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Have any of you ever visited a world-class bodybuilder's gym and waited for hours in there?
Of course, only to watch her train (nothing more!)
Have any of you ever thought about that?
I waited in the parking lot by her bus after seeing Janet Jackson in concert (Rhythm Nation era).
35 years later, I'm still ashamed of that weirdo-ass behavior.
Barsik is a freak ,why did u stalk people
"Was". He has grown from that time in his life and is sharing honestly
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
There's probably thousands of muscular women crying themselves to sleep each night because they put in all that hard work in the gym and no guy has appeared from the shadows to offer admiration and support. 😢 it's a tragic state of affairs indeed.
Have any of you ever visited a world-class bodybuilder's gym and waited for hours in there?
Of course, only to watch her train (nothing more!)
Have any of you ever thought about that?
No. That's creeper shit that gives us all a bad name. Don't do it.
That kind of stuff and leaving weird comments on girls videos is why they go private or just stop sharing shit. I know a lot of dudes into muscle are weird little incels, that's fine. But let's not let the girls see that. It scares them off. Don't stalk them. Don't comment on their pics and videos. Just enjoy them quietly. Don't ask if they can throat lift you or if their biceps ever rip out of their shirts or weird 12 year old shit like that. PLEASE
No. That's creeper shit that gives us all a bad name. Don't do it.
That kind of stuff and leaving weird comments on girls videos is why they go private or just stop sharing shit. I know a lot of dudes into muscle are weird little incels, that's fine. But let's not let the girls see that. It scares them off. Don't stalk them. Don't comment on their pics and videos. Just enjoy them quietly. Don't ask if they can throat lift you or if their biceps ever rip out of their shirts or weird 12 year old shit like that. PLEASE
Amen, brother!
"Was". He has grown from that time in his life and is sharing honestly
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
There's probably thousands of muscular women crying themselves to sleep each night because they put in all that hard work in the gym and no guy has appeared from the shadows to offer admiration and support. 😢 it's a tragic state of affairs indeed.
A thousands of lonely muscular women crying? On which planet do you live? Elon , help!
There's probably thousands of muscular women crying themselves to sleep each night because they put in all that hard work in the gym and no guy has appeared from the shadows to offer admiration and support. 😢 it's a tragic state of affairs indeed.
Poe's Law. I can't tell whether you're being sarcastic or you're just that fuckin creepy.
Hey, why stop at following her around! Knock her out (this may be the hard part), tie her up, take her home and make her your personal love-doll! What could possibly go wrong?
"Was". He has grown from that time in his life and is sharing honestly
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
There's probably thousands of muscular women crying themselves to sleep each night because they put in all that hard work in the gym and no guy has appeared from the shadows to offer admiration and support. 😢 it's a tragic state of affairs indeed.
It doesn't happen. They are hooked up oh yes.
Have any of you ever visited a world-class bodybuilder's gym and waited for hours in there?
Of course, only to watch her train (nothing more!)
Have any of you ever thought about that?
I don't think I'll do that for any specific bodybuilder
But if there was a muscle mommy training at my gym, I would sure as hell try to match our training schedules so I can watch her workout while I workout
I used to be a IRL stalker
including some crazy activity like cartographing my object moves, taking photos, browsing 24/7, breaking social media profiles etc
but in the end you feel some frustration
it could be signs of some serious shit, visit a doctor Thats where the rush comes from though
The line between pursuing/wooing and stalking is becoming finer and finer. Infatuation is very difficult to control, especially for younger men. Throw in some hormones, anxiety and social awkwardness and it can lead to all kinds of challenging situations. Many of us have found ourselves doing weird stuff in pursuit of someone we're infatuated with.
Whatever it is it's got to be natural. The less attached you are to outcomes the better, but easier said than done with infatuation. Try and remember that all infatuations pass. If you're at a gym watching a woman train then you're gonna stand out and probably get banned or she calls the police on you.
We all like muscular women here. Best place to meet them is the gym. If it helps just find a gym where a few fbbs train, join it and workout, get to know them over time and who knows what could happen. If you're caught creeping though then you could get banned.
I went on a date with my dream woman in my early twenties, you will all know her name but I would never reveal it. She even wanted to come back my place but I was so embarrassed it was a bit of a shit hole. I always kind of regretted it, but made up for it in other ways, sessions etc... She gave me the best advice, which was to just join a gym and get to know women who work out.
I'm older now and friend's with a couple fbbs, dated a few sporty types and done my share of sessions. I remember how intense the infatuations could be. It's not easy being a young man at times. Just try and get some perspective and maybe you'll hit the jackpot at some point.
But it's also worth bearing in mind that the life of an fbb is not easy. And they can be kind of fucked up as well. While they may look awesome, they're not always nice people. What you think is paradise could turn into a nightmare.
Obviously stalking is bad and possibly a crime. Find ways to manage the infatuations where you don't weird people out or be creeping. Easiest way is just to get down the gym and get working out regularly.
As young men we can be way too choosy as well and it's often just based on how we think others will see us if we're with someone, which is super lame. But I fell into that trap a few times. Just relax don't worry about others, be friendly and you'll be making friends with gym girls in no time.
Didn't mean it to be so long. Good luck and don't be stalking anyone.
After all of the Me Too movement stuff, I don't flirt or anything any more. I ask them out once, and they if so "No," then that's that. I move on. You have to. Sign of the times.
After all of the Me Too movement stuff, I don't flirt or anything any more. I ask them out once, and they if so "No," then that's that. I move on. You have to. Sign of the times.
You absolutely don't have to do that. LOL. Well, maybe you do, you could be incredibly creepy for all I know, but normal men have no reason to be afraid of flirting.
Have any of you ever visited a world-class bodybuilder's gym and waited for hours in there?
Of course, only to watch her train (nothing more!)
Have any of you ever thought about that?