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Since you are dating her and afraid of being friend zoned, it sounds like you really like this girl, and so I don't see why knowing how strong she is should matter. And since she sounds like she has very traditional and old-fashioned views on how women should act, it will probably take her a long time before she opens up to you enough that she'd be willing to do any of these requests for you. You also make it sound like she's big in a general way, but perhaps doesn't even workout, which tells me she might not have any interest in muscle or bodybuilding, especially not to the extent that you do.
Pretend your car wont start, ask some buddy how to do it, then ask her to try to push it so you can start. As a 5'11 she might be able to do it if it's some compact vehicle.
Put something under sofa, ask her to lift the sofa so you can grab the lost item, etc. Use your creativity. Find some heavy objects around you and manipulate her to to use her strength in order to help you. If she is traditional, she'll be happy to support you.
Thanks for the all replies. I feel like it is a responsibility to tell how things went with her.
Seems like I assumed too much about her regarding being traditional. I was panicked a bit and didn't know how could I take this further without freaking her out. Apparently she rather takes challenges serious and nervous about them. She got more comfortable with me in the following days. We did wrestle, arm wrestle and some bed actions. I am around 280 pound, not a wimp. okay, she is not stronger than me (Heck most dudes are not either) but she has put up a good fight! I am pleased to find out that she has sizeable mass under some padding. Her back side is meaty and hard (she has been swimming). Even pectorals you can feel and see. She was able to rock me up and down easily when almost all my weight on her one leg in the bed. In arm wrestling, It wasn't hard to put her arm into 45 degree but she gave me around 5 second real trouble to finish (not sure what does this say)
Since you are dating her and afraid of being friend zoned, it sounds like you really like this girl, and so I don't see why knowing how strong she is should matter. And since she sounds like she has very traditional and old-fashioned views on how women should act, it will probably take her a long time before she opens up to you enough that she'd be willing to do any of these requests for you. You also make it sound like she's big in a general way, but perhaps doesn't even workout, which tells me she might not have any interest in muscle or bodybuilding, especially not to the extent that you do.
She has been very active. Swimming and running. It is already very hard to convince an open minded girl to do bb and grow bulky muscles. So it is hitting a jack pot if you cross with someone who already have muscles. Also I don't mind a bit of chub over them (I understand most of people here prefers rippling low body fat bodies)
What about a bowling date? Find a fun way to see if she can use heavy bowling balls.
That's actually good idea! Next time I might try.
Pretend your car wont start, ask some buddy how to do it, then ask her to try to push it so you can start. As a 5'11 she might be able to do it if it's some compact vehicle. Put something under sofa, ask her to lift the sofa so you can grab the lost item, etc. Use your creativity. Find some heavy objects around you and manipulate her to to use her strength in order to help you. If she is traditional, she'll be happy to support you.
Thanks for ideas! I think I won't need to resort these things anymore! Now I need to focus on other romantic aspects of things and encourage her for more resistance training.
Pretend your car wont start, ask some buddy how to do it, then ask her to try to push it so you can start. As a 5'11 she might be able to do it if it's some compact vehicle.
Put something under sofa, ask her to lift the sofa so you can grab the lost item, etc. Use your creativity. Find some heavy objects around you and manipulate her to to use her strength in order to help you. If she is traditional, she'll be happy to support you.
Those are really good ones! A good variation would be to give her something really heavy, but you try to carried it as effortless as you could, and giving it to her asking to hold it. If she grab it really effortless and you were having trouble to hold it straight, that would be an amazing result of her strenght!!
What about a bowling date? Find a fun way to see if she can use heavy bowling balls.
btw, I just found out she is into bowling and she bragged about she uses 16 balls too sometimes. Bowling is very unpopular in my country, I only played couple times long time ago, I don't know if it is a big strength feat.
Update:
I flown to her country. We went to bowling for my birthday. She used 12 and 14 balls. There was no 16 balls in our place. I am sure she could handle it just fine. Our hands are same size.
I had a 40 pounds suitcase (I measured its weight in the airport) and I lifted it up with one arm like in the exercise "dumbell upright row" and asked her if she could do it too. She did it without an effort 😲 I am sure my face showed some struggle while doing it, but hers didn't. Is 40 pounds good weight for this exercise?
We tried back crunching maneuvers. I am 290lbs and showed her a way to do it without full lifting (as I care about her more than my fetishy desires), but pleasantly my feet weren't touching for a split second when she did it 😁 Now I want more of this but can't tell her yet 🤣
We walked a lot, she is around 255 pounds and but in very good shape (as in fitness). Very meaty upper back and legs, her shins and calves are massive muscles. (she ran for 1.5 years even she was like 230 pounds) She climbed hills without heavy breathing while I am all wet from sweating, she enjoyed making fun of me when we were walking and seemed to be proud herself.
I came into conclusion she is even more amazonian than I was thinking. And she is positive about going back to gym and I have a confidence she can be even stronger than me in armwrestling if she touches heavier weights.
Hello people. I started dating with a Eastern European girl. Beside many other qualities, she is 5'11, big boned and strong looking. She is chubby and has thick arms but i was really surprised when I touch her forearms, they were realy solid unexpectedly for their size. I feel like I really hit the jackpot with her.. but she is into traditional gender roles and refuses to arm wrestle and feels shy about it. I am not a wimp at all but I still suspect she is worried to be turned out Stronger, that worries me too at this point because if i lose so obvious way, I might get friend zoned. Do you have any recommendations ? I have a short time before she returns to her country. So no i can't take her to gym and try dumbells. silly challenges partners can do between each other but with out obvious outcome of losing or winning would be perfect. Or let's not be too specific and please give me your recommendations. In longer term I will try to convince her why being a strong woman is not bad.. (And this message is not a fiction or fantasy!)