done it nor have I seen it done IRL only on tv but could of just done that.

For this topic maybe open up a strip club with fit girls?!?!

Well the muscle strip club is what I exaggeratedly joked about in my early post, but really not a bad idea to solve a problem for many people here by the sounds of it 😂

Sep 14, 2025 - permalink

I wouldn’t attend because some of you guys are weirdos and creep me out.

Sep 14, 2025 - permalink

I would be down just cause it's isolating not knowing anyone that shares this particular interest.

Sep 14, 2025 - permalink

I wouldn’t attend because some of you guys are weirdos and creep me out.

This is unfortunately true. There is a majority of immature and inexperienced dudes on this site. There would need to be some sort of vetting process beforehand so that users of a certain type can meet instead of a free for all. I would not welcome any women to be present at such a meeting because I’m more interested in discussion, sharing of thoughts and perspectives which could be insightful.

Sep 14, 2025 - permalink

Do you think the “weirdos“ on this site aren’t around you every day in actual public settings? The setting provides a check on people‘s behavior.

Some people use the online environment to behave atrociously, in a way they would never do in public in front of other people. Also, people who come off as weird in a text or a message board don’t have any other context to help decode intentions and how their words are perceived. Things are different when you can see someone’s facial expression or hear tone of voice.

Again, this is why socializing in the real world is valuable.

Sep 15, 2025 - permalink

Do you think the “weirdos“ on this site aren’t around you every day in actual public settings? The setting provides a check on people‘s behavior.

Some people use the online environment to behave atrociously, in a way they would never do in public in front of other people. Also, people who come off as weird in a text or a message board don’t have any other context to help decode intentions and how their words are perceived. Things are different when you can see someone’s facial expression or hear tone of voice.

Again, this is why socializing in the real world is valuable.

Also have to keep in mind that a good amount of people are likely either teenagers that don't know any better or in some cases, not native English speakers. The latter can definitely lead to some weird interactions because of how odd some bad translations end up sounding.

Maybe I'm being overly charitable, but like Scythian mentioned, I'd enjoy it mostly because it might make for good discussion. I'd also love to validate myself and make some "normal" friends that share this particular interest because everyone online is just super horny, while IRL there might be some more meaningful conversations.

Sep 15, 2025 - permalink

Maybe I'm being overly charitable, but like Scythian mentioned, I'd enjoy it mostly because it might make for good discussion. I'd also love to validate myself and make some "normal" friends that share this particular interest because everyone online is just super horny, while IRL there might be some more meaningful conversations.

that is a great way to look at it AceAsh.

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Sep 15, 2025 - permalink

Yes. I would love to do this.

12 hours ago - permalink

Like the weirdnest

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